I asked Ds2 this evening what he wanted for Christmas. You may have noticed that his list is a lot shorter than the other boys. His answer? "I don't know" so I've told him to have a think about it. He rarely asks for anything and with just having had his birthday on Tuesday the few things he had said he wanted he got then. (Fifa 16 and subbuteo)
I've got my mum asking what to get them for Christmas now so I've made a new wish list on amazon, put a comment on each item as to who it could be for and sent her the link. They are all things I was going to buy for them anyway and I'll continue buying from that list but I've filtered out the things I've changed my mind on rather than just opening my old list because there's a few bits I'm not sure on now. I've asked her if she buys something from there elsewhere to let me know so I can take it off the list. I feel a bit cheeky but she did ask for ideas and this way she won't buy doubles when I say things like playskool or imaginext Heroes
My BIL usually asks too then completely disregards what I've said and goes and buys something I've already got so I may offer the link when he asks.
Hopefully I will find more for Ds2 other wise everyone will be fighting to get the 2-3 ideas on the wish list for him.
In a way it's nice that he has everything he wants or needs and isn't greedy, last year was the same, he asked for surprises. However he was still kind of into toys and had a bit more free time for games. This year he is doing even more football training after being accepted into a development centre, and his interests have narrowed as week. I'm sure we will get there but I don't want to buy things for the sake of it. I want him to love or be able to make use of every gift from us.