Ooooooo they get everywhere these friends!!
I have one in particular who tried for years to get preg and sucedded 1st time with IVF...she became very "precious" throughout her pregnancy to the point we were all so frustrated as she had a lovely pregnancy no ms nothing at all until 31 weeks when she ahd a slight bleed and they discovered she had placenta previa and was admitted until she was 39 weeks and had a planned section. I know they went through alot to get pregnant and I was so pleased when it worked 1st time (something she takes forgranted) as another friend who lives in England tried on 4 occassions but was unable to concieve and in the end couldnt afford to continue.
Anyways I had a chemical pregnancy which was quite public and have had bad ms to the point of almost being admitted to hospital, UTI after UTI causing sickness, carpel tunnel, gestational diabetes, aneamia...not gonna go on but every time I saw her she asked how I was and I would say I am good but now I have Blah....and her reply was always at least you dont have placenta previa! I mean WTF???? I know I dont and I am very grateful but dont ask how I am then sling that at me!!
Even on my leaving day when I got a gift from work she whinged infront of everyone I never got that I never got this....she did she was just in hospital so we had a few of us give it to her.
I was talking about how I was nesting and she pipes up I was denied of that because of being in hospital. ARGHHHHHHHHHHHH!!!!!
I have came to the point now where she texts everyday sometimes twice to ask how I am and I just cant bere to reply as I am sore and grumpy and know what will come back.
Gosh I have gone on a rant there
Sorry!
Ignore her....you will have our own birth and have had your own pregnancy experience as after all noone has the same feelings as you! We can have similar but not the same.
Emma.xx