Thank you!
Yes we called him Xander, I can't believe he was 9.12lbs and I didn't tear!!!
It was agonising though, the labour felt so intense and I was thoroughly in control of the pain which made it worse.
My midwife happened to be a third year student who I have known since I was 17, she asked if I minded and actually it was so comforting to know someone on a personal level.
It honestly came from nowhere so please don't get disheartened like I was doing!
I went for a long walk round the shopping centre on Monday, maybe that helped!!! Xxx