lap and dye this Friday (19th)

[laustiredttc]

oh hear, your still early hun. Try not to get deflated, its not over till she rears her ugly head

 

[curlygurl]

Hey Ladies! I am good. Was going to crack and test this morning...but didn't want to be sad so I think I will test either tomorrow or Wed. I think AF is due tomorrow.

Hear --- it is STILL super early for you. Hang in there, like lau said its not over until you get AF!

lau- I have had spotting around O time but it was mostly pinkish...maybe its from Bding?

I am trying to stay positive and keep my mind off of things as much as I can, and I am trying to do stuff - usually I don't do things during the TWW thinking it will prevent me from getting pregnant - now I am just enjoying myself, and trying very hard to just let things happen. After all how many babies are concieved after drunken one night stands? LOL.

My fingers are crossed for all of us!!

 

[wishinforbub]

hey Hear, keep your hopes up...it's true what the girls say - it's ot over until AF rears her ugly head x

Curly, try and hold out testing if you can...it will be all the more special I think!

I'm about 6dpo....have decided to jut keep on bd'ing every other day until AF comes along - they say it can happen any time of the month so why not keep trying?!

Everything's crossed girls....everything!!

 

[HearMyPrayers]

True ladies. I just can't imagine a BFP so I just always expect a negative anyway! I feel like af will be here very soon.

 

[HearMyPrayers]

Tested again this morning with FMU

I think I'm out this month. I just dont "feel" pregnant.

 

[Becktoria]

Hi ladies,
Had lap and dye done, had cyst removed and adhesions. When can I take a proper bath? I've had showers but I'm dying for a soak in the bath. I've read it can range from 7days to 14! I had op done in the 6th so nearly 2 weeks, I've not had soak in bath as I'm petrified of getting an infection been through enough in past 18 months so I've been trying to avoid one for 14days. Stitches all seem to be healing nice. Am I being overly cautious should I just jump straight in! Haha xxx

 

[laustiredttc]

hey hear, sorry about the bfn huni, and i know what you mean about always expecting a neg. I have been trying to do some pos thinking but last nite i just totally broke down and had a big whinge. Feel better for it though. Hear, keep ya chin up hun

Curly, did you test today? excited to hear the result

wish, gosh you must have some stamina girl. I have already given up lol

beck, i think you should be ok to take a bath hun, just make sure you dry your stitches off properly afterwards

afm, well i am starting to think that i havent O at all this month now. Still no peak on cbfm and i ALWAYS get a peak on it. Also ff is saying i not O either. Its just strange though because i had the mid cycle spotting and also got three REALLY pos opk's?

I dont know, but i have decided to do what curly is doing and just chilling out and enjoying the little luxuries in life, like right now, sitting here with a lovely chilled pinio grigio....... beautiful

 

[HearMyPrayers]

Your right ladies! I said to myself at the start of my next cycle I'm gonna start working out! Taking care of myself again! Keep my mind occupied and off ttc, bfps, dpo, clomid, follcle sizes, triggering....the list can go on and on! I feel I need a mental break so next cycle I'm gonna go through the motions, take the pills go for the monitoring but I'm not going to invest mentally into it!

Beck I agree with Lau I think you should be ok to bath just keep pat the stiches dry when your done!

Curly I'm thinking about you! Wondering if your testing yet!?!?

 

[DanisMomma]

Wow, how many of you were sedated for the procedures? I wasn't! I had great health insurance too! A bit of advice... if there is an option to be sedated, take it! I did both the HSG and LAP on the same day... for me, the LAP was worse than being in labor with my daughter! Best of luck to you.

 

[laustiredttc]

oh my gosh i have to ask, is that even legal? i dont think that sounds right hun? If so that is one scary way of doing it. i admire your bravery!!

 

[Becktoria]

Thanks ladies, I had a lovely bath last night, love my baths!
Can I ask another question? Was your period late after lap? I have had 2 laps before but never had scar tissue removed or cysts and period always arrived on time. But this time I'm due on tomorrow and no niggly pains or aches? I can't see it arriving. Any advice would be much appreciated xxx

 

[HearMyPrayers]

Thanks ladies, I had a lovely bath last night, love my baths!
Can I ask another question? Was your period late after lap? I have had 2 laps before but never had scar tissue removed or cysts and period always arrived on time. But this time I'm due on tomorrow and no niggly pains or aches? I can't see it arriving. Any advice would be much appreciated xxx

Oh yay! I love my baths too

Mine was delayed BIG TIME! My period had started on 9/24 last about 7 days then had my surgery 10/19 and didnt get my period till 11/22. So about 56 days from my period in September till the one I got in November.

 

[HearMyPrayers]

Wow, how many of you were sedated for the procedures? I wasn't! I had great health insurance too! A bit of advice... if there is an option to be sedated, take it! I did both the HSG and LAP on the same day... for me, the LAP was worse than being in labor with my daughter! Best of luck to you.

OMG! I could understand the HSG unsedated but the lap!! NO WAY!! I was completed put to sleep knocked out cold lol! that is crazy girl! What did they do when they made the incisions? did they freeze you at all? I dont understand why they did that! its almost inhumane!

 

[DanisMomma]

Sorry, it wasn't a LAP... lol! It's been a while. When I heard "incision" I had to google it. It was the Hysterosonogram, which was really unpleasant for me. Ouch! Perhaps it hurt so much because I just did the HSG test 30 minutes prior.

 

[curlygurl]

Hi Ladies! Hope everyone is good. I wound up testing Monday night and BFP! I still cannot believe it! I went this morning and had a blood test to confirm, I go again on Friday to make sure my levels are rising. I am still in shock, and since the only other time I was pregnant ended so soon, I am a little nervous but I am trying really hard to be positive. The only person I told was my mom.

How is everyone else doing?

Other than the slight nauseaus feeling, and my sore boobs (which actually stopped being sore), I haven't really "felt pregnant" either. So Hear - please don't count yourself out! I have faith that it will work for all of us!!!

 

[HearMyPrayers]

CURLY!!! I'm so happy for you!!! Way to go girl!!! Fingers crossed for a sticky bean! I'm positive I'm out AF is on the verge I can sense her presence!

But I'm so happy for you please keep updating on your levels and how your feeling.

 

[wishinforbub]

Curly what wonderful news! So happy for you I hope your increased hormone levels rub off on all the rest of us over the internet! Lets sprinkle some more and see if it can't happen very soon for the rest of us too!

 

[curlygurl]

Thank you!!!! I hope that it definitely rubs off on all of you!

I really hope that you all will get yours soon too!

I will let you know what happens on Friday!

 

[laustiredttc]

oh my gosh curly thats fantastic news hun, congratulations What a wonderful way to spend christmas. I hope the levels continue rising huni, keep us updated. And i hope you have a h&h 9 months

 

[laustiredttc]

oh forgot to say, im travelling up north to see family tomorrow girls so prob wont be on here much. Just wanted to say thank you all so much for all of the support you have given me, dont know where i would be without you ladies

I hope you all have a wonderful xmas with your families and the new year brings you all good fortune. MERRY CHRISTMAS