Leinzlove
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There is nothing wrong with long engagements. Maybe you'll have your flower girl. Won't that be something? It's better not to rush. Most definitley follow Dr.'s orders. That has to be hard. I wonder what you'll do when you have more children.
I rushed in a lot of ways. I was friends with DH for 2 months, We moved in together after 3 months together, then it slowed a bit. We got engaged when we were together 9 months, married after we were together 23 months. And now we've been together 10 years in December and Married 8 years in November. Time keeps on flying.
We waited for babies because I'm the oldest of 10 children. I played mother hen and needed a break. I took one and DH was in no hurry. We did so many things as a couple. Then one day we thought we were ready and gave up after an unprotected 3 days. We got cold feet. A year later I came home to roses and a note... Saying ready when you are. I happily agreed it was so romantic. We got pg that same month NTNP and DD came 6 months before our 6th wedding anniversary.
We did know that when we tried. We wanted to be ready for 2... close together. And here we are now planning for 3 close together and done.
I rushed in a lot of ways. I was friends with DH for 2 months, We moved in together after 3 months together, then it slowed a bit. We got engaged when we were together 9 months, married after we were together 23 months. And now we've been together 10 years in December and Married 8 years in November. Time keeps on flying.
We waited for babies because I'm the oldest of 10 children. I played mother hen and needed a break. I took one and DH was in no hurry. We did so many things as a couple. Then one day we thought we were ready and gave up after an unprotected 3 days. We got cold feet. A year later I came home to roses and a note... Saying ready when you are. I happily agreed it was so romantic. We got pg that same month NTNP and DD came 6 months before our 6th wedding anniversary.
We did know that when we tried. We wanted to be ready for 2... close together. And here we are now planning for 3 close together and done.