Let's welcome Soy to this cycle!!!! 42 BFP's so far!!!!

[FloridaGirl21]

sorry about AF autigers and Madrid you're charts were looking so fab

 

[mrsp1969]

well that was hard my partners daughter had her baby girl last night shes so adorable it did upset me to hold her has i feel i will never do it again with my own hisw other daughter is due next week and she dont even want her and has not told any1 she is pregnant only family she even asked me if i wanted her wow sum people dont realise how lucky they are xx

 

[Madrid98]

If she has said that to you I'd take the baby. She's definitely not ready at least yet; maybe her heart will change as soon as she sees the lovely face.

 

[mrsp1969]

If she has said that to you I'd take the baby. She's definitely not ready at least yet; maybe her heart will change as soon as she sees the lovely face.

thats what we think but she already has 2 the youngest is with his dad she never bothered with him she has bought nothing for this 1 and it has not been mentioned on facebook it breaks my heart i would give anything to be in her position we have spoken to the social worker and the fathers family have the 1st option otherwise i would have her in a heartbeat the 1 that had a baby last night has to go back to court this month to see if she can keep her has she has 1 in care it makes my blood boil that they can have babies so easily and just blatantly neglect them sorry for the rant its been a hard day xx

 

[Madrid98]

If she has said that to you I'd take the baby. She's definitely not ready at least yet; maybe her heart will change as soon as she sees the lovely face.

thats what we think but she already has 2 the youngest is with his dad she never bothered with him she has bought nothing for this 1 and it has not been mentioned on facebook it breaks my heart i would give anything to be in her position we have spoken to the social worker and the fathers family have the 1st option otherwise i would have her in a heartbeat the 1 that had a baby last night has to go back to court this month to see if she can keep her has she has 1 in care it makes my blood boil that they can have babies so easily and just blatantly neglect them sorry for the rant its been a hard day xx

No wonder it makes you upset!! I'd be furious if I were you!! Haven't they every heard about birth control? Come on!, we aren't in medieval times. If you don't want babies is easier than it use to be.
Be patient hun! It isn't an easy situation to be around though.

 

[Madrid98]

Hi pinky! Welcome to our thread!! I know is tooooooo long to read but maybe you can just read the last few pages or so. You mentioned you have to go back to doctors soon; I'll advice you to get all your questions ready for before you are there. Make sure they do tests or give you whatever may be necessary for you to be able to start a proper cycle from fresh.

Good luck!!

 

[Pinky32]

Hi pinky! Welcome to our thread!! I know is tooooooo long to read but maybe you can just read the last few pages or so. You mentioned you have to go back to doctors soon; I'll advice you to get all your questions ready for before you are there. Make sure they do tests or give you whatever may be necessary for you to be able to start a proper cycle from fresh.

Good luck!!

Thanks hun

I read the first few pages and now reading the last few lol

I started a proper AF today which has excited me!!!! I just went to the supermarket to see if they had any soy but they didnt

when do you start taking it? If you tell me the 1st day of AF then im buggered lol

Yeah ive got a pelvic ultrasound on sat 7th jan as all the blood tests ive had recently have all come up normal

im hoping its just the bcp getting out of my system but my cycles seem to be getting longer

My doc is used to me now - each time i go i take my little notebook which i dont even bother reading to him, i just hand it to him to read lol

 

[Pinky32]

well that was hard my partners daughter had her baby girl last night shes so adorable it did upset me to hold her has i feel i will never do it again with my own hisw other daughter is due next week and she dont even want her and has not told any1 she is pregnant only family she even asked me if i wanted her wow sum people dont realise how lucky they are xx

MrsP - my heart goes out to you

You are a very strong lady for being there and holding the baby - and then giving it back! I would have just run off with it

Its not an easy situation to be in, even if you didnt want your own child, just to know that this girl keeps having babies that she doesnt want.

It angers me that pple who dont want children seem to get pregnant at the drop of a hat - sods law i guess

Anyway, your strong, and you can get thru this and although im a newbie to this thread, im sure i can speak for the other girls when i say, we;re here for you

 

[Madrid98]

You can take it either cd1-5, cd2-6, cd3-7 or cd5-9. I guess it could also be 4-8 but that isn't so common. The latest is 5-9. Later than that isn't recommended because you may delay O. Have you tried Tesco's? That's the one many of us used. I can send you what I have left as I'm not using it ever again if you like. It doesn't help me any more so there's no point.

 

[Pinky32]

You can take it either cd1-5, cd2-6, cd3-7 or cd5-9. I guess it could also be 4-8 but that isn't so common. The latest is 5-9. Later than that isn't recommended because you may delay O. Have you tried Tesco's? That's the one many of us used. I can send you what I have left as I'm not using it ever again if you like. It doesn't help me any more so there's no point.

Can you take it if your on angus castus?

I started taking that about 1 1/2 weeks ago and AF started today on CD54 im over the moon!!!

I have a tesco down the road from me so i;ll check it out tomorrow - thank you so much for your offer, why doesnt it help you? did it just not work on you?

 

[Madrid98]

You can't take it with agnus cactus, i.e. vitex as they counteract each other.

It worked for me the very first time when I got my bfp and I managed to O on cd14 but the last 2 times I've used it, didn't work at all. O came on the same day it was coming after the mc so I guess my body doesn't respond to it as well as it used to.

I was just now reading about a shorter LP & also about irregular cycles. It says that sometimes irregular cycles make us mc because the body has been for too long without cleaning itself so there are probably rests inside and the little bean doesn't implant properly.
Also the short LP, which I'm having since the mc, could be cause by an inappropriate O. Not releasing an adequate eggy & not enough hormones to keep it going until 14dpo.
Either way, they recommend to take vitamin B6 and that's another thing I'll be adding to my new plan for this cycle.

 

[Pinky32]

You can't take it with agnus cactus, i.e. vitex as they counteract each other.

It worked for me the very first time when I got my bfp and I managed to O on cd14 but the last 2 times I've used it, didn't work at all. O came on the same day it was coming after the mc so I guess my body doesn't respond to it as well as it used to.

I was just now reading about a shorter LP & also about irregular cycles. It says that sometimes irregular cycles make us mc because the body has been for too long without cleaning itself so there are probably rests inside and the little bean doesn't implant properly.
Also the short LP, which I'm having since the mc, could be cause by an inappropriate O. Not releasing an adequate eggy & not enough hormones to keep it going until 14dpo.
Either way, they recommend to take vitamin B6 and that's another thing I'll be adding to my new plan for this cycle.

It makes sense about irregular cyles and not been cleaned etc

Im not sure when I ov as ive never had a strong positive result on an OPK, ive had faint lines but never one where the test line is anywhere near to same colour as control line

I came off bcp in august and was ntnp and then with nov's AF decided to ttc properly - I dont get EWCM the most ive ever noticed is watery cm but thats not often

I asked my doc if i could be tested to check that I Ov and normally he is great with anything but this time he just said that he didnt think the tests would help as the results arent very good

If the results of the ultrasound scan come back normal then i will push him further - i dont want to waste each month thinking im ttc if im not even Ov'ing

 

[mrsp1969]

well that was hard my partners daughter had her baby girl last night shes so adorable it did upset me to hold her has i feel i will never do it again with my own hisw other daughter is due next week and she dont even want her and has not told any1 she is pregnant only family she even asked me if i wanted her wow sum people dont realise how lucky they are xx

MrsP - my heart goes out to you

You are a very strong lady for being there and holding the baby - and then giving it back! I would have just run off with it

Its not an easy situation to be in, even if you didnt want your own child, just to know that this girl keeps having babies that she doesnt want.

It angers me that pple who dont want children seem to get pregnant at the drop of a hat - sods law i guess

Anyway, your strong, and you can get thru this and although im a newbie to this thread, im sure i can speak for the other girls when i say, we;re here for you

welcome aboard pinky and thankyou it is sods law but i hold onto the hope that it will happen 4 all of us this year xx

 

[Pinky32]

Totally off the subject - but im lost and confused lol

Ive subscribed to this thread but when i click on "user CP" its not there!

Does it only show up in user CP if someone has replied to it?

 

[Pinky32]

well that was hard my partners daughter had her baby girl last night shes so adorable it did upset me to hold her has i feel i will never do it again with my own hisw other daughter is due next week and she dont even want her and has not told any1 she is pregnant only family she even asked me if i wanted her wow sum people dont realise how lucky they are xx

MrsP - my heart goes out to you

You are a very strong lady for being there and holding the baby - and then giving it back! I would have just run off with it

Its not an easy situation to be in, even if you didnt want your own child, just to know that this girl keeps having babies that she doesnt want.

It angers me that pple who dont want children seem to get pregnant at the drop of a hat - sods law i guess

Anyway, your strong, and you can get thru this and although im a newbie to this thread, im sure i can speak for the other girls when i say, we;re here for you

welcome aboard pinky and thankyou it is sods law but i hold onto the hope that it will happen 4 all of us this year xx

Trust me hunnie when i say that this time next year, we will all be moaning that we couldnt go out newyears eve as we are upto our armpits in dirty nappies and no baby-sitter to be seen!

Believe!! It WILL happen!

 

[mrsp1969]

You can't take it with agnus cactus, i.e. vitex as they counteract each other.

It worked for me the very first time when I got my bfp and I managed to O on cd14 but the last 2 times I've used it, didn't work at all. O came on the same day it was coming after the mc so I guess my body doesn't respond to it as well as it used to.

I was just now reading about a shorter LP & also about irregular cycles. It says that sometimes irregular cycles make us mc because the body has been for too long without cleaning itself so there are probably rests inside and the little bean doesn't implant properly.
Also the short LP, which I'm having since the mc, could be cause by an inappropriate O. Not releasing an adequate eggy & not enough hormones to keep it going until 14dpo.
Either way, they recommend to take vitamin B6 and that's another thing I'll be adding to my new plan for this cycle.

It makes sense about irregular cyles and not been cleaned etc

Im not sure when I ov as ive never had a strong positive result on an OPK, ive had faint lines but never one where the test line is anywhere near to same colour as control line

I came off bcp in august and was ntnp and then with nov's AF decided to ttc properly - I dont get EWCM the most ive ever noticed is watery cm but thats not often

I asked my doc if i could be tested to check that I Ov and normally he is great with anything but this time he just said that he didnt think the tests would help as the results arent very good

If the results of the ultrasound scan come back normal then i will push him further - i dont want to waste each month thinking im ttc if im not even Ov'ing

hi pinky i dont ovulate at all since having the mirena out 16 months ago i started the soy last cycle and had ewcm for the 1st time on cd 10 my cycles were irregular the longest being 62 days that was nov the soy put my cycle back to 22 days af arrived xmas day that was hard lol but ive upped my dose and taken 3x 160mg and 2x 200mg im on cd 8 and ive noticed ewcm today xx

 

[Pinky32]

Wow! So soy really has worked for you! thats brilliant

I get annoyed with doctors though - you should have to wait 16 months and then do something yourself about it

But then i suppose thats why their called GP's - general and not specialists

I really really wish you tons of sounds like your body is really on the right track now

 

[mrsp1969]

Wow! So soy really has worked for you! thats brilliant

I get annoyed with doctors though - you should have to wait 16 months and then do something yourself about it

But then i suppose thats why their called GP's - general and not specialists

I really really wish you tons of sounds like your body is really on the right track now

the doctors wont help me i have 3 grown up children and they said i do not qualify for fertility treatment so im on my own im really hoping the soy works this is my last chance xx

 

[Pinky32]

Thats stupid - who cares how many children you have already

We're not in china where your only allowed one!

Sorry that first sentance sounded rude, but it shouldnt matter if you have children or not

 

[Madrid98]

Totally off the subject - but im lost and confused lol

Ive subscribed to this thread but when i click on "user CP" its not there!

Does it only show up in user CP if someone has replied to it?

Once you reply it should be on the User cp area as soon as we reply. That's odd isn't working for you!

Wow! So soy really has worked for you! thats brilliant

I get annoyed with doctors though - you should have to wait 16 months and then do something yourself about it

But then i suppose thats why their called GP's - general and not specialists

I really really wish you tons of sounds like your body is really on the right track now

They aren't specialists and they have been trained to not send anybody to specialist unless is very urgent.

Mine was uncomfortable when I went to tell him about my 2nd mc. Maybe guilty conscience as he refused to send me to the Early Pregnancy Unit 4 weeks before it happened to check if everything was ok or not.

I advice you to take B6 straight away pinky and Julie. It'll help us with our O so that they are stronger.