Limbo Ladies!!

[ClaireMuir123]

I'm thinking of the coil after bubbs is born, I can't bring myself to ask hubby to have the snip or me have my tubes tied. Even though this is my last, I don't think I could ever have that 'it's definately final' moment My sis has the coil and she very rarely bleeds either. So I'm thinking that's my best bet at the mo, but willing to look at others.

I think little miss noodles is very low aswell, when I sit down in my car it's like I'm squishing her head! Don't really remember it with Jayden and it's really uncomfortable.

And all kids have their days, my son is like Jeckle and Hyde today and it's doing my head in! Smacked his hand earlier for biting my finger! Wee shit sometimes lol xxx

 

[MrsPOP]

Oh gosh, loads to catch up on!

My crap week continues, sent home from work today and have been having lots of cramps in lower part of my bump. They've calmed down a bit but I was *this* close to going back into hospital!!!!

 

[Barbles]

I had the coil Claire before I got pregnant, I used to bleed for about half a day and it was barely nothing, only needed a panty liner. THe only problem I had with it was pains, i used to get these pains in my hips and back that i assumed was because I was overweight and a bit of SPD left over form having Phoebe, a doctor said the same. My coil started to fall out so I had it removed, never had the pains again so it must have been the coil its the the only thing stopping me having it again.

Im really not keen on OH having the snip either, I have tried to tell him to wait but he has made his mind up, he says he is 32, has his girly and boy and doesnt want anything more. I can sort of see his point and I know it makes sense for just the two as they each will have their own room etc but no more BABIES its a sad thought. I would much rather have him done than me though, I would never have my tubes done.

MrsPop Im sorry your week has got worse, you are really going through the mill arent you rest up and take it easy this weekend hunny xxx

 

[Rachyroux]

Contraception I have no idea what we'll be using.
Condoms really don't work well with us, and last time I went on the pill, I put on 2 stone in a month and developed FULL ON acne which i'd only just finished treatment after years of trying to get rid of it.

Maybe the PCOS reacted with the pill but not going there again. So no idea. Was thinking about the implant but then that story came out about how they're not as effective as initially thought.

And because of the PCOS thing I feel like I'm in the wrong being on contraception because PCOS is the main cause of infertility!
So lost on what to do. Originally thought I'd have one more after her pretty much with a small gap in between, then not have any more.
As apparently you're better having them young with PCOS and the older you get, the worse the PCOS gets. BLEH I don't know. We can hardly afford one baby let alone two children. I just get paranoid that my fertility will die or something in the next few years and then i'll regret not having another baby.
Plus feeling pretty glum as my OH is saying he might not want another one after we have her. How can he even say that at 24 before he's even met his daughter? grr. I want more than one. Git.

Phew. Breather.

MrsPOP- feel better soon hun if you get any worse be sure to give someone a ring. xx

Claire- I'm pretty much extremely uncomfortable all the time now. Lying on either side, sitting up, standing. Haha.

Sequeena & Kim- thankyou, hope these viewings next week go well. Then take out a huge overdraft to afford to move out and crawl out of it hopefully instead of getting into a hole! xx

 

[sequeena]

I have no idea what to do for contraception. I was only on the pill for a few months as a teenager to regulate my period and when I got with my oh we just used condoms until ttc

 

[xxMichellexx]

I have nooooooooooo idea about contraception either, when i was 16 i used the pill, and i got pregnant (didnt carry on with pregnancy) and this time around, i had the injection in the september and had sex in the october and fell pregnant. I was silly for not giving my body time to adjust, but hey ho contraception with me = babies. xxxxxxxxxxx

 

[Barbles]

Urg another rant from me, Im Hellish!!

My uncle had a go at me on FB, pft!!! Bit of backrground, my uncle is disabled from motorbike accident when he was 18, he is now 50. He has had a lot of problems and has always lived at home and never really intereracted with anyone outside the family etc so doesnt have great social skills. He has recently got a laptop and discovered FB and the internet. The thing is he doesnt understand it, he has 11 friends on FB, me, a couple of my uncles and the rest are his carers and all he does is tell my mum what Im doing (and as you all know Im pretty boring ) and rants about his carers etc. He told my mum there were pictures of me cuddling up to other men and I was swearing etc, there were a couple of me with my cousin and I hardly swear on FB. He was putting pictures of my mum and dad on there but photoshopping them to look stupid so my mum asked him to stop, she wasnt happy.

Anyways last night he adds a photolink saying about my mum and dad being in America, I cliclked the link and it leads to all my mum and dads photos from their trip to New York with their friends. Now I knew my mum would go mad, he hasnt got a right to put their pcitures of FB, especially as they include pictures of their friends etc ( my mum had emailed him them to look at when he first got his laptop).
So I put 'I dont think you should put pictures of mum and dad on FB, the wouldnt like it xx'
I get this back this morning 'Amanda, they are only bloody pictures, I think you are going over the top, they have gone now anyway. Im going to put them on Myspace so have a look on there'

Arg, how dare he? i thought my message was ok and now he says this, I know it may not seem strong to others but believe me this a strong message form my uncle, he will have a strop on with me for days now. He just doesnt understand that you cant just post pictures of other people, especially as my mum has told him before she doesnt want them up. He doesnt understand the internet at all and I dread to think what he is up to, he was telling my mum that there was porn on FB the other day and the things he saw.... have you EVER seen any links to porn on FB because I havent, Im pretty sure it wouldnt be allowed.

I havent replied yet, I was going to write 'but they are not your pictures to put up' but I dont want to get drawn into an argument so Im going to leave it, will tell my mum though in a bit when she will be awake.

Im going to block him I think

Rah my first rant of the day and its only 8am

 

[Rachyroux]

Aw Barbles! I would feel just as if not more annoyed. It's like an invasion of privacy. I got rid of facebook because It got too much for me. Too personal and contributed when my OH was talking to his ex. So can't stand it. I would block him but that's just me haha.
Hopefully your mum can have a word and put accross how serious it is to just put other peoples photos on the internet.

Don't worry, I was woken up this morning by my OH jumping out of bed at 8;45 swearing and throwing things going "i'm going to be late again" "can't find my effing keys"
And I had to get ready to leave in 2 minutes, could only find one shoe (I was staying at his) so had to wear stupid boots with white summery trousers, my hair was greasy and shoved back. No make up, getting stressed by him swearing and slaamming doors and stomping about. Next time the alarm goes off at 8.05 I WILL drag him out of bed. Stressful morning. grr.

 

[xxMichellexx]

Did anyone watch that 'Inside the human body' programme, it was really amazing. All about creation. Im someone who is struggling to bond with my baby still, and sometimes forget i am pregnant, but after watching it it made me feel so proud that this one little 'swimmer' got through, it really really was amazing xxxx

 

[ClaireMuir123]

I feel exactly the same michelle, even though I love my baby girl I don't feel quite 'bonded' yet and when I seen that programme, it was just amazing! We only DTD once in the month of Nov cycle and to think that ONE sperm got my little eggy, it really is a complete miracle! xxx

 

[xxMichellexx]

I feel exactly the same michelle, even though I love my baby girl I don't feel quite 'bonded' yet and when I seen that programme, it was just amazing! We only DTD once in the month of Nov cycle and to think that ONE sperm got my little eggy, it really is a complete miracle! xxx

I know, i was literally shocked at how good the programe was! I loved it!!! xxx

 

[Barbles]

Pointless really but 4 years ago today my life changed forever. I got a BFP with Phoebe. I was 6 weeks pregnant and only did the test under pressure from my friend. i never thought in a million years I was pregnant.

And here I am on number two lol

Hope everyone is well today?

xx

 

[ClaireMuir123]

Awww amanda that's sweet! I got mine on 5th July 2007! And last year on the date I updated my facebook status to 'Just found out I'm pregnant!........... is what I would have posted this time 3 years ago! Haha! Got you!' sooooo many people fell for it lol. Was so funny!

I'm in the huff today, can't really figure out why but I'm pretty sure alan has done something to piss me off

I'm struggling so much to come up with a girls name I can't think of any I really love! My fave at the moment is Leah Grace Gemma (Grace Gemma is definately going to be the middle name) but I keep looking at different names. I didn't find it so hard with Jayden, I wonder if it's to do with the face I know she's a girl and can't come up with anything good enough for my girl? Oh I don't know lol, someone help me! xxx

 

[MrsPOP]

I like Leah. Its very pretty

 

[Rachyroux]

That is sweet
I'm still absolutely set on Layla, and I think OH is slowly coming round a little bit but still doesn't love the name. His family also made a few unecessary comments today about it after asking me what name I like, I'm a firm believer in two things
If you don't have anything nice to say, don't say it at all.
&
Keep your trap shut if there's a hormonal pregnant woman in the room.
They annoyed me huge amounts today. Unwanted advice after unwanted advice and unwanted opinions on the name I really love for our little girl. His mother even said "It's your baby at the end of the day as long as you like it.." But then continued to say how she wasn't keen. Sigh.
Others I like are;

Olivia
Evie
Megan
Molly
Milly
Mia
Sophia
Lola
Lilly
Anabelle
Isabelle
Phoebe
Maisy

 

[sequeena]

Girls names used in my family are (dunno if they'll help)

Sarah
Amy Louise
Abbie Marie
Natasha jade
Leah Faye
Maisie Ann
Kimberely
Ruby

 

[xxMichellexx]

Claire ive been exactly the same as you, but a week ago i was introduced to Esme Rose and i fell in love. You will find that name you love, and theres no rush.

How is everyone today? Im bored and i miss my boyfriend soooooooo much i havnt seen him for over 3 weeks now xxxx

 

[ClaireMuir123]

I'd love a twilight inspired name but hubby just isn't going for it at all! Esme Rose is just gorgeous If I was having a boy I'd literally have begged hubby to let me have Cullen as a middle name

xxxx

 

[Barbles]

We have always found boys names easy (Phoebe would have been Jacob or Finlay) but got stuck on girls names.

We liked...

Imogen
Ava
Sadie Grace
Amelie
Phoebe's middle name is Megan which I love too.

And I loved Esme and Rosalie but OH didnt. Luckily I gotta bit of Twilight in there Claire lol but it was chosen years ago before I even discovered it.

Feeling good today, had a good nights sleep again, at work but still only 3 weeks left

Going to clear the pit that I call 'my' drawer at work today. I job share with another lady (aka dingbat) and her drawer is so neat and tidy lol mine is full of old sweet wrappers, manky tea bags, bis of scrap paper, and various crisps, biscuits and powedered milk crushed at the bottom my boss would have a fit if she saw it haha

 

[ClaireMuir123]

Yep, a boys 1st name would most definately have been Rhys (with a possible middle name of Cullen ) but girls name I cannot decide on! I always wondered how people could NOT have a name if they knew the sex, but I'm just finding it soo hard! Grrrr lol.

My drawer is the same at work, loads of bit of paper, sweet wrappers and all sorted but I never got time to tidy it, bit late now! Hehe xxxx