fab thanks Stinas.
One more q - do you think I have BDed too many times this cycle??
Is there such a thing as too much BD?
I have been told that too much sometimes doesnt give his body enough time to replenish the swimmers
There are 2 ways of thinking on this one, every other day allows sperm to replenish, therefore there are more there.
The other way is that the difference in replenished sperm is minimal and every day or twice a day allows for a constant renewal of fresh sperm, which are more likely to live till you have ovulated.
If I know tell you my other half has a really low motility and low sperm count and we BD'd this cycle the day before, day of and day after ovulation which resulted in my BFP, I would say you can't do too much. It may be that that storing up for 5 days before the day before ovulation BD made a difference, really not sure. Am going to give the doctor my chart on Tuesday as he said natural conception was not going to happen and referred us for fertility treatment.