long cycles support thread :) the yelping vaginas club! (closed group)

[Rachel789]

Good luck today Caroline, I can't wait to hear how everything goes and see a pic!

Louise/Bex-I was just looking at your tickers and I can't believe how far along you both are already, wow time flies!

Bethany-I hope all is well with you

Nat-Where have you been? I hope everything is ok, we miss our original yelping vagina, come back!

Katya-We haven't heard from you for a bit either. How's the weight loss going? Keep it up!

 

[cmwilson]

Well ladies I have bad news once again. While the baby was measuring the right size, the heart rate was only 70 which means there is a 90 percent chance I'm going to miscarry. If I don't start bleeding I go in for a follow up ultrasound on the 8th. I am not optimistic.

I'm going to take a little break from bnb but know that I am thinking of all you.

 

[NewMrs2011]

Caroline I'm so sorry to hear that, it's not what I was expecting to see when I came on here and I dunno wat else to say thinking of you and your dh

 

[seabean]

Oh my goodness Caroline - my heart is aching for you! I don't know what the heart rate number means, but I really hope it doesn't happen and that you are in the 10%. All my prayers to you and your husband.

 

[rmsh1]

Good luck today Caroline, I can't wait to hear how everything goes and see a pic!

Louise/Bex-I was just looking at your tickers and I can't believe how far along you both are already, wow time flies!

Bethany-I hope all is well with you

Nat-Where have you been? I hope everything is ok, we miss our original yelping vagina, come back!

Katya-We haven't heard from you for a bit either. How's the weight loss going? Keep it up!

I keep thinking the MS has gone, but nope, another vomiting episode last night. I am not going to attempt fish again, last night was my first attempt for about 8 weeks. I just do not want it, and last night I forced it down and up it all came again. So no more fish for me

Well ladies I have bad news once again. While the baby was measuring the right size, the heart rate was only 70 which means there is a 90 percent chance I'm going to miscarry. If I don't start bleeding I go in for a follow up ultrasound on the 8th. I am not optimistic.

I'm going to take a little break from bnb but know that I am thinking of all you.

Caroline I am so, so, so sorry for your news! But I REALLY hope you are in that lucky 10% and your blob's heartbeat picks up. Big and positive thoughts for you hun

 

[mrsc81]

caroline i am so, so sad to hear this

I hope everything turns out ok, doctors are not always right, please keep us posted, we are thinking and praying for you

 

[Rachel789]

Caroline-I am so sorry you got bad news I really hope your little bean pulls through. As Louise said drs aren't always right so there is still a chance things will work out. I will keep you and your DH in my prayers. When I went in for my scan the baby was measuring 6+3 and while my dr showed me where the heartbeat was he said he wouldn't bother measuring the heart rate yet as it was too early and could be inaccurate. I hope that was the case for you. I totally understand you taking a break but keep us updated if you feel up for it.

 

[Rachel789]

Bex-That's funny you say that about fish because I haven't touched it since I started feeling nauseous because the thought of it makes me sick. I know it is healthy to eat fish and DH keeps saying lets eat fish for dinner but I can't bring myself to do it!

 

[NewMrs2011]

Hi Ladies

Just checking in. I feel at a bit of a loose end right now. DH is asleep, I'm bored, my back's in AGONY, I can't get comfy, there's nothing on the TV, I'm not tired enough to go to bed, and I'm just getting more and more agitated by the minute I have been thinking about Caroline since she posted too, I really hope everything works out for her

How is everyone else tonight?

 

[seabean]

I feel crampy, and am hoping O is coming soon!

Mrs c, sounds like AF is near for you!! Is there any spotting or anything?
I feel shaken over Carolines news too. I really hope it all ends up being ok.

 

[mrsc81]

I feel crampy, and am hoping O is coming soon!

Mrs c, sounds like AF is near for you!! Is there any spotting or anything?
I feel shaken over Carolines news too. I really hope it all ends up being ok.

I think you got that wrong.. i sure hope not!

 

[NewMrs2011]

I feel crampy, and am hoping O is coming soon!

Mrs c, sounds like AF is near for you!! Is there any spotting or anything?
I feel shaken over Carolines news too. I really hope it all ends up being ok.

I think you got that wrong.. i sure hope not!

Think this was maybe for me Hope you are still keeping well anyway MrsC

I think AF is near, yesterday morning I had some spotting/bit of blood on the tissue but it didn't come to anything. I've had the same again this morning so we'll see if anything comes of it. Also got my appointment with the doc at 2.00pm - nervous!

Hope you o soon Seabean!

 

[raventtc]

caroline i am thinking of you and praying for you

afm-i am 100% sure af is knocking on the door spotting has started...i am going to take a break too and think about if i (we) want to keep trying or not?

 

[seabean]

Oops yes that was meant for the other Mrs...Newmrs. no AF for Mrsc!!

Raven, sorry that AF might be on its way sucks. We are here for you even if you do need a break.

 

[mrsc81]

Caroline - Ive been thinking about you ever since your news yesterday, i really dont know what to say as i know nothing could make you feel better, but just wanted you to know we are here for you and thinking of you

 

[mrsc81]

Sorry af appears to be coming Raven, how long have you been trying now?

 

[Rachel789]

Caroline-I am feeling the same as the other ladies, I can't stop thinking about you! I am praying everything turns out ok

 

[NewMrs2011]

Raven, sorry to hear AF is on it's way

I'm just back from my dr's appointment and I dont know what to think about it apart from

She was going to do an internal even though I was spotting/very light bleeding however when she had a look she decided there was "still quite a lot of blood there" so she decided to not go any further (she did say what she could see looked ok - whatever that means?). She warned me that the bleeding would get heavier as she had probably dislodged it and by god she was right and needless to say the flood gates have now opened and I'm having quite bad cramps too. She seemed a bit surprised that I had started bleeding again after taking the tablets, but that's what these tablets do (give you a period a few days after finishing them). She did have to look them up in her wee book when she prescribed them to me but surely she knows this!?

She also discussed my thyroid with me, although it's slightly underactive and possible a contributing factor to my irregular bleeding, I've to wait and get re-tested in 12 weeks before she decides whether to put me on Levothyroxine.

12 weeks seems like ages away and and right now I feel like I've more chance of winning the lottery than ever becoming a mum. It's bad enough if your struggling to conceive even when you do have a proper cycle but when you dont even have that there's ZERO hope and it makes me feel sick thinking about it

 

[NewMrs2011]

sorry for the long moany post...don't mean to bring the mood down but I've got nobody else to rant to apart from DH and I feel bad enough for him as it is

 

[seabean]

Newmrs I'm so sorry it seems like the road is getting longer and harder, and it sucks when a Drs visit seems to confirm that, but you WILL be a mother!! And don't worry about venting to us, that's what we're here for!