long cycles support thread :) the yelping vaginas club! (closed group)

[raventtc]

Good to hear Bethany! hope it is af for you.

afm- Tomorrow is my appointment, yesterday I ran to the mailbox and back (i know not real exercise -- its cold and rainy) and when i came in and sat down..i just knew the spotting was back. but it didn't stay around, and today off and on i have seen it but only when i wipe. I have all my charts ready for my doctor and hope to get some testing done so I can get closer to a BFP!!

 

[mrsc81]

Thats definately an improvement Bethany

Hope your appointment goes well Raven

 

[cmwilson]

I'll keep my fingers crossed Bethany!!

Good luck at your appointment tomorrow Raven! Can't wait to hear how it goes!!

 

[bnporter81]

Thank you girlsI hope AF will be here soon. Stupid me, I've been googling Metformin and spotting and it seems fairly common especially during the first few monthsSo now I'm not quite as hopeful. But oh well, I still think it's a good sign.

Good luck tomorrow, Raven. Hope it goes well, hon.

 

[seabean]

Good luck Raven!!!

Bethany - maybe it's a good sign it's working!

 

[Diddums]

Good luck Raven. Hope you get some answers.

Dee lovely scan pic congrats

Hope AF come really soon for you Bethany

AFM cm has increased and become watery/creamy/ewcm today so hope I get a positive opk over the weekend and ov in the next week. All on my own. Three months in a row. Will get progesterone tested again

 

[bnporter81]

Raven, hope your appt. has gone well

Katya, wishing you lots of luck for a positive OPK soon and a ton of baby dust to you.

AFM, my spotting stopped overnight but came back again a few hours ago. It feels like my body is on a seesaw or something trying to decide what it wants to do, lol

Have a great weekend, girls

 

[mrsc81]

Hope you ovulate soon Katya

 

[Diddums]

Thanks everyone.

Just took an opk. Looks Positive to me, but will test gain this afternoon to check what do you ladies think? This will be my earliest ovulation yet and give me a 32/33 day cycle. Normal for me before I went on bcp will book an appointment for the drs to get progesterone checked again! Very excited xx

https://www.dropbox.com/s/hc5v525a5idi4qk/Photo 19-01-2013 12 20 16.jpg

 

[raventtc]

Diddums -- good luck with everything, nice opk!! get to bd'in!

Well i went to my appointment and feel like it was useless. My doctor did set up for me to get a ultrasound done, and lots of blood work again...but I did all of this before and everything came back good -- she told me they did a preg test on my little bit of urine i was able to leave them...neg! She then refered me to a fertility clinic and told me they cost 25,000 usually for 5 iv treatments but they garentee you will get preg during on of the five times and if you don't they give you a refund(unless you 35 or older)...now we have to see if this is covered insurance wise, and if we will have time to dedicate to it, since the doctors office she refered us too is about an hour away and we would have to go often...and and and...I am just feeling sooo upset about all of this-- The worst part is i haven't even talked to hubby about it yet, and i know when i do he is going to be heartbroken that we would have to do all of this to have a baby together....

I guess i am just over emotional right now, i hate that fact that people that don't know how to treat kids get to make and have them and we all want one and would do anything to have one...and yet its soooo hard

have a good weekend ladies!!

 

[rmsh1]

Raven

Why are they talking about IVF already before you have been properly checked out? Has you DH done an SA?

 

[rmsh1]

Good work on the positive OPK Katya!!

 

[cmwilson]

Oh Raven, how disappointing. I agree with Bex, why are they jumping right to IVF? Has your DH had an SA? I know the clinic is an hour away but could you maybe call them and see if they try any other treatments before IVF like Clomid and IUI? I just can't believe they'd jump right to IVF without doing any testing or trying something else first. I'm so sorry, I know how frustrated and upset you must be. I'm thinking about you.

Congrats Katya on the OPK! Get busy!

 

[raventtc]

I don't know why she told me about IVF, and I think if I do make an appointment with this new doctor then I would get more info...I think she was just letting me know how much this could cost basically. My hubby has not ever had a SA, he has an appointment to get one done so I guess we'll see what that says...I just can't wrap my head around all of this -- but thanks for the support ladies as always!!

 

[Rachel789]

I was wondering the same as the other ladies. It seems too quick to even discuss Ivf...but maybe your dr just wanted to give you the info so you have it if it came to that. I know you just had a bfn but your chart looks really good so I hope it was just too early!

Yay for +opk Katya!!

 

[mrsc81]

I can't view your opk pic on my phone Katya and my Internet is down, been 3 days so far.. It sounds like its positive though!
Raven I hope you can get more answers and are offered some alternatives to Ivf.

 

[Diddums]

Raven hopefully you are right and she was just preparing you cost wise for IVF and you can discuss other options at your appointment? Raven what's your temp like today? Your chart looks like it might go triphasic if your temp is up again today?

AFM I think I just ovulated on my own. No soy or anything - could it have been the pregnacare conception multivits??. I had a huge temp spike this morning, which is if stays as it is means I ovulated on cd19 giving me a 31/32 day cycle just like before I went on bcp!!!! So happy. Hope my temp stays up over the next few days so so so happy. We didn't bd as much as I would have liked and poor hubby was exhausted. We will again tonight for good measure. Fingers crossed its enough. Having a progesterone test done again, although so slots until 8dpo so I have a feeling it will be low. I'm not going to use progesterone cream or anything. I really want to see what a natural cycle looks like. Was so shocked when I saw my temp this morning, really thought it would have been low as our room was a little cold lol!!! Graciously accepting all positive vibes lol.

 

[rmsh1]

Congrats Katya, your hard work exercising is really paying off. So close to your BFP now, I am sure!

 

[Diddums]

Thanks was very happy as I wasn't even sure my positive opk was positive. The photo i posted here was as positive as it got and then in the evening it was negative again so i didn't even surge for 12 hours. Glad I caught it but think to cover bases I will bd every other day once I get watery cm in future!

 

[raventtc]

Diddums- glad to hear your getting back to pre bcp...and that your cycles are evening out!!

Well late last night i could tell my spotting was going to get heavier, and this am when i woke up its def af that showed up!! and you know the strangest part is that i am passing large skin looking stuff...its all dark red but i could actually hear one plunk into the toilet...it is worring me but could it be that i had a cyst or something and it popped and that is why i had so much spotting this month...and that skin stuff is the cyst?? I don't know and I do know that if i google stuff i am going to be on here all day hooked and still wondering.