Long Term Trying To Conceive Vent Thread

[nobump]

I hadn't been to the hairdresser's for ages as last time I went I was properly upset by the girl doing my hair questioning me if I was going to have kids (I replied that as we both are infertile, probably not! Didn't stop her going on about it, tho. This conversation was preceded by her gushing about her colleague giving birth that very same day and the place was covered in 'it's a boy' banners...). I'd been since looking for another salon to go to and was recommended this very nice one some way away. I went today and as the girl recommended a hair colour, I said no thanks (we're doing IVF). She didn't drop the subject and pressed me to have at least some highlights. I then said I can't due to IVF to which she replied 'I just found out yesterday I'm pregnant!'. Great! After which she blathered on about not being sure if she was going to keep it!!! I'm never going to any bloody hairdresser's ever again.

This made me laugh... I hate hairdressers but just cause I can't be bothered with the time it takes!

But yeah hate it when you go somewhere to try and relax... take your mind of things and you get the complete opposite!

Good luck with the IVF

 

[Countrygirl13]

Your hairdresser experience is truly rubbish! I love my haidresser, a 6ft biker dude who talks sci fi and dirt biking with me. Can't stand girly hairdressers who ask about holidays or children (and lack of). Go find a manly man hairdresser like mine. You won't regret it.
Or cut your own hair, that can be quite amusing!

 

[tamithomas]

My vent: Ladies who come back to the TTC section to give advice with their BFP tickers/signatures on. We come here to get away from BFP related stuff, why does it always have to follow us?

 

[Fizzyfefe]

I saw that too, Tami, and chose to ignore it, because I'm pretty sure nothing nice would've come out of my mouth... errr, fingers... if I acknowledged it.

By the way... I am dying for you to pee on a stick. Lol. Is that weird? But I'm sorry you're having such an off cycle.

 

[tamithomas]

Same here as in I chose to ignore it instead of causing anything hence why I came here to vent about it instead lol.

You and me both. DH and I have come to a conclusion that we will wait until when technically my next cycle would have started before we get a test. We're kind of one of these skeptical moods where knowing our luck an hour after we buy it AF will show up lol. So technically t-minus 14 days until testing if AF doesn't show.

PS to those a little confused, I'm 2 weeks late but have not bd that we know of. It sounds like something out of a science fiction movie but I've slept BD before with my ex before when I was with my ex. DH and I are starting to wonder if it happened with us.

Time will tell.

 

[Fizzyfefe]

Well, I will be cheering you on, and I applaud you for your self control. Hope this is it for you! Also, sleep sex isn't that uncommon. I learned about it in nursing school.

Random thought... Haha, if this is it, can you imagine how you will tell your future child how they were conceived?

 

[Countrygirl13]

Parents talking about the sex they had to make their child? Yikes! Not sure i EVER want to have that conversation with mum. 'We just slept in the same bed then you turned up 9 months later, dear' sounds sooo much better!

 

[Fizzyfefe]

Oh, lol, no... my parents always told me I was conceived on a pool table. That was the extent of the conversation. They never went into detail or anything.

 

[tamithomas]

Lol, well sex is not a taboo subject in my family so probably won't be if we manage to conceive either with our kid. If anything, I find being open and honest about how kids are conceived kinda puts into motion in kids heads "hmmm,well sex = babies so better be careful" it's usually those who are not taught about it that end up making the most mistakes.

Crossing my fingers as well although I'm not holding my breath as I've been having cramps off and on for the passed 2 weeks as well. It's weird, I get strong enough cramps where I'm convinced I'm out and poof..it dissapears again lol. I'm also thinking possibly it could be my hypothyroidism reaching it's official high levels. I'm due for an apointment regarding that aspect. I have a "high" enough level be detected but not high enough to do damage last time I was checked 6 months ago.

Hahaha, yea that's definitely too tmi for my liking. You poor thing LOL

 

[tamithomas]

I'm out. AF finally decided to make an extra tardy appearance. Why does this have to be soo complicated? So tired of seeing it happen so easy for some. It's all I ever dreamed of as long as I could remember when playing with dolls yet I see people like my SIL get it in the snap of a finger while still living at my mom and step fathers place, jobless ugh. Not fair!!!!!

 

[lilyV]

tamithomas, so sorry.

 

[tamithomas]

Posted in wrong thread. ignore this post.

 

[tezz2012]

Wondering if someone can help me. After i had finnished my period last month i had spotting a week after and it was for roughly around a week and this month im now gonna be 2days late if nothing today i done a test n it was negative wats happening

 

[zanDark]

My vent: Ladies who come back to the TTC section to give advice with their BFP tickers/signatures on. We come here to get away from BFP related stuff, why does it always have to follow us?

That sucks

Maybe they haven't noticed that they can turn their signatures off...but if I were you I'd report it so the mods can pop in and remind people to turn them off. Also sorry you got AF

 

[chefamy1122]

Tonight I will be around my husbands best friends heavily pregnant wife (who got pregnant 3 months after they got married/ 1st month of trying) that I have absolutely nothing in common with.
Please give me the strength to not have a breakdown.

 

[Countrygirl13]

Mothers day. Nuff said!

 

[Myshelsong]

Really really annoyed at reading threads about the injustice of ttc for two months and not being pregnant yet, while asking if the paint line means a positive test. Like F bomb you b word!

 

[xlouloux]

I really hate it when I know I'm 100% due on but people say "you're still in with a chance" I know they mean well, but I know when my body is saying "F*ck you Lou, not this time!"

 

[nobump]

Just went from having issues with SA to unexplained. Should be pleased but it's not an answer just another description. Then walking out ACS unit and there's a pregnant woman smoking WTF

 

[Lawyer chick]

Nothing like talking to n 18 yr old family friend who is preggo with #2 and suggesting she take her child to a play group and she responds that she took her outside. Then her siblings (3) live at home haven't done a thing over march break.

All well I'm restricted to couch because my surgical wounds aren't healing and would give anything to have other children to do things with on march break