Lookin for NTNP buddy. Just need to CHAT!

[ica235]

Oh mel I'm so sorry to hear what you've had to go through i can only echo what the other girls have said, and big hugs to you and the mr xxxxxxxx

 

[Laura2806]

ica how you doing? xx

 

[mel28nicole]

It's definitely difficult to go through. I never imagined it would be this hard, especially since we weren't planning on the pregnancy. But my whole life changed in 3 months and now it's hard to go back to normal. My fiancé was talking about how he thought I was too immature to be a parent and he saw how much I changed when I was pregnant. I think I'm doing better every single day, and if it wasn't for my fiancé and our families, I would be a mess lol.

Saturday will mark 2 weeks since the D&C and I'm really hoping my bleeding quits because we have the go ahead to have sex again lol. I don't have my follow up appointment until the 11th but I'm not waiting lol

 

[fairyy]

I am back ladies after the long weekend.

I am so sorry Mel. A big to you. Hope this bleeding stops soon. We all are here for u hun.

CD16 here. Didn't see any ewcm as I always see for three/four days before "O". Have been doing opk since CD12. Thought on CD14 that its soon going to be sure positive but now when I analyze it seems all are negative except CD14. But I didn't get temp rise. So I am confused. Therefore DTD every other day. Will do one more opk today and then stop and focus on our upcoming small vacation to Sea World & River-walk San Antonio.

How my ladies are doing ?

 

[MrsCorny]

Hey, well I made it thru grandma's funeral and viewing... It was so tough... So many people there for her, she was so loved by so many......
When we got to restaurant for lunch after the burial, my mom called me up to give me something my grandma had out away for me with a note she wrote more than ten years ago... Her original wedding band and engagement ring.... I don't want to wear the engagement ring around because its so valuable, but the wedding band fit on the same finger as my wedding and engagement rings, it looks so beautiful... I'm crying as I write this... I miss my grandparents so much. and my uncle had mentioned, (not knowing we are trying) how much my grandma loved babies and that getting news that someone was pregnant was the best new she could hear. I wish I could've given that to her... But I know she is watching from heaven and will know when we do conceive.

On a more cheerful note- no AF yet, due tomorrow at the very latest. So, no signs of it, felt some strong twinges that felt different than previous months and keep getting nausea after I eat, so FXed that my test tomorrow morning comes up positive. Gonna wait til after hubby leaves for work to test, so hopefully I can hold in FMU to test with!! Lol I will let you all know after I tell hubby if its a BFP! It'll be a walk around the reservoir where he asked me to be his girlfriend, and sparkling cider when we get back if its a BFP! I hope this is it....

 

[Laura2806]

Planned or not I think it's still really hard Hun, you're doing great, each day will get a little easier, or least I hope it does xxx

Hi fairy, I'd say you didn't ov yet, maybe your body tried, hence the OPK's but didn't succeed, personally I'd go with the temps and what they tell you not OPk's. maybe stress or something has caused you to ov later than normal

AF has left the building but the cramps haven't, feel horrible docs tomorrow morning (hopefully!) to talk about it and see if they will test me for PCOS, fxd they will! Then got my niece from about 11:30/12ish for a few hours. Hoping to get some soaping done too but I doubt it'll happen! Xx

 

[Laura2806]

Oh hunni I'm so so sorry, filling up here just thinking about what you're going through your Grandma will be the first to know your pregnant and maybe she'll have a little word in Heaven and make it happen quickly. I hope this is it for you Hun, please don't keep us waiting too long! Xx

 

[fairyy]

I hope this is it too for u Corny. Can't wait to know your test result.
Grand ma is watching u and her blessings are with u. I know how it feels to lose your grand parents.

Laura, I think you are right. Will BD tonight to be safe. Normally my temp rises by CD16 and I get +opk on CD14. This month its weird.

 

[Laura2806]

Yep BD tonight and tomorrow Hun, looking forward to seeing your temp tomorrow oh wait you don't have a link to your chart boooo! xx

 

[fairyy]

Here is link to my chart
https://www.fertilityfriend.com/ttc/index.php

Just did an opk and it seems positive. I am confused. The opk from CD14 seemed like almost positive but I don't whether that was a true positive or not. If CD14 was a true positive then my temp should have been above cover line by now. Today's opk seems better. I can post a pic once it is dry.

 

[Laura2806]

Link just takes me to the log in page

Ooo I wonder if tomorrow's temp will rise meaning you ovd today/tomorrow? Xx

 

[fairyy]

So today's opk came up positive

Not in mood at all for BD. Tired, feeling that post ovulation bloating like thing and some mild cramping. But I need some BD, else this cycle is screwed. . So far we did it on CD5 (AM), CD10 (AM), CD12 (PM), CD14 (PM). Today is CD16.
I think one more tonight and we are good. What do u think ? Then next BD on Friday when we leave for our small vacation.

 

[Laura2806]

I'd say you def need to try and get it on tonight Hun!

 

[MrsCorny]

Oh my goodness... My heart is pounding just thinking about testing tomorrow morning... The suspense is killing me!!!!! I'm putting too much pressure on myself.... I hope I don't crack if its a BFN or the hits...

Fairyy if u got pos OPK, try to get bd in!!

 

[Laura2806]

Got a good feeling you'll get a good end to a rubbish summer Hun

Just decided I'm gonna start making Oscar's patchwork quilt ready for his birthday or Christmas super excited! Xx

 

[fairyy]

Good luck Corny

Oh Oscar's b'day coming up ! when ?

And about me, yes I will definitely pounce on DH tonight.

 

[Laura2806]

20th November hunni can't believe how quick it's gone! This time last year I had 4wks left at work before mat leave! (Finished at 32wks due to SPD and stress caused by work combined with a 30min drive to get there and not being able to sit for more than 15mins at a time, getting to and from work almost killed me!)

I hope you pounced hunni my DH will be getting the same treatment tonight

 

[Laura2806]

Doesn't apt update!

Could not have gone better! By 10 past 9 I'd seen the doc (lovely lady btw!) and had bloods taken! she agrees its best to check but as I've had a transvag scan before she thinks its unlikely there's big problems and having Oscar is a fab sign. She has also noted down we are TTC and has said if I do have PCOS as soon as we hit the 12month mark we will start treatment if no BFP rather than waiting. So pleased something's happening �� I'll get my results wed 18th as the female testosterone takes a while. She's also checking my thyroid to make sure that's ok and has said in the meantime the best management is weight loss but didn't push the matter. Basically we are being checked for PCOS and things will be taken from the blood results �� fxd the same last time will happen and I will ov this cycle and conceive �� xx

 

[MrsCorny]

Doesn't apt update!

Could not have gone better! By 10 past 9 I'd seen the doc (lovely lady btw!) and had bloods taken! she agrees its best to check but as I've had a transvag scan before she thinks its unlikely there's big problems and having Oscar is a fab sign. She has also noted down we are TTC and has said if I do have PCOS as soon as we hit the 12month mark we will start treatment if no BFP rather than waiting. So pleased something's happening �� I'll get my results wed 18th as the female testosterone takes a while. She's also checking my thyroid to make sure that's ok and has said in the meantime the best management is weight loss but didn't push the matter. Basically we are being checked for PCOS and things will be taken from the blood results �� fxd the same last time will happen and I will ov this cycle and conceive �� xx

Oh that all sounds so positive! I'm glad you got in quick and the appt was good. Moving in the right direction, hun! So happy for you!
Well, it's the morning and hubby just left for work!! No AF so about to go test!!!! Praying!!!!! Ugh, I shouldn't be this nervous! Lol

 

[noodles13]

Good luck corny cant wait to hear if its a BFP x