Lookin for NTNP buddy. Just need to CHAT!

[MrsCorny]

Well, unfortunately I am posting again already cuz I got a stark white BFN, not even a squinter. Waited the full 5 min, looks dry to me so I guess I'll be getting my period some time today or the next few days. If no AF by Saturday ill test again, but I'm sure the will show by then... very disappointed, but not surprised- no real symptoms that were consistent or couldn't be explained by upcoming period or stress. At least I'm not crying this time.... Getting used to it

 

[noodles13]

Might just be too early to detect? You never know tomorrow could be a faint positive xx

 

[Laura2806]

Man that sucks big style! xxxx

 

[MrsCorny]

Might just be too early to detect? You never know tomorrow could be a faint positive xx

My period is due today so I doubt it's too early, but thanks for vote of confidence hun! Lol
And of course now I'm gonna look up chances of false negative on period due date!
Glad to hear from ya btw, it's been a while noodles!!

 

[noodles13]

I know ive been a busy bee with the kids over the summer hols ive been tracking cycles etc etc how are you l? X

 

[MrsCorny]

https://www.twoweekwait.com/ttc-advice/some-good-info-on-hpt-false-negatives
This article gives me a little hope until the flies in I suppose.
Gonna buy an FRER tonight for Saturday's test if AF is still a no-show at that point.

Noodles- prob best for me not to answer fully. Lol it's been the most difficult summer I've ever had. was desperately hoping for a BFP... But I don't think it's this time.

If I conceive this next cycle, there is a chance I would have our baby on Grandma's birthday, which would be so cool... So I'm focusing on that to keep me in the right state of mind. That BFN was very disappointing this morning... VERY.

 

[noodles13]

Dam life throws shit thats what makes us who we are. We have to experience everything good and bad to learn who we are as people. Thats what I believe anyway dont worry sometimes stress will slow things down and stop ovulation all together. ...... maybe its not your time just yet. In a couple of months you will be even more strong than you are now maybe the future baby knows this and is waiting for the right time to come into your lives xx

 

[Laura2806]

I think baby is waiting for grandmas birthday! xx

 

[MrsCorny]

I think baby is waiting for grandmas birthday! xx

That's what I think too actually. Especially with what I just went thru with hubby's back and forth! Ugh. Lol but now we aren't gonna pay attention to fertile days, just gonna DTD when we feel like it. So much less pressure for me.
FXed for this coming cycle... If AF shows that is. Cuz according to that study i posted, I may not get a BFP til it's a week late... Unlikely, but I guess I'll hold onto hope until the rears her ugly head. Still free and clear so far. Hour by hour...
If no AF tonight, I think I'll test with the FRER... Haven't decided if I wanna use it tonight or just be patient and wait for Saturday lol. Saturday would be a great day to tell hubby. He's got a big driving event he put together and I think it would make the day even better to give him news like that when he gets home. Lol I talk like I think I could be preggo, but I seriously doubt it. Like seriously.

 

[Laura2806]

All us TTC do! Its how we cope keeps the dream alive

Just had some dram with someone I made friends with on here, very long story, she's just pregnant again and has said she wishes she wasn't pregnant. Pissed me right off, told her I lost all respect for her at that moment. No one says that, especially not to others who are TTC and having a hard time of it! So angry with her!

 

[MrsCorny]

All us TTC do! Its how we cope keeps the dream alive

Just had some dram with someone I made friends with on here, very long story, she's just pregnant again and has said she wishes she wasn't pregnant. Pissed me right off, told her I lost all respect for her at that moment. No one says that, especially not to others who are TTC and having a hard time of it! So angry with her!

Yeah, I can't even imagine, kind of heartless to say that to someone who is trying so hard. It makes me sad when people say they wish they weren't oregnant or don't want their baby, I get scared they will abort. That poor child... I hope if she really doesn't want the baby, she chooses adoption. Better for mom and baby. Praying she makes the right decision.
So sorry you were offended, I hope you are alright. Sometimes even hearing about people that are happily pregnant, angers me a little... But they may have gone thru a lot to get there.... Just never know. Wish I didn't get angry or jealous... I feel bad when I do. Lol

 

[fairyy]

So we got some BD last night. But DH finished part inside me and part outside Anyways temp is lower than yesterday's.

Do u think I need to do one more opk today ?

Conry don't worry. U are still AF free.

 

[noodles13]

I think I can actually say we are ntnp..... remember when I said we weren't really thinking about it. Since af finished last monday we have bd every night hahaha oooooops tmi ladies but im cd12 today and sone ovulation apps say I have 32 day cycles and some say 30 so not sure if I have a chance of a bfp at the end of the month? I don't take temps or opks so mine is purely guess work I would get too anxious if I do too much lol I hope we all get them together how funny would that be

 

[fairyy]

Here are my opks from CD12 to CD16.
What do u think ???

 

[noodles13]

Cd16 is a defo positive mate x

 

[Laura2806]

Hunni we all get jealous and it hurts even more when people haven't fought for their baby or even actively tried. It's nature she only said it to get attention, it's what she like, he true colours are now shinning bright and me another friend from here have told her what we think. It started off friendly but she took offence, to what I don't know and she turned it bitchy so we just laid it all out in the table. After she said that I was done with her. Life's too short for people like her to take my time up! This afternoon I went to our friends wake, her husband is lost, her 6yo lb knows mummy is an angel watching over them but doesn't fully understand. Her older boys (teenagers) also carried her, she wore her wedding dress. Breaks my heart xx

Noodles it'd be ace hope your method works! Docs advice every other day from when AF leaves to when she arrives, obvs hoping she doesn't at all!

Fairy check those lines out lady! CD16 was it! That's 2 people now in the last 2 days have ovd CD16! Strange! Xx

 

[fairyy]

I will do one opk in few minutes. If it comes up negative then no more testing.
I thought of doing SMEP but actually DTD every other day.

 

[ica235]

Just a quick one to let you ladies know I'm still lurking about updating myself on your posts lol

Mrscorny still no AF??? Very exciting, you're not out yet!

All talk of dtd and baby talk gets me a little upset
I'm actually really struggling at the moment
Other half doesn't quite understand and won't let me talk about how I'm feeling he gets so dismissive like I'm being stupid
Argh this surgery date cannot come quick enough!! It's really getting me down
Literally zero sex drive
The thought of doing stuff now makes me cringe
Which I know isn't healthy... Hopefully the sex therapy will help with that, not that I'm entirely sure what sex therapy is... Lol
Just want to fast forward time to get myself back to normal!!

Sorry to be so depressing lol

Hope you're all ok xxxxxxxx

 

[Laura2806]

Ica it's so understandable hunni, you want your baby as much as we do and you have the great big friggin brick wall, soon you will get your sledge hammer handed to you and you knock it down! I hope and pray your date comes through real soon and that it's not ages away! Then when you are all fixed, your sex drive returns along with a BFP xxxxx

 

[MrsCorny]

Ica it's so understandable hunni, you want your baby as much as we do and you have the great big friggin brick wall, soon you will get your sledge hammer handed to you and you knock it down! I hope and pray your date comes through real soon and that it's not ages away! Then when you are all fixed, your sex drive returns along with a BFP xxxxx

Ica- I second what Laura said exactly! You will get thru this. I'm sorry u feel so down! Venting here is perfectly acceptable. I vented about stuff that was unrelated to TTC, so let it all out hun!