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[MrsAttard]

Hey Girls! With everything going on, it's been hard to get on BnB so I've mostly avoided it. DH is doing well, he had a CT scan the other day and we have to see a couple specialists, but he feels fine so thats the important thing right now.

With DH being sick we haven't really thought about ttc this month. My best friend and her bf came to visit the weekend I was ov'ing so I didn't OPK bc I knew it wasn't going to happen. The day after they left DH and I BD'ed. Later in the day I got ewcm and realized I hadn't gotten it over the weekend. I took and OPK and realized that bc of the EPO I ovulated 3 days later than normal, so DH and I caught my fertile window anyway! It's hard not to get excited, but with my AF due on Christmas Eve I can't help but think what a great gift a BFP would be!

My rational mind says 'if it hasn't happened over the past year, it prob won't now either' but it's hard to be rational during the tww!! I hope everyone doing well and getting excited for Christmas! Baby dust!!!!

 

[SuperLilWifey]

A BFP would be some nice news its has to happen to atleast one of us. AF got me last week so I took some time off just to relax and take a breather I was sad but not as upset as I normally was I'm sure the closer I Get to the 1 year mark it'll be rougher.


DH is supportive but at the same time isn't he just says its "Gotta happen sometime" and "there is no hurry we're both young" I say when he turns 30 in April it might hit him a little harder.

I'm glad your DH is doing well.

I'm half way excited for Christmas and my birthday since AF came that means to me I can party it up a bit to let go of all this years ups and downs for me.

 

[SuperLilWifey]

Hope everyone had a good holiday! Thought I just drop a quick update.

Nothing too much to update with. This month we kind of put BD'n on the back burner with so much going on.

Hopefully sometime in the upcoming months we can go back to TTC and NTNP. But I doubt DH would want to change it yet. He's all for the natural course of things if it happens it happens.

Which is really relaxing but at the same time its not. I mean other then opk's and stuff there isn't really much of a difference once you get to know how you're body works and you watch out for all the little signs. still makes it a stressful experience in my book

 

[Faith n Hope]

This is getting so stressful and everyone keeps telling me not to stress! Lol!
I hope that you are all okay and that you all had a good Christmas! Hope you all have a Happy New Year! Sending lots of Baby Dust! x

 

[SuperLilWifey]

Lol yes it is very stressful. I'm months away from my 1 year mark or TTC/NTNP.

Maybe 2012 will be a less stressful year for us all!!!! Hopefully with BFP's too!!!!! x!

 

[Faith n Hope]

Yes hopefully! Are you going to go to the Dr after a years mark? x

 

[MrsAttard]

Hey Girls! I hope you guys have something fun planned for tonight, bc I'll be spending NYE alone DH works until midnight, but works in Times Square so he likely won't make it home for a long while. Third year in a row!!!

Anyway, ttc is still kinda pushed back in our minds. I haven't yet set up an appt with the FS yet bc we've been dealing with DH's other health issues. He has an appt with a liver/pancreas specialist next week, and once we figure out what's going on there I'll call the FS.

When in doubt, we've also been casually discussing adoption since we know IVF is out of the question. I'm still optimistic that it'll just happen, or that he'll at least have enough for IUI, but only time will tell, and I'm getting tired of waiting.

 

[SuperLilWifey]

@Faith.... I don't know we haven't talked about going to any Doctors yet.

@Mrs.Attard, Sorry you spent NYE alone mine wasn't all that great
, I've been a grumpy person since my birthday basically. I miss everyone back where I use to live. I don't regret moving here to be with him. I just miss the comforts I had there. It was comfortable and I knew it. And I miss my bestfriends and my cousin.
I mean who wouldn't be slightly depressed without their closet friends around and spending all the time in the house basically?

I don't mind it so much just every once in awhile I get stir crazy with the need to just DO something.

 

[Faith n Hope]

Im sorry ur both having a hard time!
Hope things pick up for you both!
Happy New Year!
If you ever wanna talk im always here!
Sending lots of Baby Dust!
Hopefully it will happen soonly!
x

 

[SuperLilWifey]

Thanks Faith!!!

Happy New Year as well.

I'm starting to get a cold
Woke up with a sore throat barely could talk. Hopefully it wont last long!!!

 

[Faith n Hope]

aww i hope that you get well soonly! hows it goinn for everyone?
any new plans or just going with the flow still?
its hard to know what to do for the best really isnt it?
sending lots of Baby Dust!
x

 

[Faith n Hope]

aww i hope that you get well soonly! hows it going for everyone?
any new plans or just going with the flow still?
its hard to know what to do for the best really isnt it?
sending lots of Baby Dust!
x

 

[SuperLilWifey]

Thank you! I hope I get well soon too. This is horrible. I hate being sick, I can't sleep, I'm achy and just over all yucky. I have no idea where I got sick from!!! I haven't been out of the house a whole lot and no one is really that sick in the house.

And no new plans here just going with the flow pretty much. Taking a relax way for a few months to start the new year off calm without all the stress of it.

And Yes its very hard to know what to do for the best. You can read up on everything and try a million different things but everybody is different.

 

[Faith n Hope]

Aww I really hope that you do get well soonly! I dont think that anybody likes being ill! Everybody keeps saying forget about it and dont stress and it will happen when you least expect it but thats so easier said than done! I keep thinking but what if something is wrong preventing us? Argh!
Sending love n hugs n lots of Baby Dust!
x

 

[SuperLilWifey]

I know the feeling. Of What if something is wrong. I keep hearing about people getting pregnant without trying at all, but this site has opened eyes a whole lot everybody is different some people take longer than others. My DH's buddy at work she's pregnant and it took them around 2 years and they have no problems what so ever. And she has another daughter who is about 5 or 6 I think. Another friend said it took her a few months with each child she had and she used OPKs.

It still frustrating but I think I've mellowed out since starting. It still sad each time the witch shows up but its easier now.

 

[Faith n Hope]

Yeah its funny everyone seems to get pregnant around you so quick! But on here and through trying you realise its not always that easy! At least we all have each other who understand!
x

 

[SuperLilWifey]

Hello Ladies!!! I hope you're new year is starting off on the bright side.

Sadly mine has not. Stupid cold just wont go away!! Sometimes it feels like is edging away then come back twice as bad!

AF is due Tuesday the 10th. So just waiting for it to show up. Kind of sad how it went from praying it didn't show which I still kind of do to just now waiting for it to show up.

My BFF thinks I'm pregnant and shes 6 hours away from me! and if im not she predicts that I will be by Oct 2012!

 

[gemsar]

Just thought i would say hello :O)

I am a newbie xx

 

[Faith n Hope]

Welcome Gemsar! How are you? Whats your story?
Aww shame about the cold! I hope your friend is right and this is it for you!
Im not sure when im due? Argh!
Really getting to me now!
Might try another Dr or try doing new things next cycle see if anything helps?
Any plans or ideas that you are all going to try or just keep plodding on?
Sending lots of Baby Dust!
x

 

[gemsar]

Hello faith and hope.

we are a lesbian couple ttc via AI. third proper month of trying. Am on the dreaded two week wait. Feeling as sick as a parrot the last couple of days and just very different.

xx