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[Faith n Hope]

I know its funny how things turn out? Im just confused at what to do with my cycles and coming off BC im worried incase im going to have problems and he is as well! I just hope everything turns out well! I just think id feel better if I knew there was nothing stopping us! x

 

[SuperLilWifey]

I've never really been on BC I took depo shot a few times in my teenage years by request of mom i was never sexual active and it took a few months before I was back to normal after coming off of it. My bff didn't think she could have kids cause of her cycles not being regular and my cousin her husband who had an accident where they said that he might not be able to have kids but it was okay with him because he already had 3 kids but she wanted kids and it took them a year to get their little boy when the odds was against them so I think there is hope for everyone no matter what the case is

 

[Faith n Hope]

Well for me its because my periods were always irregular. Then ive been on BC for a number of years. I went on quite young because of acne and switched between two pills. But whenever ive been off it I could go months with nothing?! When I came off it this time I expected nothing and had my withdrawl bleed and then I had what seems to have been another period two weeks later which I did not expect so soon? Now I have no idea when my next will be and if im ovulating? So its very hard to track anything? x

 

[SuperLilWifey]

A doctor should be able to tell you that and maybe give you something to help along the way if its needed, I hope all turns out well for you. I'm sure it is very hard to track it my bestfriend could barely track hers they'd be weeks late or weeks early

 

[Faith n Hope]

Yeah I thought with getting that period id wait a bit and if nothing happens I think ill go and explain im just worried incase they dont take me seriously so soon after BC? But its very hard to track I mean even going off that first cycle and period ive tried to work out when I may have ovulated but that could be compeltely wrong as I may not get another for months? and im worried incase i odnt fall because its due to something else? x

 

[SuperLilWifey]

Make them take you seriously make them listen I would if you think you have a problem then you make them do everything they can to see if you do or don't and can give you an explanation of why its happening

 

[Faith n Hope]

Yeah Ive got the dates written down from recent events etc! I just dont want them to be like its just because of stopping BC or you have to try for so long first? Just im worried because at the time I didnt think anything of it its only now that im wanting it to happen im thinking well I shouldnt have really been irregular like that it doesnt seem normal? x

 

[MrsAttard]

Wow, apparently I missed the official chat time today! Well, it was kind of a sad day for me. Today was cd30, which was as long as mine has ever been. Normally I spot a day or two before, which I hadn't. DH and I were getting so excited and it was all we could talk about over lunch. And what happens when I get home? I started spotting, which will most likely be full blown AF tomorrow.

We're going on vacation in less than two weeks, and I'll be ov'ing while we're gone, so if we don't get pg next month, we're def going to have an SA done. DH is so frustrated with himself...

Anyway, new month, new cycle, try again. At least there will def be lots of this cycle!

 

[Faith n Hope]

Aww keep us posted! Lots of luck and baby dust! x

 

[SuperLilWifey]

Aww yeah keep us posted!!! Tomorrow is when AF is suppose to show or sunday. I feel so icky today I think I just got a cold last night DH and I talked and we both tried not to get excited about all the symptoms that has happened he doesn't want to jinx it I don't want to get my hopes up. Soo its just a waiting game weekend for me oh joy! lol Today has been super slow went to sleep late last night woke up when dh had to get ready for work around 9 then went back to sleep after he left around 10 slept till 1! I could prolly go back to sleep and love it! lol
The TWW is almost over for me! which I am happy about cause it drives me bonkers!!!!
I keep thinking my bbs looker bigger but I think that is just wishful thinking on my part!! Lol

 

[MrsAttard]

It's so hard not to get our hopes! I was just sitting here thinking about it, and feeling bad for my DH before bc he feels it's his fault bc of his low sperm count, but I don't blame him for that. However, it is frustrating bc he doesn't work with me and my ov'ing schedule. I can tell him "I'll be ov'ing in the the next day" and he may or may not be in the mood during that time, but then still gets upset when my AF shows up! I think timing is as much at fault in our not getting pg yet as his sperm situation.

I was joking with him last (maybe a little passive-aggressively) that I was going to mash up viagra in his food around ov time. Of course I would never do anything like that but I don't know how to impress upon him the importance of timing. Also, the fact that some positions are more effective than others. I guess, basically, he's not willing to make changes to our sex life that would encourage implantation. Love the man, but I wish he'd get more serious about this if he actually wants a kid.

Done ranting....for now. Good luck and I hope the red tide doesn't wash in!

 

[SuperLilWifey]

Aww I'm sorry to hear that, Timing seems to be the key thing in it all. Hopefully you can get him to see that. Change sometimes could be good nothing wrong with a little change every now and then mainly around ov time and yes position kind of factors in some ways I think, but laying down and not sitting up and moving about also helps this month my dh was trying really hard he had my schedule down in his memory or something and even went with the old wives tale of putting a pillow under you i was like, "ummm babe? Really?"

And feel free to rant anytime!!! Its good to rant helps destress something and I hope it doesn't come in either!

 

[MrsAttard]

Thankfully with our vacation (9 days and counting!!!) coming during ov time and that will be timing enough. He was hoping I would be pg this month so I couldn't go on roller coasters (and therefore make him go on them too) while we're away!

Btw, I hear you on the sleep thing! I've always had insomnia issues, and last night I was awake until 3:30. So today, I've got a headache, cramps, and I'm tired. What's more, Friday's are always my busiest day. I wish I'd slept til 1pm!

 

[SuperLilWifey]

I'm so glad my dh doesn't like roller coasters! I can't stand them I've been on 1 and that was enough for me downside his little brother loves them and tries to get me to ride them.

I wish I didn't have trouble sleeping I think its time for a new bed is the reason normally I can lay on a bed and just go to sleep!!

This cold is just so annoying my nose is half way stuffy and my throat is just annoying not hurting just annoying! and (sorry if its tmi) I can't tell if af is coming or not!! I feel wet but its just lot of cm! and tired still just makes me want to scream or sleep until tomorrow or sunday!

 

[Faith n Hope]

Aww hope it goes well good luck! Just try taking your mind off it as hard as that is! x

 

[MrsAttard]

This cold is just so annoying my nose is half way stuffy and my throat is just annoying not hurting just annoying! and (sorry if its tmi) I can't tell if af is coming or not!! I feel wet but its just lot of cm! and tired still just makes me want to scream or sleep until tomorrow or sunday!

Your sig says you're day 25 - are you going to test or wait until you're late? I'm rarely sick, and when I am, I hate it! I hope you feel better!

 

[SuperLilWifey]

I'm just going to wait AF is due tomorrow no need to go out and buy a test if it shows up tomorrow, Not really feeling hopefully anymore I'm aggravated than anything tonight and it all started over I didn't want to watch tv and he turned on the tv and then I got sad thinking about my old house I lived in before I lived with him and then just kind of got snappy at everyone lol im a basket case it would seem

 

[Faith n Hope]

Aww hope you feel better soon! x

 

[SuperLilWifey]

Sooo AF hasn't shown up yet, could come later or tomorrow. No symptoms really nose is still stuffy and throat is still annoying. kind of just a waiting game still lol the joy of it lol

 

[SuperLilWifey]

Still no sign of AF it might show up tomorrow like it did a few months ago! but if not I'll be sure to test then!