Looking for TTC buddies after MC

[mrsmummy2]

Thanks cd15 today, ff says ovulation for tomorrow.. if this isnt my month ill be buying opks to take some of the guess work out.
No ewcm yet.. and i do get heaps of it for a day or two, so very eager to see it!!

 

[fides]

No!!! So sorry, Peanut. I was really hoping this would be your cycle. huge

 

[PeanutWhereRU]

Thanks fides how are you getting on?

 

[fides]

Just waiting for AF. Anger phase is gone. Kinda numb and wondering if we should bother again. Thanks for asking.

How are you doing today?

Almost a new month so we can leave August behind us.

 

[PeanutWhereRU]

Oh the dreaded anger phase. That's was the worst for me.. well back in Jan I messaged an old friend who has a son the same age as mine and we were talking about ttc and we both said we hope it is our years for number 2... fast forward 39 weeks I find out she is expecting in 11 days.. and all day today I kept thinking about what if what if what if and it made me angry again.. it's just so sad no matter what stage of the pregnancy you were at!

 

[Poppiebug]

Just popping by to see how you are all doing.

Peanut, so sorry about AF.

Fides and MrsMummy - I hope you are doing ok.

Today is the due date of my loss, and although I am sad and reflecting on what might have been, I am so grateful for being able to look forward to next year, Praying that it wont be much longer for you all too. xx

 

[PeanutWhereRU]

Hey Poppie, wow can't believe you are nearly out of first tri that's amazing. Hope you are feeling good.

I'm ready 9 odd weeks left?

W8ting how are you getting on?

I've pretty much given up on this journey if I'm honest. I'm still rooting for everyone trying and everyone that's pregnant

 

[W8tingforbaby]

I’ll be halfway there on Thursday although this little man is measuring a week ahead lol it’s so reassuring feeling him move all the time and finally also feeling it and seeing it from the outside!! All the spotting in the beginning made me so paranoid and nervous so I’m thankful that all is going well. I am keeping you all in my thoughts daily that are still trying and hopefully your time will come, maybe when you least expect.
Poppie your a quarter of the way done!!

 

[fides]

fast forward 39 weeks I find out she is expecting in 11 days.. and all day today I kept thinking about what if what if what if and it made me angry again..

oh, i'm so sorry. That's gut-wrenching. You've got me choked up!

I've pretty much given up on this journey if I'm honest. I'm still rooting for everyone trying and everyone that's pregnant

 

[PeanutWhereRU]

Thanks fides.. do you know how long until your AF?

 

[fides]

finally got 1st AF. Feel relieved - the miscarriage is over and now we can move on. My last miscarriage took 5 weeks for 1st AF - so glad I didn't have to wait that long this time and worry about if I'll need a D&C or not. Haven't decided if we're TTC or not this cycle.

How are you doing?

 

[PeanutWhereRU]

Big hugs fides it's the most annoying relief because you are annoyed to be in this situation and relief that your body has bounced back quicker. It took me 9 odd weeks before I got my af on my first loss and about 6 weeks for the next. We are in September and I have only ovulated 5 times this year! I wish it was much faster. I'm currently on cd 14 and still have more than a week before I ovulate. Forget the 2ww I can't leave with the 3 week ovulation wait!!!

 

[fides]

Wow! 9 weeks? Ugh - that must have been terrible. 6 weeks, too - that's too long to be in limbo. 3 weeks to ovulation sounds like an eternity to me. Too bad everyone doesn't ovulate at CD14 - that would make things easier.

I have short cycles (23-25 days), so I am lucky I do get more chances, but it also means more times when I can't swim. I have a friend who is TTC #1 at age 42 - she went to a fertility specialist and he saw she has 23 day cycles and the doctor was like, "Oh, all those wasted eggs!!" She was like, yeah, as if I chose to ovulate when I'm still spotting - super romantic.

 

[PeanutWhereRU]

Wow 23 day cycles must be the worst when not TTC!! How does your partner feel about TTC again? Men hide so much emotion it's crazy!

 

[PeanutWhereRU]

Poppie congratulations for hitting the 3 month mark. I hope everything is well.

I'mready have you got everything ready for the arrival? Not long to go now.. 6 weeks?

W8ting how are you doing girl?

I miss talking to you ladies

I really hope Brain is well too..

 

[W8tingforbaby]

I’m doing good thanks! Over the halfway mark which feels great

 

[fides]

Wow 23 day cycles must be the worst when not TTC!! How does your partner feel about TTC again? Men hide so much emotion it's crazy!

He decided yesterday that he'd like to TTC again. We don't TTC unless we're both on board, so that was exciting news.

I'm CD 7, so I'll be ovulating soon (hopefully - I may not ovulate this first cycle - we'll see). Wish I could speed up your cycles, just for TTC purposes!

 

[imready4it]

Poppie congratulations for hitting the 3 month mark. I hope everything is well.

I'mready have you got everything ready for the arrival? Not long to go now.. 6 weeks?

W8ting how are you doing girl?

I miss talking to you ladies

I really hope Brain is well too..

I’m doing ok! Thanks for asking. I’m 33w3d. I feel ok most of the time. She’s very active at night. She’s awake from about 8:30-11:30 and has recently gotten very active during the day as well. I’ve had two people this week tell me that she’s dropped. I don’t feel like I will make it to Halloween. She was measuring 3lbs at my 28w appointment. She feels ginormous. I’m thinking maybe another 4 weeks. We can’t wait to meet her. She already has her own personality and my other two daughters are very excited. How are you peanut?

 

[PeanutWhereRU]

I’m doing good thanks! Over the halfway mark which feels great

That's super exciting and omg time is flying sooo quickly!!! Hopefully a few more ladies will join you in the journey soon!

 

[PeanutWhereRU]

Wow 23 day cycles must be the worst when not TTC!! How does your partner feel about TTC again? Men hide so much emotion it's crazy!

He decided yesterday that he'd like to TTC again. We don't TTC unless we're both on board, so that was exciting news.

I'm CD 7, so I'll be ovulating soon (hopefully - I may not ovulate this first cycle - we'll see). Wish I could speed up your cycles, just for TTC purposes!

Hurray!! That's nice you both are I. The same headspace and it does increase your chances to try again straight away so here is praying this is your cycle!

I think I might be on a 33 or 35 day cycle this month as I'm cd18 and felt such baaaaaad af type cramps so I know o is coming. I've done a few opks and they are gradually getting darker so fx it happens in the next couple of days. I would like a baby before the end of the year so there is not a big educational gap with first and second. I'm putting it out to the universe!