Cil, as all the sources say, for healthy ouples sometimes it takes up to a year to get pg. So don't give up, keep doing what you hae been doing and it will happen. I think it is just pure chance. It made me so mad to know I did everything right in every cycle, lots of perfectly lined bding, all the tricks, and it still did not happen. I still dont understand how it could be. So I guess it is just a chance of the right egg and the right sperm to come together. Big hugs.