Lovely Ladies TTC

[carlywarly]

Thanks so much

As for the nose bleed...it really could be a good omen FX for you Hope!! xx

 

[hope2903]

Im hoping so trying to relax and not think about it nt going very well lol x

 

[Shannon30]

HOPE everything is crossed for you!!!!! Good luck!!

 

[PurpleIvy44]

Well...I have it in writing today at 9dpo Awh I am sooo overjoyed...c'mon little bean...please stick!! Get comfy...WE LOVE YOU ALREADY!!!

Yay! I haven't seen those tests around here so that's pretty neat. Congratulations!

 

[Shannon30]

Hope everyone is feeling good!!! I am still in shock and keep testing every now and then!!!lol Ultrasound schedule at 6 weeks!!

 

[PurpleIvy44]

So believe it or not, I have not told my husband yet. I wanted to make sure things didn't turn bad right away but now that I've had the blood tests & US I know it's time. So my idea was this, my b-day is Thurs/Thanksgiving and I told him I was going shopping Wed to buy myself something. I was going to get a gift box and take 2 new tests on Thurs. and put them in there. Then when I open it, I'll say..do you want to see what you got me? And inside will be a CB digital w/pregnant on it along w/FRER. I'll be exactly a week late at that point so he won't say it's too early. See last time, I told him the same day and then when I told him about the possible of a chemical, his face just fell and he kinda shut down expecting the worse...it killed me. My next US is 11/30 and they're going to check for the fetal pole so I was going to wait until then but I think that's a bit too late and I think I want him to come w/me. What do you think??


Hope- Fx for you!
Shannon- Christmas US, yay Woops just saw you meant you'll be 6 weeks, even better! 2 weeks away.

 

[hope2903]

That sounds like a great idea purple, like you said waiting till the u/s would be a bit late and it would be nice fir him to go with you sounds like a perfect way to do it would love to see his face.

Well took another test this morning 9 dpo was bfn not suprised, was kinda of hoping after me getting a nosebleed yesterday which i never get that it might have been a sign read online that its a good sign, i know ive still got time ill keep hoping

 

[carlywarly]

So believe it or not, I have not told my husband yet. I wanted to make sure things didn't turn bad right away but now that I've had the blood tests & US I know it's time. So my idea was this, my b-day is Thurs/Thanksgiving and I told him I was going shopping Wed to buy myself something. I was going to get a gift box and take 2 new tests on Thurs. and put them in there. Then when I open it, I'll say..do you want to see what you got me? And inside will be a CB digital w/pregnant on it along w/FRER. I'll be exactly a week late at that point so he won't say it's too early. See last time, I told him the same day and then when I told him about the possible of a chemical, his face just fell and he kinda shut down expecting the worse...it killed me. My next US is 11/30 and they're going to check for the fetal pole so I was going to wait until then but I think that's a bit too late and I think I want him to come w/me. What do you think??


Hope- Fx for you!
Shannon- Christmas US, yay

That sounds like an AWESOME plan!! Would love to be a fly on the wall!! Ooh and good luck at the next scan xx

 

[bbanner19]

I hope all is well with everyone. Unfortunately I have bad news. I started to spot last night but just a tiny glob when I wiped. Since this is my first it kind of freaked me out. We went to the hospital and they ran some tests. They were hoping it was just tissue from the uterus stretching. My hcG level came back at 20,000 which they said is normal for anywhere between 6-12 weeks. However, they had to do a vaginal ultrasound and the baby was only measuring 6 weeks with no heartbeat. I know I am not wrong on my dates. My lmp was on September 15th which is 9 weeks from today. They think it is likely the baby stopped growing at 6 weeks. I originally had my appt for my ob on Monday so I will still go to that as a follow up to check for heartbeat again. If there is no heartbeat then likely it's a miscarriage. I have been dealing with it pretty well but my husband is taking it hard. I understand it happens and why it happens so I haven't taken it too hard yet. I think it will be harder when I actually start miscarrying. I have not had anymore spotting since the one glob last night. What are your thoughts on D&C versus a natural miscarriage? I know my ob will ask me what I want to do.

Just want to add I am still hoping that the ultrasound was bad and difficult to read correctly though I know that's not likely. I am sad and disappointed but I feel calm which I must admit is surprising me. My husband and I have had a lot of discussions since last night and we are prepared to move on if we need to. It will still take me time to mourn but for now it just doesn't seem too real until it actually happens.

 

[AuCa]

Just want to drop a quick note today, as we are still on our trip and coming back tomorrow....(gotta get up at 3:30am tomorrow, ugh)

Bbanner19-
So sorry you are going through this! Wish I could help somehow.

PurpleIvy, carlywarly, Shannon - Congrats!! Can't believe there has been 3 BFPs (am I missing any?) since I've left on the trip a week ago.

AngelNoelle - glad you are back HOpefully things with your DH are better again.

Nothing much new with me. Had a great time this week and was distracted enough not to obsess about the 2WW. Currently 10dpo and BFN. Don't have high hopes (no symptoms either), but that's ok.
I'll write more once I'm back to reality...

 

[MinnieMcMoose]

I hope all is well with everyone. Unfortunately I have bad news. I started to spot last night but just a tiny glob when I wiped. Since this is my first it kind of freaked me out. We went to the hospital and they ran some tests. They were hoping it was just tissue from the uterus stretching. My hcG level came back at 20,000 which they said is normal for anywhere between 6-12 weeks. However, they had to do a vaginal ultrasound and the baby was only measuring 6 weeks with no heartbeat. I know I am not wrong on my dates. My lmp was on September 15th which is 9 weeks from today. They think it is likely the baby stopped growing at 6 weeks. I originally had my appt for my ob on Monday so I will still go to that as a follow up to check for heartbeat again. If there is no heartbeat then likely it's a miscarriage. I have been dealing with it pretty well but my husband is taking it hard. I understand it happens and why it happens so I haven't taken it too hard yet. I think it will be harder when I actually start miscarrying. I have not had anymore spotting since the one glob last night. What are your thoughts on D&C versus a natural miscarriage? I know my ob will ask me what I want to do.

Just want to add I am still hoping that the ultrasound was bad and difficult to read correctly though I know that's not likely. I am sad and disappointed but I feel calm which I must admit is surprising me. My husband and I have had a lot of discussions since last night and we are prepared to move on if we need to. It will still take me time to mourn but for now it just doesn't seem too real until it actually happens.

Oh my gosh, I'm so so sorry!
I have never miscarried so haven't got any pearls of wisdom for you I'm afraid, not that it would help anyway. There's not really much I can say except I've got everything crossed for you that they've just misread the ultrasound. Keep us updated, we'll be thinking of you xx

 

[Shannon30]

I hope all is well with everyone. Unfortunately I have bad news. I started to spot last night but just a tiny glob when I wiped. Since this is my first it kind of freaked me out. We went to the hospital and they ran some tests. They were hoping it was just tissue from the uterus stretching. My hcG level came back at 20,000 which they said is normal for anywhere between 6-12 weeks. However, they had to do a vaginal ultrasound and the baby was only measuring 6 weeks with no heartbeat. I know I am not wrong on my dates. My lmp was on September 15th which is 9 weeks from today. They think it is likely the baby stopped growing at 6 weeks. I originally had my appt for my ob on Monday so I will still go to that as a follow up to check for heartbeat again. If there is no heartbeat then likely it's a miscarriage. I have been dealing with it pretty well but my husband is taking it hard. I understand it happens and why it happens so I haven't taken it too hard yet. I think it will be harder when I actually start miscarrying. I have not had anymore spotting since the one glob last night. What are your thoughts on D&C versus a natural miscarriage? I know my ob will ask me what I want to do.

Just want to add I am still hoping that the ultrasound was bad and difficult to read correctly though I know that's not likely. I am sad and disappointed but I feel calm which I must admit is surprising me. My husband and I have had a lot of discussions since last night and we are prepared to move on if we need to. It will still take me time to mourn but for now it just doesn't seem too real until it actually happens.

I am speechless...I am sooo sorry. I am praying it is a mistake. Sorry you are going through this. I had one in the past and they are horrible..thnking of you!!!

 

[PurpleIvy44]

I hope all is well with everyone. Unfortunately I have bad news. I started to spot last night but just a tiny glob when I wiped. Since this is my first it kind of freaked me out. We went to the hospital and they ran some tests. They were hoping it was just tissue from the uterus stretching. My hcG level came back at 20,000 which they said is normal for anywhere between 6-12 weeks. However, they had to do a vaginal ultrasound and the baby was only measuring 6 weeks with no heartbeat. I know I am not wrong on my dates. My lmp was on September 15th which is 9 weeks from today. They think it is likely the baby stopped growing at 6 weeks. I originally had my appt for my ob on Monday so I will still go to that as a follow up to check for heartbeat again. If there is no heartbeat then likely it's a miscarriage. I have been dealing with it pretty well but my husband is taking it hard. I understand it happens and why it happens so I haven't taken it too hard yet. I think it will be harder when I actually start miscarrying. I have not had anymore spotting since the one glob last night. What are your thoughts on D&C versus a natural miscarriage? I know my ob will ask me what I want to do.

Just want to add I am still hoping that the ultrasound was bad and difficult to read correctly though I know that's not likely. I am sad and disappointed but I feel calm which I must admit is surprising me. My husband and I have had a lot of discussions since last night and we are prepared to move on if we need to. It will still take me time to mourn but for now it just doesn't seem too real until it actually happens.

I'm so sorry for your loss. Being pregnant is a wonder yet terrifying at the same time. Thinking of you and your husband during this difficult time.

 

[carlywarly]

I hope all is well with everyone. Unfortunately I have bad news. I started to spot last night but just a tiny glob when I wiped. Since this is my first it kind of freaked me out. We went to the hospital and they ran some tests. They were hoping it was just tissue from the uterus stretching. My hcG level came back at 20,000 which they said is normal for anywhere between 6-12 weeks. However, they had to do a vaginal ultrasound and the baby was only measuring 6 weeks with no heartbeat. I know I am not wrong on my dates. My lmp was on September 15th which is 9 weeks from today. They think it is likely the baby stopped growing at 6 weeks. I originally had my appt for my ob on Monday so I will still go to that as a follow up to check for heartbeat again. If there is no heartbeat then likely it's a miscarriage. I have been dealing with it pretty well but my husband is taking it hard. I understand it happens and why it happens so I haven't taken it too hard yet. I think it will be harder when I actually start miscarrying. I have not had anymore spotting since the one glob last night. What are your thoughts on D&C versus a natural miscarriage? I know my ob will ask me what I want to do.

Just want to add I am still hoping that the ultrasound was bad and difficult to read correctly though I know that's not likely. I am sad and disappointed but I feel calm which I must admit is surprising me. My husband and I have had a lot of discussions since last night and we are prepared to move on if we need to. It will still take me time to mourn but for now it just doesn't seem too real until it actually happens.

Hun I am so so sorry!! The same thing happened to me in May...I didn't have any spotting or anything - but knew something wasn't right. I got a scan at my EPU and was only measuring 6 weeks (should have been (9+3). I opted for a natural mc...I didn't start bleeding until almost a week later - and it went on for 19 days!! Then I didn't get AF for almost 4 months. I know my experience is not the norm, but if the worst was to happen to me again I would choose a D&C. 2 women who lost around the same time went that route and they were back to normal a couple of cycles later. Everyone is different....and although my experience was not great - I feel at the time it was the best decision for me.

I am here to talk if you need to. You are being very strong...and I wish you the best. Sorry once again...xxx

 

[Shannon30]

I hope all is well with everyone. Unfortunately I have bad news. I started to spot last night but just a tiny glob when I wiped. Since this is my first it kind of freaked me out. We went to the hospital and they ran some tests. They were hoping it was just tissue from the uterus stretching. My hcG level came back at 20,000 which they said is normal for anywhere between 6-12 weeks. However, they had to do a vaginal ultrasound and the baby was only measuring 6 weeks with no heartbeat. I know I am not wrong on my dates. My lmp was on September 15th which is 9 weeks from today. They think it is likely the baby stopped growing at 6 weeks. I originally had my appt for my ob on Monday so I will still go to that as a follow up to check for heartbeat again. If there is no heartbeat then likely it's a miscarriage. I have been dealing with it pretty well but my husband is taking it hard. I understand it happens and why it happens so I haven't taken it too hard yet. I think it will be harder when I actually start miscarrying. I have not had anymore spotting since the one glob last night. What are your thoughts on D&C versus a natural miscarriage? I know my ob will ask me what I want to do.

Just want to add I am still hoping that the ultrasound was bad and difficult to read correctly though I know that's not likely. I am sad and disappointed but I feel calm which I must admit is surprising me. My husband and I have had a lot of discussions since last night and we are prepared to move on if we need to. It will still take me time to mourn but for now it just doesn't seem too real until it actually happens.

Hun I am so so sorry!! The same thing happened to me in May...I didn't have any spotting or anything - but knew something wasn't right. I got a scan at my EPU and was only measuring 6 weeks (should have been (9+3). I opted for a natural mc...I didn't start bleeding until almost a week later - and it went on for 19 days!! Then I didn't get AF for almost 4 months. I know my experience is not the norm, but if the worst was to happen to me again I would choose a D&C. 2 women who lost around the same time went that route and they were back to normal a couple of cycles later. Everyone is different....and although my experience was not great - I feel at the time it was the best decision for me.

I am here to talk if you need to. You are being very strong...and I wish you the best. Sorry once again...xxx

I agree..I also had a mc and had a D&C and it was a quick procedure and back to normal quickly...good luck..THINKING OF YOU!!!!!

 

[bbanner19]

Thanks ladies! That's why I love this group, I can always count on you for support and advice.

I ended up passing everything naturally this morning. It was extremely painful. I am just resting now to make sure nothing bad happens like hemorrhaging. I just have light bleeding like a normal period. I will still go to my OB tomorrow for a follow up and make sure that everything was passed and no tissue remains.

I am not sure when we will start trying again. We will at least wait one cycle to make sure everything is back to normal. Thank you so much for all your concern and support! You ladies are awesome!

 

[hope2903]

Banner I'm so sorry hun for what your going through sending lots of hugs ur way.

took another test this morning was convinced it was gonna be bfp was a bit disheartened wen it was negative, any of you ladies get bfn at 11 dpo but still got a bfp later on.

 

[carlywarly]

Thanks ladies! That's why I love this group, I can always count on you for support and advice.

I ended up passing everything naturally this morning. It was extremely painful. I am just resting now to make sure nothing bad happens like hemorrhaging. I just have light bleeding like a normal period. I will still go to my OB tomorrow for a follow up and make sure that everything was passed and no tissue remains.

I am not sure when we will start trying again. We will at least wait one cycle to make sure everything is back to normal. Thank you so much for all your concern and support! You ladies are awesome!

Awh hun...I hope you're OK? I am sorry this happened...but at least it seems to have been a quick process for you xx FX at the OB appt tomorrow and good luck for the future and a sticky bean!! Make sure you do take time to grieve though...I thought I was fine but things have a way of surfacing without you realising or wanting. Lots of hugs xx

Sorry Hope...I have my FX for you xx

 

[Smiler82]

Thanks ladies! That's why I love this group, I can always count on you for support and advice.

I ended up passing everything naturally this morning. It was extremely painful. I am just resting now to make sure nothing bad happens like hemorrhaging. I just have light bleeding like a normal period. I will still go to my OB tomorrow for a follow up and make sure that everything was passed and no tissue remains.

I am not sure when we will start trying again. We will at least wait one cycle to make sure everything is back to normal. Thank you so much for all your concern and support! You ladies are awesome!

Bbanner - been offline for a while, so sad to log back on and hear this news. I'm so sorry for your loss. I hope you get a clean bill of health at your appointment but know from my own experience that it's not something you get over emotionally as quickly as you do physically. Just have to take it easy for a bit and be kind to yourself. And there's always someone on here ready to talk if you need it x

 

[hope2903]

Well im out this month ladies the has just arrived three days early