Luck of the BFP! Welcome back groupies and wevwelcome new friends!

[TTCaWee1]

My birthday is the 20th...I'm at work so I'll start it tonight when I get home!

Cassidy your chart looks awesome!! I hope you are preggers!

I'm highly doubting this month will give me a bfp, seeing as we only dtd on Wednesday and I O'd yesterday. But I will say I had the best ewcm this cycle. I wonder if the hsg cleared out my cervix? I'm telling you it was abundant and great quality! Too bad it was a waste...next month DH will be on days so hopefully it will be my month. Besides I didn't really want a Christmas baby...none of us did right? Maybe that's why there's been no BFPs....

 

[TTCaWee1]

Should I make the group under TTC or groups and discussions? I feel like we are isolated under groups...

 

[goldstns]

Alissa- how u doing in your tww?

 

[tryingandhope]

HEEEELLLLOOOOOOO LADIES!!!!!!!!!!!
I missed all of you so much! I JUST got my computer into my mom's place tonight, BnB is so hard to log onto on my phone, plus I left my charger at my house and forgot to grab it so i was only able to charge my phone in the car.... blah blah blah.

Anyways- did some fast reading, kind of got the jist of what's going on with everybody.

Nikki- I have lots of good feelings for you this month, like I said before I have a STRONG feeling you will concieve naturally when you're not expecting it...

Cassidy- I am so excited for you, I think you've got it this month as well. Just have high hopes for both of you big time. Hoping all went OK with DF's appt today and they figure out what the hell is going on!

Julie- So sorry that damn showed up!!

Rachel- That sucks that you and DH had a fight about it, i've been there and it's a terrible spot but I don't think by any means your 'out' this month! Cheer up, you could be in my shoes.... at square one LOL

Afm, well it's been a roller coaster of course. DEH and I have been pretty civil overall, but I find myself sort of wanting to go back to him every once in awhile, just because it's comfortable and familiar but I know that's not the right thing. I keep reminding myself that one day I am going to find someone that I am meant to be with that I won't be able to live without. Although that seems like a really overwhelming task at 26 years old as I type this from my parents basement.... seems a bit grim but I know i'll get there! You'll all have kids before I get pg probably LOL!

 

[goldstns]

Rachel- yay to getting drunk for bday!! Also put the threat where u want to.... I'll be there!!

Kyla- glad ur back! Hope times get better for u. U deserve it! I missed u. Thanks for the encouragement this month. Hope your intuition is right.

 

[jury3]

For those of you who have had fertility related testing...what do you ask your doctor for? Do you ask your gyno and they refer you to someone else or can they gyno do any testing themselves? We've only been trying for 3 months, but I keep wondering if I should just go and have them test things out to make sure. I'd rather know now then down the road. Will they even do it now or are there requirements? I'm a little worried things might be different for us since we aren't going the "traditional" ttc route...

 

[jury3]

Kyla-It took me a while to really accept that I didn't want to be with DEH. It's hard when you've been with someone so long! It will get easier though

Rachel-I'm up for whatever on the thread...You are right, I think we wanted to avoid Christmas babies and so far some of us are doing a good job of that lol

An acquaintance of mine announced her pregnancy today...she has 2 little girls already and has always talked about how she didn't want anymore because the last one was so difficult. When we talked about this last summer she still didn't want anymore. So, this was either unplanned or they must have just started trying recently. She's 3 months along. I'm happy for her, but can't help but be a bit jealous/frustrated. I feel like all these people are getting pregnant and passing us up...My brother is engaged and planning to get married next May. He told me yesterday his fiance took out her IUD. They are not financial stable and have a lot going on right now. If they get pregnant right away I will be kind of pissed lol

 

[TTCaWee1]

https://babyandbump.momtastic.com/t...67-april-bds-bring-may-bfps.html#post26430579 <-----new group!

Julie - I just made an appt with an RE. I think it just depends on your insurance. I went in, talked to the RE, told him I really just wanted to start out with labs and an HSG. He agreed. But also offered meds and IUI next cycle. My OB on the other hand, told me to come back after a year. I went "over his head" on my own and made my own RE appt. My pregnant friend who is also a lesbian, went to the RE before starting to try, but they did IUI with donor sperm. But they did do an HSG in the very beginning. I think that going would be a good idea. Just because you have a limited supply of spermies and if I were you I wouldn't want to try for a year, just to find out that I had blocked tubes or something...ya know? I'm sure that everything is kosher but better safe than sorry. Thats how my friend looked at it...she wanted to make sure everything was golden before shelling out 5 grand to try to get pregnant.

 

[goldstns]

Julie- not sure with ur insurance, but I just googled a fertility specialist in my area and just went. They said if your goal is to have a kid then I was making an apt at the right place. I didn't need any referrals. But I also already knew I had a bit of issues with my hormones. Once I was at doc apt they had a list of things to test at first apt and then they go from there depending on results. They took like 5-8 viles of ... I could look up everything they tested if you want to know. I understand some of the tests but not all.

 

[TTCaWee1]

Kyla - I'm glad you are back!!!! Please stay!!

 

[NDTaber9211]

Well, we got in for DH results today and I am trying REALLY hard not to get caught up in my head. I am taking the fact they had us wait 5 days for the results as a positive sign. If the cancer was back I would like to think they would've had him go in right away to start treatments... Must stay positive no matter how hard it is...

 

[jury3]

Nichole-I hope it all turns out ok. Definitely let us know how it goes!

P.S. Rachel started a new thread, you should join us over there!
https://babyandbump.momtastic.com/trying-to-conceive/1802567-april-bds-bring-may-bfps-14.html

 

[goldstns]

Praying for good news Nichole.... but Julie is right come to our new thread. We chance our thread every month... kinda like a new start.

 

[clynn11]

Good Luck Nichole!!! But yes, come over to the April thread now!!