Ok sorry for this selfish post but I'm so upset and I want to know if I am overreacting.
My df has just commented on some girls photo on fb saying "fit!! Lol" and it made me cry. I've said that its disrespectful to me that he would call some other girl fit on Facebook where everyone can see and it's just plain rude. Fair enough we all look and find other people attractive but I just find it a smack in the face that he'd put that on Facebook like that for everyone to see.
He said it was a joke and she's a lesbian anyway, but he doesn't seem to understand why I am upset. Other people on Facebook don't know she's a lesbian and that it was a joke, I didn't know that either and my initial response was to cry.
I asked him how would he like it if I called someone else (who he didn't know, coz I have no idea who this girl is) fit on Facebook and apparently it wouldn't bother him.
Am I overreacting and I should just see it as a laugh between him and his gay friend? Coz I think about whether I would comment on any of my gay friends pics and call them fit, and I don't know if I would. I might say "gorgeous" or something like that, I don't know. Maybe I am being silly. It just upset me that he's called some other girl fit.