Lucky thread

[baileybubs]

Emilia lay to my left, that's why I always felt kicks and punches to my right side. That's the reason they couldn't use forceps on her, coz she was sideways. Try not to worry though he can definitely still move as labour begins, don't forget my labour wasn't natural so she probably didn't have chance to properly engage and turn.

 

[cupcake1981]

Yeah left is the good side for baby to be on apparently x

 

[baileybubs]

Really? I wonder why it makes a difference whether they lay to the left or right?

 

[SATH]

Bailey cupcake what is it with these men. Bailey totally think you need a sit down chat and really explain to dh I don't thing he gets it. Men def grow up later don't they but it sounds like you have 2 kids.

Cupcake your oh sounds just like mine is now so I dread it! Glad to hear lbbc is doing well. Can you believe you are nearly done!

Cath sounds like we might have ov'd same time what do you reckon bump buds? How did you find crgw? Im looking at Birmingham women's once I get oh completely on-board.

 

[SATH]

Bailey cupcake what is it with these men. Bailey totally think you need a sit down chat and really explain to dh I don't thing he gets it. Men def grow up later don't they but it sounds like you have 2 kids.

Cupcake your oh sounds just like mine is now so I dread it! Glad to hear lbbc is doing well. Can you believe you are nearly done!

Cath sounds like we might have ov'd same time what do you reckon bump buds? How did you find crgw? Im looking at Birmingham women's once I get oh completely on-board.

 

[cupcake1981]

Apparently it's to do with baby having to rotate to get through the pelvis, if they are left they only have to go 90 degrees, but right they would have to rotate 270 degrees, as most babies turn clockwise! And as my placenta is on the left there's no room for him there hence why he's on my right!

Hubby and I gave made up.

Sath I hope you and cath are bump buddies!!!

 

[baileybubs]

Aw yeah that would be great, and mrs d too, all three of you could be bump buddies!!
Yeah Sath I keep saying I feel like I have a baby and a teenager. He needs to grow up but then I get sick of hearing myself say it, sigh!

Cupcake I didn't know that about them rotating, you learn something new every day lol! What did you say to dh?

 

[cupcake1981]

It was the one thing I learned at antenatal lol!

Mrs d are you there today? Have you had any symptoms?

 

[cathgibbs]

Thanks hun...yeah chances of having one in my good tube are the sane as anyone else but its increased fir my ectopic tube....just feel like if its took away iv lost a lil bit of my woman good iygwim?

Cupcake no idea hun could be anything from 3-6 months. Hopefully hun he will move once labour starts! Its soooo exciting! Glad you and hubs have made up hun! Is he going fishing on Sunday?

Awwww Sath that would be lush! All 3 of us! I got everything x for us hun! I found crgw absolutely marvellous. ..didnt push me into paying for anything extra ss they kept saying they will refer me back to nhs for all yhe extra tests etc and I really liked that! How far away is it from You hun? Xxx

 

[cupcake1981]

Aw be lovely for you to be bump buddies, I've not had one which has been a bit rubbish!

Yeah he'll still go fishing, whatevs!

 

[baileybubs]

Lol cupcake, whatevs, it's so much easier for a quieter life just to let it go isn't it? I feel like I'm tiring myself out by being mad at him and I can't be arsed anymore lol, but I'm not giving in til he at least attempts to make it better!

 

[cupcake1981]

Yeah I can't be done with stressing tbh! You should defo gave it out with df at least about not getting up early enough to spend time with Emilia, she'll only be a baby once, blink And you miss it!

 

[baileybubs]

I know I said that to him this morning. I said I was upset about the whole fb thing but that made me more sad than anything, but to then not get up early today on top of that when he knew he'd be out all day was out of order. He mumbled an apology and of course then his lift turned up to take him to work.
The thing is he won't see my now til tomorrow morning and he will have just forgotten about it.

 

[cupcake1981]

You have to tackle these things chick else they never get better and you will keep being frustrated. When does he next get time off? Could MIL have Emilia for an hour or so so you could iron some things out and come to some sort of agreement about your expectations of him and where he's letting you down?

 

[baileybubs]

Yeah I will deffo be sitting down having a chat with him, probably tomorrow on his break I will. I have no idea when his next day off is though coz his boss hasn't done the rota yet. Drives me bonkers! I'd stay up and talk to him tonight when he finishes work but knowing my luck he won't get back til 11pm and I can't stay up that late. If I knew he'd be back by 10pm I'd stay up but can't guarantee it, depends how busy they've been.

 

[cupcake1981]

Yeah probably best to do it tomorrow anyway, when you're less tired, rather than waiting up for him to get in.

On another note do you watch masterchef given that you used to be a chef? Oh and the bake off starts next week!

 

[baileybubs]

Well I set masterchef to record but it didn't and I've no idea why! Might have to catch up on Iplayer. I didn't watch the last series of bake off but I might watch this one. I think I missed the beginning so never watched it lol.

 

[cupcake1981]

Yeah defo watch it! It's weird I will start watching it and will probably sit down and watch the final as a mummy!!!

 

[baileybubs]

Aw that's so cool! I bet you can't wait now! Did the MW mention if lbcc was engaged at all?

 

[cupcake1981]

I know i want him now! Still feels like forever away. He's not engaged but is low, lol like I needed to be told that, he's always on my cervix!