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Haha tawn there aren't many people that think boy after my scan. Hopefully they will scan me at my appointment on Wednesday but if not then they definitely will 4 weeks later at my 20 week one

I hope tonight goes ok and it doesn't upset you too much having to listen to Madison cry :( just think of all the lovely sleep you'll be getting when it works xx
 
TBH it's not even so much about my sleep at this point, it's about hers. She is getting f*all sleep day and night and it't turning her into a cranky hot mess

Bailey, it's gentler because it allows me to pick her up and cuddle her at checks and it only starts with bedtime routine not the entire night or naps yet you build up really slowly. They said its likely the only way a highly spirited baby like her will be able to cope cause she will get so hysterical she literally wont be able to calm herself down at that point

fingers x'd!
 
Aw I really hope it works, for all your sanities sake

Does one of you have to do the program or can hubby help too?
 
Aw I hope it works tawn, it must be awful when she gets hysterical and can't calm herself. Is it kind of like PUPD then but with set timings on how long you leave her?
 
Yeah, it is quite a complicated process though. It is a 25 page plan! PUPD (the straight up version) really doesn't work for her as she gets so much more worked up with each PUPD session and it becomes increasingly difficult to soothe her, so I guess it will be interesting. Tonight works on 5 minutes, then 10 minutes, then 15 minutes and then 15 minutes every time after that. I'm not sure it will work at all, but the great thing is they will work with us to adapt it depending on her response tonight. She really is a tricky nut to crack as she doesn't "fuss" at all, she is 0 to 60 as far as getting upset so I've never been able to let her work on it herself at all as she just gets SO worked up and then her sleep is 100x worse.

She is a baby of extremes! When she is happy, she is HAPPPPPPPY!!!! And when she is unhappy, she is HYSTERRRRICAL! My little spirited child, don't know WHERE she got it from lol
 
How is everyone?

Good luck tonight tawn who knows maybe she'll surprise you!

Mrs d sounds like you have a nice night planned have fun.

Ttc im keeping everything crossed for you, this is your month.

Bailey, cheryl how are bump no2's treating you.

Espero how is it going?

This cycle is proving to be a nigtmare clearly not meant to be. If its not my ibs its my oh. He was away last but supposed to be back tonight but nope major probs of some sort so looks like no show till Sun. Im getting major ov pains on both sides, ew and near positive opk, what a pain!! Milk man is looking v attractive right now :-)
 
Lol isn't it great when you can see your own personality in theirs! Emilia is a bit like that, when she's happy she's very happy but when she's not woooooaaaah, she's an angry bear lol, just like me! She's not laid back like her daddy.

I found PUPD made Emilia more stimulated/upset depending on her mood too. The more I went to her the more she'd then cry. But she's not really a baby that gets comforted by cuddles, she gets angrier when I pick her up and try to cuddle her!
 
Aw Sath that sucks about your oh! What a nightmare, this cycle has been a bit of a pain for you hasn't it. When did you last dtd though coz those spermies could still be waiting?
 
Think fate is kicking my arse. Only 1 bd tues night so not very likely. V weird I can feel ov pains from both sides maybe clomid is making me ov from both sides.
 
Tues night isnt too far away though hun, sperm can live for 3-5 days inside the uterus so dont give up hope. And yeah its probably the clomid making you O from both sides so you could end up with twins :winkwink:
 
Sath, 3 days ahead of o is actually really good Chances still! Means the spermies are in there just waiting for an egg to pop out :)

An hour in and she hasn't even stalled for a millisecond and its REALLY hard to calm
Her in between checks. She's almost losing her voice already. :( gonna be an awful night. Suddenly I can't remember why I'm doing this. Feels so cruel :cry:
 
Aw Tawn, I'm sorry its so hard, just try and remember there is a reason and its for Maddie's sleep hun big hugs to you and I hope that it gets easier :hugs:
 
Tawn stay strong hun must be awful but Madison will thank you one day. Big hugs thinking of you xxx
 
Oh Tawn I'm so sorry you are having a tough night, like bailey said remember it's for the greater good for both of you. Lol maybe we will go for no 2 together and be bump buddies! I've not had my period back yet and Zach is 9 weeks, maybe cos I'm still expressing.

Mrs d enjoy your meal x

Bailey sod what everyone else thinks, if I were you I'd wait til 12 weeks in this situation to, dunno about you but maybe they will be less fast to cast judgement when you have a scan pic to show them.

Sath you still have a chance at bd 3 days b4 ov. What does your hubby do that he gets stuck away with work?

I've just been and had all my hair chopped off!
 
I think that's why I'm so keen on waiting cupcake, coz once I'm 12 weeks and there's a scan pic it makes it more real. Only problem is that I'll be 12 weeks on Boxing Day and spending Xmas with family! So think I'm gonna get a private scan the week before Christmas.

Oooh put a pic on fb and let's see your new hair! Mines still a long mess! I'm forever tying it back and putting a hairband on. Is handy though now coz Emilia is a grabber and will pull hair!

Yeah it's probably coz you are expressing you haven't or AF, do you express often (every 4 hours I think keeps O at bay apparently).
 
Ttc good luck missy. Xx

Sath ur milkman a hottie lol?? I hope u really get it this month Hun...x

Tawn aw good luck with the control crying... I really wish Leo wud sleep right thru..x

Bailey when are u telling everyone? X

Cupcake how's Zach doin?x

Mrs d hope tonight is good Hun...x

Afm loaded with the cold ics seem to be getting darker I'm thinking I'm about 3 wks oh and my favourite cousin just told me she's 5 wks pregnant so I'm so excited now. Xx
 
Hi cheryl :hi: we are waiting til Christmas to tell people. I just don't feel ready to tell anyone yet.
Aw that's great about your cousin and the ICs too! Fab news!
 
Yeah prob best we will wait till jan even tho I told my cousin. Xx
 
Sorry you're sick Cheryl I've had that to.

Bailey My hair was such a mangy mess and I'd had enough plus Zach is a grabber to!!

I don't manage to express every 4 hours I try for 4 times a day.

Loads of bloody fireworks !!! Shut up!!!!!
 
We don't have any fireworks tonight surprisingly! Although we've had enough this week already lol!

How short have you gone cupcake? I'm tempted to just go and get an inverted bob you know...
 

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