Lucky thread

[CherylC3]

I just cancelled my fb cos of ppl like tht... I really want to adopt and my dh doesn't I don't want anymore heartache but I don't think il change his mind. I phoned a private place to see about private testing and they only do the bloods im already getting tested on the nhs in julyX

 

[cathgibbs]

their nothing more than bullies hun, if it carries on def go to the police and demand something be done, they cant get away with harrasment, did you get my email hun my works email is being a bit tempermental today! xx

 

[cathgibbs]

Awwww cheryl after your next appointment have a little you time, wait a couple of months before deciding if you would like to try again, there are a few of us that cant/not trying for a good few months so your more than welcome to wait with us? hope your ok hun xxx

 

[Bumpblues82]

yer i did cathy ill post it next week as im away this weekend and dunno if ill get a chance x

cheryl i would delete my profile but i live 50 miles away fiew rom all my friends and family and its a way i use to keep in contact with people x we started the adoption process and had initial interview and heard nothing back yet and that was 3 months ago!

 

[cathgibbs]

Thats fine hun i dont think ill be needing it for a few weeks anyway, OH suggested adoption to me, right now im saying no but the way things are going it might be the most suitable option, his father adopted him as his sperm doner father is a waste of space so OH would like to adpot a bit more than me xxx

 

[Bumpblues82]

i really dont mind adoption we agreed that its either both of ours or neither! as i did suggest a surrogate with oh sperm as i really dont mind that but oh said he wouldnt feel comfortable x

 

[Bumpblues82]

i think id love a baby either way weather it was biological or not and i dont mind missing some firsts as i think there are pleanty more to come x i love the idea of giving a unwanted baby a home x

 

[cathgibbs]

yeh id love that , iv always wanted to adopt but since meeting my oh iv wanted kids with him and iv wanted a bump and wanted MS and stretch marks etc i want everything that comes with pregnancy so i think thats what i would miss if i couldnt have children? i would looooooove to adopt a little baby though and a toddler? what are the requirements to be able to adopt these days like age, relationship etc xxx

 

[Bumpblues82]

18 + and either married or together 3 years + thats it really x

 

[CherylC3]

Aw you shud keep ur fb then... I wud love to adopt as long ad it was a baby well under 2... But dh isn't wanting it no way the thing is I think if I go on to hav a third mc I will defo be adopting so I think this may cause bother between us I just want a baby to care for to give them a good home.. We hav everything a baby needs good home, good family and financially we ok.. I just don't ever want to go for a scan crying my eyes out again

 

[cathgibbs]

oh hun i know what you mean, the thought of getting pregnant again is absolutely petrifying me but i think of all the women who have gone on to be fine after loads of mc or ectopics and i know i have to do it if i dont ill regret it, why doesnt he want to adopt hun xxx

 

[CherylC3]

oh hun i know what you mean, the thought of getting pregnant again is absolutely petrifying me but i think of all the women who have gone on to be fine after loads of mc or ectopics and i know i have to do it if i dont ill regret it, why doesnt he want to adopt hun xxx

He either wants his own kid or nothing not fair if u ask me.

I was laughing the hospital gave me a leaflet yest and I just thot it was the mc one but it was called the waiting time lol they've got a leaflet for everything, I kno il be getting the mc one next wk.

 

[Bumpblues82]

yer i know the feeling! im terrified of mc again its awful that we cant just ejoy our pregnancies :/ i read a load of sucsess stories online last night about progesterone so trying to stay pos as poss! when it comes to aboption i was looking into it in my area and there were 3000+ kids needed a home last year and only 80 were under 1!

 

[cathgibbs]

Bump what level are your prg levels?

Ahhhh thats not fair Cheryl, its not fair for you to have to go through the physical pain of a mc again either if you dont want one xxxx

 

[CherylC3]

Aw I kno it sucks for us woman... Time to go to work and put my face on as if nothin has happened.

 

[cathgibbs]

what do you work as hun? why dont you go on the sick today chick? xxx

 

[AmyB1978]

Only really lurking here, but figured I would post.. since it is a lucky thread.. maybe it will help me get a BFP and then a sticky bean!

 

[Bumpblues82]

cathy- i dunno my levels they neer been checked!!

 

[cathgibbs]

next time you go hun request it, i did! As soon as i got my bfp i rung the drs and requested a HCG and prog level check and my hcg came back at 400odd for 14dpo and my prog was 69 which is quite high so that was good, im hoping next time they will be the same! xxx

 

[Bumpblues82]

i have to ring the specialist in coventry tonight at 6 so ill ask her if she will stick in a request for them to be checked in the letter shes gonna send my gp to keep me on progesterone till im 18 weeks. in some ways i dont wanna know if its working or not tho lol