Lucky thread

[baileybubs]

I wish all doctors were as nice as that! I'm hoping my doctor will be willing to refer me for an early scan when I get my BFP, although I don't know what good it would do me as my baby was fine until 11 weeks last time.

 

[Wiggler]

I hope you can get an early scan next time

I got lucky, we got given a doctor who specialises in womens health. My doctor I saw in the last pregnancy asked if I was certain I had a MC and it wasn't just a heavy period

The only thing this one did to annoy me was she said what a gorgeous pair of sons I have... my baby is a GIRL!!! x x x

 

[CherylC3]

Hey welcome Amy..x

I'm a mobile hairdresser cath so need to work...xx

Mrs duck I wish it wud resolve itself but I think 4wks is a long time to hav been in there it must be comfy... I'm dreading a dnc too

Yeah for the scan wiggler..x

I'm hoping all u ladies get ur BFP in July il be staying on this thread but not ttc till the end of aug I think my body nds a cpl months rest..xx

 

[baileybubs]

That might be good for your body Cheryl, although I'm sure it might be hard for you mentally and emotionally. But we are always here to talk to about whatever! I love a good old chinwag and I feel like most other people in my life don't understand all this pregnancy, ttc and mc stuff. Even my friends that have had a mc have all got kid now so they aren't interested. Only my oh and my friend at work who's had 4 mc's seem to understand, not that I blame other people for not understanding, I don't expect them to but its hard to tell them how I'm really feeling.

 

[baileybubs]

And Wiggler your previous doctor sounds like a tool! And is that your daughter in the picture? Gorgeous!!

 

[Wiggler]

Thanks hun, she is normally running round with the cheekiest grin causing havok, so glad I could grab a piccy of her chilling out.

I totally get what you mean about people not understanding, I only have 3 proper IRL friends, a childless person and the other 2 are a married couple, the childless one has never been through pregnancy or MC but is AMAZING a brilliant support through the MCs and when I need a "OMG I am soooo scared" vent, the married couple are pregnant after 18ish months TTC and due a few weeks after I was with my first angel and they have really distanced themselves and it has really upset me, when we see each other they are friendly but I can tell they don't feel comfortable, I know they aren't doing it on purpose, but it makes me feel like I have a contagious disease

 

[baileybubs]

Yeah I know how you feel, I have 3 best friends, one who has no kids and is in a long term relationship, she's always said she doesn't want kids and whenever I try to talk to her about mc and pregnancy she doesn't really respond. She was very sympathetic and caring at the time of my mc but now its like she can't be bothered. I don't know if she has her own issues she's not told me or if she's just not really interested but I don't bother talking to her about it now. One of the others has had 2 abortions. I lived with her when she had one and I know she didn't make the decision lightly, and the first one she was 16. She was great when I mc'd. And I can talk to her but I know she doesn't understand it really, even though she's had the same medication as me for the abortion.
And the last one is a male who's sister has had 2 mc's and he is caring and understanding but as a single bloke there's only so much he can understand.
You always think that you can talk to your friends about anything, but as you grow older you realise that's not always true.

 

[Bumpblues82]

so specialist said when i phoned her that the progesterone should get me past when the placenta takes over the production as thats where i seem to have problems as she thinks my body isnt producing enough to get me past that point.. and im on it till 18 weeks just to keep my mind at rest and that if i want i can talk to the specialist here and i can stay on it longer as can help prevent pre term labour! she said i dont need to get my levels checked as there is no set guide line to what it should be as everyone is different. so roll on monday for the scan xx

hope u are all well im going away this weekend but taking my lap top with me im a bnb addict now!!

 

[ttcbabyisom]

Bfn again ladies. And no sign of AF. No idea whats going on. I'm 12dpo so maybe I O'D late and AF wasn't due yesterday. I haven't had a proper cycle since miscarriage so maybe my cycles just longer and AF is just due in a few days. I don't get why I felt like she was coming Saturday though......oh well all I can do is wait and test again another day if she doesn't show up. 12dpo is a bit late to get a bfn and then get what on a later day though. Feeling queasy this morning too and got a 12 hour shift. Trying to keep the faith but I think June isn't my month

Sorry baileybubs! Hang in there.

 

[ttcbabyisom]

Well I've just been on eBay buying clear blue opk's and a frer for next month. Got a new strategy, going to use the opk's and bd around O time every other day and whenever else we feel like and then use a frer only when I'm 14dpo!! No more disappointing IC BFN's!! An July I will catch the egg!! Going to book my tattoo for next week so I can get it done I get pregnant lol!! And party on Saturday yay!!
Hope everyone's having a good day cxxxx

i got my stash too for testing day, etc. i like your new strategy! Go you! Great attitude! I'm praying for you!

 

[ttcbabyisom]

I am only buying digi opks and no ICs, test when AF is late is the way I am going, too stressful!

I agree Dani. This is very stressful...Hang in there sweetie and I'm praying for you!!!

 

[ttcbabyisom]

Thanks Leinzlove! I hope I do O on my bday, that would be a wonderful present! I am CD19 here with my opks super faint as of yesterday, so I'm not sure it will be tomorrow exactly but even soon thereafter would be great at this rate!

I had my smear test today as well, so hopefully that news comes back all clear and healthy as I never even had an exam or bloods done after mc. That and O sound like perfect birthday pressies!

good luck on smear test results and i hope for a bday O for you!!! i had my pap today today and some cultures done and will do bloods on monday. just getting all my levels checked to make sure everything is ok and normal.

 

[Dani Rose]

When's Af due Dani? You never know chick I got everything x for you,happy birthday to your little boy he's so gorgeous!! When did you say your going to London? Oh suggested we go up there the same weekend to meet up for drinks etc?

I really don't think they have dropped,my gprs are pos as soon as the dye travels up the stick and they are the darkest they gave ever been will find out tomorrow after my bloods have been tested,hate being stuck in bloody limbo land xxx

For some reason I missed this! I think it's 7-9 of sep! Lady gaga the sat pm

Finners had a great birthday!


Waiting impatiently for my backdrop and lights. Got 3 enquiries last night! Eeeek hope this takes off!

 

[baileybubs]

Morning all!

Ttcbabyisom - thanks, I'm trying to stay positive and not let it get me down! PMA all the way hehe! Let's catch those eggs!!

Bump - glad your doctor is doing something hun. If you don't mind me asking, at what stage did you mc before? I worry about my progesterone levels but I know they won't test me coz I've only had 1 mc.

Dani - glad you ds enjoyed his birthday

Tawn - happy birthday! Think I'm a couple of days late with that sorry!! Hope you o'd and caught the eggy!!

I made a realisation last night, I don't want to be heavily pregnant when I get married, which we are hoping to do in September next year (just need to pick a place and book it!!) so that means that after Novembers cycle this year I will have to stop ttc for a few months!! That only leaves 5 cycles left for me to catch that egg eeeek!! I WILL be pregnant by Christmas!!

And just a quick question, it's never concerned me before but I have always had really short periods. They only last 2-3 days. This isn't anything for me to worry about is it?

 

[Dani Rose]

My AF is light too. Well until mc and clomid. Im on cd 6 and still wearing a tampon

I think light is a worry from what I've been reading but we have been pg before so I wouldn't worry too much. Think it's a thin lining? Like I said though the fact we've been pg makes me think it's not always a cause for concern

 

[Dani Rose]

Oh and as for wedding that is why we delayed and had ds. Got married when he was 2 now back ttc lol. Never ends!

Hopefully u get a pre and post wedding baby

 

[baileybubs]

Well I was thinking that it can't be much of a problem as I was pg! And I know from my check up scans after mc that my lining was 11mm think which doctor said is normal. My period isn't light, just short. Maybe it's just heavy and short rather than gradual....it doesn't seem to get to medium flow it just short of starts heavy then spots by the morning of cd3.

But then I worry that I only got pg coz I had just come off the bc pill. Sometimes they say you are more fertile after coming off it. But they also say you are more fertile after a mc too and yet here I am on my third cycle ttc after mc lol! I over think too much!
I'm making sure I write everything in a diary though so if I'm still having problems conceiving in a few months I have the proof for the doctor!

 

[baileybubs]

Thanks dani, that would be good, one before and after! For some reason I always pictured me already having a baby by the time I got married, I don't know why.....hopefully its a sign that I will!

 

[Dani Rose]

I'm sure you will. I think. All the same things. Just keep remembering it's normal to take any couple a year. Mc or not. Have you watched the great sperm race? It really puts into perspective how hard it is to catch that egg!

 

[baileybubs]

No I've not watched it....might have to see if I can watch it, help me be more realistic about my chances lol!!