Lucky thread

[Tawn]

UHHHHG Bailey don't even worry about that girl. She is like 18 years old and acts it. She is always complaning that she never gets enough attention on threads, this isn't the first time. Plus, I think it was really rude of her to post "YAY I GOT MY 3+" directly after the other post about a girl worrying because she only got 2-3 on her digi a week after getting 2-3 the first time. In fact, I REALLY had to bite my tongue to not say something to her about how inconsiderate that was!

 

[cupcake1981]

Aw bailey I'm sure it's not cos of that, and you are right they shouldnt be used for progression! X

 

[baileybubs]

Phew, she's PM'd back saying it wasnt me, it was that noone in the thread ever seemed to respond to her (which I only didnt because I was busy reassuring the other girl at the time lol) but she's deffo siad it wasnt me. God I feel so bad thinking I could have upset someone with my silly ramblings lol!!

Ooooh poppy decorating!! I wish I could decorate my house, my landlay wont even let us put a picture hook up!! I'm just gonna decorate and see if she notices one day lol!! Is it the nursery you are decorating?

 

[cupcake1981]

Aw Tawn and bailey your other thread sounds juicy! So glad there's nothing like that on this thread! X

 

[baileybubs]

Thanks Tawn, I wanted to say that the reason I hadnt said congrats was because the other girl had just been worrying that hers wasnt, I couldnt exactly say "dont pay attention to digis they arent reliable" to one girl and then congratulate another, would be a bit hypocritical really......is that the word I want hypocritical??

 

[Poppy84]

I agree they shouldn't be used for progression. I want to know who this attention seeking 18 year old is now. We never get anything juicy happen here

Yes we've been painting the nursery yellow

 

[cupcake1981]

I sometimes worry that I am a little too direct at times but I never mean to be, I would be horrified if I ever upset anyone!

 

[Tawn]

Yup that is exactly the word, but I know what you mean! I just think it is funny, she always complained that no one responded to her and a few times I said, OK I am going to make a POINT of responding to her so she doesn't feel left out and nothing. Zilch. Nada!

That always bothers me when people feel "ignored" but can't be bothered to support anyone else or respond to THEIR concerns......

/rant/ LOL. This is the same thing as earlier, I obviously have an issue with selfish people! That is why I love this thread so much!

 

[baileybubs]

Aww I love that colour for a nursery!! So nice and bright!!

Poppy its not really juicy at all, just me trying not to upset people and apologising for something I havent even done lol!!

 

[Tawn]

Bailey, you are so much nicer than me! You are truly such a sweetheart!

Believe me, you are nothing but kind here on BnB!

And Poppy, I LOVE yellow for a nursery!!!! Are you still happy not knowing the gender or is it harder now that you "COULD" know----did that make sense?!

 

[baileybubs]

Lol, Tawn you make me laugh, I love how you get your little rant on about things lol!!

But you are right, and its hard sometimes, I try so hard not to let people feel ignored and to respond to everyone, but theres a difference between being selfish and not replying and accidentally missing someone. I'm gonna go read back now coz I never noticed her responses and stuff lol, I created the thread and I only pop on for a bit, not like this thread lol!! Its great to have bump buddies but this thread is indeed the best thread for support!!

 

[MrsDuck]

Cath xxxxxxx see you soon miss you already xxxxx

Bailey we all know you would never say anything to hurt anyone, you are far to lovely xxx

I love yellow for a nursery poppy, are you going to post a pic of the nursery when you have finished I'd love to see it? Xx

 

[WestEndMum]

I also think yellow is lovely for a nursery, it is so cheerful, like sunshine.

Thank you all so much for your support already.

Might not be the best response but hubby and I have just been to the pub for a few beers, just trying to get a bit of light relief. Looking forward to being able to try again.

Do you think we need to wait for AF or just until the bleeding stops?

 

[Tawn]

It was just little comments Bailey. Where she was like "why haven't you changed my ticker yet" twice in one day and she changed her emotion to feeling "Ignored". So I wrote that you were at work and hadn't been on BnB all day (it was the day we were worried for you because we didn't see you log in all day lol) and congrats on her being farther ahead than she though and she completely ignored me lol!

Anywho! MrsD, whatcha watching tonight? I watched About A Boy earlier and it made me feel warm and fuzzy. I love that movie!

 

[Tawn]

Ohhh actually WestEndMum, this thread was originally called "trying before first AF" and a lot of us on here joined together because we were trying to get pg as soon as the bleeding stopped from our m/c's. So if you feel emotionally ready and your doctor says it is OK, I think you should go for it.

And a few beers after all that stress and heartache sounds well deserved hun!

 

[WestEndMum]

thanks Tawn, it's difficult to know what the right response is

 

[baileybubs]

Westendmum, the first thing I did when i found out about my angel leaving us was go to the pub, which sounds bad but I was in a very bad place and was thinking "well i may as well". Its totally understandable to want to blow off steam and get some relief. And what did your doctors say about ttc? Was it a natural mc?

Tawn - yeah I remember you saying that about me being at work. I didnt think anything of it lol!! But I have just looked back and theres no evidence of anyone ignoring her except for today when she said about 3+, and thats only coz it was innappropriate timing. In fact she hadnt even welcomed the two newcomers coz she clearly didnt read back to anyone elses posts. We've been here before lol!! But anyway moving on lol!! How are you feeling today hun? I got a bit spaced out before!

Dani - where is your spa weekend, I bet you cant wait, I'd love to do that! Have you got a nice tan?

 

[MrsDuck]

Westendmum dani's motto is drink til it's pink which I think is great, so go on have a drink x

It's entirely up to you to start again whenever you feel ready. Drs say to wait til bleeding has stopped but then the advice seems to differ, on this thread alone there was a mixture some ladies went onto ttc immediately whilst others waited for af or longer, I think the main thing is you being ready x

Hiya tawn I'm not watching anything tonight I've either been on bnb or the phone all night, I missed eastenders but apart from that there hasn't been anything on, I didn't see about a boy thats a good film x

I totally agree with you about selfish people grrrrr.

How's the ms?

 

[cupcake1981]

Aw is that true Tawn and you ladies have made it a lucky thread? How lovely

Westend it's up to you, but I was advised after my ERPC to wait for bleeding to stop before having unprotected sex because if the risk of infection as your cervix may still be open. Did you have a d&c/Erpc? How long ago was your mc (apologies if you said and I don't remember) x

 

[baileybubs]

And ladies thank you for saying all the lovely words about how I would not have upset anyone, you are all so sweet! So glad I am on this thread!

Whats everyone up to at the mo? I'm catching up on celebrity big brother lol.

ooh I forgot to say hi to mummy2 earlier as I read your posts but then forgot what had been said coz there was so much to catch up on!! Hope you are currently sending that fertilised eggy down the falopian tube to get snuggled up in the uterus!!!

Shellie, have you O'd yet?

Hows everyone else?