March/April BFP's who's going for it!! NEW LADIES COME JOIN IN!!

[bamagurl]

I may go buy a digi just to make sure then....

 

[garfie]

Hi Ladies

Please may I join? - I have read this thread from the beginning and WOW WHAT A POSITIVE UPBEAT THREAD just what I need right now

I am hoping for a July baby but as we are not officially allowed to try until at least another week (I had a DNC a week ago) I may be pushing it but hey you never know right?

I started temping again - take a look its in my signature as you can see my temps are all over the place

I also have bought some OPK's today (my first day out by myself in over a week was great to get some fresh air) but ssssshhhh don't tell hubby he wants to take a more relaxed approach

Lisalee - Congrats on your hun make sure you take it easy

Bamagurl - I think I can also see something, good luck with the digi, keeping my fingers crossed for you hun

I'm sure I will get to know you ladies over time, good luck to us all





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[bamagurl]

Hi Ladies

Please may I join? - I have read this thread from the beginning and WOW WHAT A POSITIVE UPBEAT THREAD just what I need right now

I am hoping for a July baby but as we are not officially allowed to try until at least another week (I had a DNC a week ago) I may be pushing it but hey you never know right?

I started temping again - take a look its in my signature as you can see my temps are all over the place

I also have bought some OPK's today (my first day out by myself in over a week was great to get some fresh air) but ssssshhhh don't tell hubby he wants to take a more relaxed approach

Lisalee - Congrats on your hun make sure you take it easy

Bamagurl - I think I can also see something, good luck with the digi, keeping my fingers crossed for you hun

I'm sure I will get to know you ladies over time, good luck to us all





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WELCOME!! So sorry for your loss! I have heard of many ladies getting pregnant soon after a loss! Sending happy thoughts & your way

 

[Storked]

Thanks for checking on me!!

I'm doing ok. Was strangely fine with this second loss at first, but it hit me a few days after the fact and I've had a bad week (up until Wednesday when things started looking up again). Now I'm just waiting for 'O' any day now and excited about this month's possibilities

This is a great thread!

glad you are feeling positive!
Sorry about your bad week. It always takes a while to sink in, doesn't it?

Well that's the strange thing, I was in total denial this time because it was nothing like my first MC. First time it all hit me straight away because it was so full-on (in terms of MC 'symptoms'). I just kept thinking this time that maybe I didn't lose it, so i think that delayed the grieving.

Having been through infertility (before my DD) and now MCs, I think I'd prefer to just struggle to fall pregnant than to lose babies. It's just been the most awful few months ever

I totally understand. Mine was a MMC. Had pregnancy symptoms all the way to 12 weeks. Have never felt more betrayed by my body. I hope your next is a sticky bean dear
I am sorry

 

[Storked]

I am in a fertile period! Cervix was high and was getting watery CM yesterday so feeling good about it! Didn't BD on Wednesday because the hubby was sick (wouldn't have stopped me but he was put out at my pushing) but we did it last night and more promised for today so I'll take what I can get
How are you doing dear?? Getting impatient to test?

Woohoo! Go for it!!! It's so great when your fertile period is on a weekend! Enjoy!

I hadn't thought of the weekend. You are SO RIGHT! BRILLIANT

 

[Storked]

Storked: Hope your Dh feels better! At least you got some BD in!!! And YAyyyy for the fertile moment!!! At least u BD, my DH and I missed Tue/Wed and he bothered me all day Wed. ab BD so when we finally went at it, we went for 1 hour and 10 mins, i was crying inside! And u would think something good came from it, my DH didnt even CLIMAX!!!! SO that 1hr and10min was a BIG WASTE bc he said he gotten tired. I was mad and furious and he's going to ask,"why are you mad, you got yours right?" and im like, "huh, I CANT GET MYSELF PREGNANT!" so i slept on the other side of the bed by myself and he was trying to figure is it that serious. "YES IT"S JUST THAT SERIOUS!!" "NO SPERM,NO CUDDLING!!" Anyhoo yea i want to test but getting scared at the same time

Mummy_2_One: Thats great that it gotten better for you. I was the same way, when the mc begin happening all over again, i felt the same as you but i was like o well, im use to it but after a week of it settling in, i broke down and cried. But the best feeling is when the bleeding stop and "O" show up, we def got another chance ma'am!!! We'll def get it this time and we def have to remind ourselves that this will be a successful pregnancy,once we get pregnant again! fingers are def crossed for u, bc u def will have a beautiful story to tell

If he can't finish faster I'd get outta the bed I just hate long sex. It hurts, and not in a good way! Hopefully he learned his lesson

 

[Storked]

Nevergivingup that sounds frustrating, I bet it was frustrating for your husband too! Wowowowow, one and half hours. Maybe when I was in my early twenties but I can't really imagine going for that long now.

I am feeling really good. I don't feel sad about the MMC, maybe that sounds weird to some of you girls but for me it is simply nature's way. I have every confidence I will fall again in the next few months and this will be the right one. I see no benefit in looking back and feeling sad/blaming myself/wondering why about what has happened (for me, I know everyone deals with things differently).

C'mon then! Who is next? I'm thinking a firm positive for Bamagurl in the next couple of days then Storked and nevergivingup, who both sound like they have BD'd for their countries this month.

Don't get my hopes up
That totally made me think of "close your eyes and think of England"
I love your confidence and how positive you are. You are an example to me

 

[Storked]

Thanks.... This is what it looks like today

I still see something!!

 

[Storked]

Hi ladies!! I see we're having some dismayed women today. To my "Soon June BFPS" lovely ladies, it's ok if we dont hit it this cycle. We still have July!!! Which is 1wk and 1 day away. We will def be ok ladies if we dont get it in June! Hopefully the "SOON JULY BFP"ladies will share their glory month with us!!!! LADIES LIFT THOSE HEADS AND CHINS UP, WE JUST HAVE TO GO FOR IT IN JULY!!!! .....Which is AGAIN....1wk and 1 day away!!!!! POSITIVE THOUGHTS.....

ps. Dont women like me get aggravating some times. Like really lady, SHUTUP!! Haahaha, just kidding, i really want to spread positivity and give us something to do out loud instead of thinking it to ourselves and telling family members or strangers our symptons while they're giving us the ugly face. like there's actually something really better to do than go over Prego symptns and baby names and dreams and etc with us!

Dont give up ladies...1wk 1 day, we'll be back in the game!!

I am that much closer to testing eventually. WOOT!

 

[Storked]

I agree about the whole digital vs normal pregnancy testing thing... when I got pregnant in April, I could barely see a line at all and had to really work hard to make out a line.

When I wasn't convinced and went to get a digital clearblue pregnancy test, it came up "pregnant, 1-2" because I just had a really small level of HCG...I'd never have been convinced I was pregnant at all until I saw it in front of me.

I had faint lines but my hubby only believed my digitals

 

[bamagurl]

Thanks.... This is what it looks like today

I still see something!!

Thank you! I am going to wait and test in the morning again! It should show up alot better!!!

Can't wait till it is your turn to test storked!!!

 

[Storked]

My cervix was so high last night that sex was borderline painful :O

 

[Storked]

Thanks.... This is what it looks like today

I still see something!!

Thank you! I am going to wait and test in the morning again! It should show up alot better!!!

Can't wait till it is your turn to test storked!!!

It's gonna be a long wait! We just don't get early results in my family *shakes head*
Ok, not to sound like a creeper but your fingers were pretty LOL. My thumbs look like toes! I have short, stubby fingers. They are small but still.
But I totally saw a line right away when I clicked on the pic. And sometimes I don't see other people's BFPs either on the testing thread...such an addiction

 

[bamagurl]

Thanks.... This is what it looks like today

I still see something!!

Thank you! I am going to wait and test in the morning again! It should show up alot better!!!

Can't wait till it is your turn to test storked!!!

It's gonna be a long wait! We just don't get early results in my family *shakes head*
Ok, not to sound like a creeper but your fingers were pretty LOL. My thumbs look like toes! I have short, stubby fingers. They are small but still.
But I totally saw a line right away when I clicked on the pic. And sometimes I don't see other people's BFPs either on the testing thread...such an addiction

Aww thanks! I was looking at them thinking ugh my fingers I hope I don't look like I have man hands or old ladies hands haha Things always look so different in pictures lol!
Thanks! I am remaining positive and hopeful! Neither do I! The earliest I have gotten a bfp well faint line positive that really had no question it was there was 3 days before af was to arrive

 

[Storked]

Thanks.... This is what it looks like today

I still see something!!

Thank you! I am going to wait and test in the morning again! It should show up alot better!!!

Can't wait till it is your turn to test storked!!!

It's gonna be a long wait! We just don't get early results in my family *shakes head*
Ok, not to sound like a creeper but your fingers were pretty LOL. My thumbs look like toes! I have short, stubby fingers. They are small but still.
But I totally saw a line right away when I clicked on the pic. And sometimes I don't see other people's BFPs either on the testing thread...such an addiction

Aww thanks! I was looking at them thinking ugh my fingers I hope I don't look like I have man hands or old ladies hands haha Things always look so different in pictures lol!
Thanks! I am remaining positive and hopeful! Neither do I! The earliest I have gotten a bfp well faint line positive that really had no question it was there was 3 days before af was to arrive

Hopefully this is it for you

 

[lisalee1]

Hi Ladies

Please may I join? - I have read this thread from the beginning and WOW WHAT A POSITIVE UPBEAT THREAD just what I need right now

I am hoping for a July baby but as we are not officially allowed to try until at least another week (I had a DNC a week ago) I may be pushing it but hey you never know right?

I started temping again - take a look its in my signature as you can see my temps are all over the place

I also have bought some OPK's today (my first day out by myself in over a week was great to get some fresh air) but ssssshhhh don't tell hubby he wants to take a more relaxed approach

Lisalee - Congrats on your hun make sure you take it easy

Bamagurl - I think I can also see something, good luck with the digi, keeping my fingers crossed for you hun

I'm sure I will get to know you ladies over time, good luck to us all





X

Welcome! Glad to have you here.

Very sorry to hear about your loss. I hope you're getting the support you need for a quick recovery.

 

[lisalee1]

I am in a fertile period! Cervix was high and was getting watery CM yesterday so feeling good about it! Didn't BD on Wednesday because the hubby was sick (wouldn't have stopped me but he was put out at my pushing) but we did it last night and more promised for today so I'll take what I can get
How are you doing dear?? Getting impatient to test?

Woohoo! Go for it!!! It's so great when your fertile period is on a weekend! Enjoy!

I hadn't thought of the weekend. You are SO RIGHT! BRILLIANT

Yes! My fertile period this past month was on the weekend and it was great timing!

By the way, I read your post a few lines up and was so sad that you had a MC at 12 wks. It's great that you have remained so positive. Wishing you a lucky month this time around!

 

[Storked]

I am in a fertile period! Cervix was high and was getting watery CM yesterday so feeling good about it! Didn't BD on Wednesday because the hubby was sick (wouldn't have stopped me but he was put out at my pushing) but we did it last night and more promised for today so I'll take what I can get
How are you doing dear?? Getting impatient to test?

Woohoo! Go for it!!! It's so great when your fertile period is on a weekend! Enjoy!

I hadn't thought of the weekend. You are SO RIGHT! BRILLIANT

Yes! My fertile period this past month was on the weekend and it was great timing!

By the way, I read your post a few lines up and was so sad that you had a MC at 12 wks. It's great that you have remained so positive. Wishing you a lucky month this time around!

I have moments of being positive and moments of anger but I let myself wallow for about 2 weeks and it was very healing. I hope I get lucky too!
I feel so confident about it but hope I don't disappoint myself! All I can do is baby dance and pray

 

[bamagurl]

Aww storked I was 12 weeks also when I lost our little one! I had no clue just went to the dr for the apt and the heartbeat was gone ;(

 

[Storked]

Aww storked I was 12 weeks also when I lost our little one! I had no clue just went to the dr for the apt and the heartbeat was gone ;(

Did you also feel betrayed by your body? I did. I think I'll forever dread ultrasounds. So sorry you had to go through that too