March/April BFP's who's going for it!! NEW LADIES COME JOIN IN!!

[lisalee1]

BayBeeEm- excited about your TWW! Hoping this is your month!

Never- Happy anniversary!!! Hope you have a wonderful evening with your hubby.

Storked- Naked movie night!!! Best idea EVER!!!! Keep em rolling! I will surely implement that one in the near future.

Krissy- Thanks for the info about planning a birthing plan. I will definitely look into that.

 

[janelleybean]

Hi ladies.. Sorry I've been MIA for a bit. I've been in sort of a funk lately. My hubby and I have been going back and forth as to whether we should try to conceive another baby... It's too much for me to think about at this moment, so I've decided to focus on other things that are more important at the time. My kitchen! We've been remodeling our kitchen since February and it's still not done. I'm in love with the look of subway tile, but the price--not so much. So, long story short, I was able to buy 50sqft for $120. That may sound like a lot, but actually, I was able to haggle with the sales lady, and it would have cost me (((drum roll))) $400!!! Talk about a score. Now, if I could just find my motivation, I'd be set.

I haven't really had time to read what everyone has been saying. I saw someone got engaged. Congrats!

Sweetz- I read that you're separating. If it makes you feel any better, sometimes it's that time apart that makes you realize how much you love someone and you want to spend the rest of your life with that person and you'll do anything to get them back. So, lets hope your hubby gets hit in the head with that reality blow.

Storked- I read that you're TTC is that right? Alright! I wish you the best and hope that it happens for you girl! Just remember patience is a virtue

Baby- I hope that you get you're BFP soon.

Krissy- How have you been? Are you and hubby going to ttc this month?

Sorry, I haven't addressed everyone else, I've been trying to keep my mind busy and not think about the MC. Although these cramps don't make it easy--they are just a constant reminder.

You are all a bunch of lovely ladies and I'm just really glad I joined this thread. So, to each and every one of you. Thank you.

 

[Storked]

Janelley, do what is best for you honey!
Why can't impatience be a virtue?

 

[Storked]

How come the Lifetime Nora Robert's movies aren't on Netflix? I am in mood

 

[lpjkp]

Ok ladies, I feel slightly freaked out...!!!

Over the last couple of nights I've been having really restless night and really vivid baby dreams (Last night I dreamt that my DH dragged me along to get an ultrasound even though I told him there was no way I could be pregnant, and there were two babies in there...It was so realistic and I remember every detail of it)...woke up with really sore boobs, so I figured "Hey, 6dpo today, I might aswell start my POAS addiction!"

I've got plenty of the 10miu ultrasensitive tests so, figuring that because I needed a wee anyway and could do a double whammy and test, I thought go for it!

This is where I'm confused...within a minute a really faint 2nd line popped up and I thought "Huh?!" There's no possible way I could get a second line this early on is there?! And can you can an evap within a minute?! If I tilt the test in all ways, that line is still there?

I'm soo soo confused...I guess I'll have to keep testing over the next few days...maybe it was just a faulty test? Though, because I'm a dork and didn't trust it, I tested again in a cup of water and there's no line at all on that test?

 

[shefali83]

hey ladies i am pulling my hair this side
AS you all know i started spotting from 2 dpo.. i started ttc as soon as mmc bleeding stopped. i confirmed OV with ewcm and positive opk. No af yet.
well the spotting stopped at 7 dpo This is so weird! could this be due to low progesterone or maybe my cycle is messed up after mc. cant be implantation as it tooo early for that i have white creamy cm now(TMI). Af due this saturday.. Thoughts please? Anyone experienced this??
last week my hcg was 0 and u/s was clear as well..

 

[shefali83]

Ok ladies, I feel slightly freaked out...!!!

Over the last couple of nights I've been having really restless night and really vivid baby dreams (Last night I dreamt that my DH dragged me along to get an ultrasound even though I told him there was no way I could be pregnant, and there were two babies in there...It was so realistic and I remember every detail of it)...woke up with really sore boobs, so I figured "Hey, 6dpo today, I might aswell start my POAS addiction!"

I've got plenty of the 10miu ultrasensitive tests so, figuring that because I needed a wee anyway and could do a double whammy and test, I thought go for it!

This is where I'm confused...within a minute a really faint 2nd line popped up and I thought "Huh?!" There's no possible way I could get a second line this early on is there?! And can you can an evap within a minute?! If I tilt the test in all ways, that line is still there?

I'm soo soo confused...I guess I'll have to keep testing over the next few days...maybe it was just a faulty test? Though, because I'm a dork and didn't trust it, I tested again in a cup of water and there's no line at all on that test?

Wow its definitely early but exciting! Can you post a pic for us??

 

[garfie]

Lpjkp - Oooooh fingers crossed for you - I have some 10ml ones and I have not seen a second pink line faint or otherwise. Remind me again about your cycle so I can obsess with you Didn't you use the CBFM?





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[shefali83]

Hi Shefali83, I'm seeing a RMC specialist on the 6th September. The last time I was referred, after my first 3MCs I was lucky enough to get pregnant again which resulted in my DS. So no testing was done at that time. It's 3MCs here in the UK before they refer you.

Since my latest 2MCs this year I was sent to gynaecology and had a terrbile experience, in a nutshell the consultant dismissed most of my conversation, links of MCs with PCOS (which I have), my diet etc etc, and he basically told me to do what I did when I carried before!. I also had my last 'products of conception' sent for testing and he said they probably didnt do anything with it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Anyway, I have had coagulation and thrombillia (sp) tests done and they were normal. My GP has been a lifesaver and she has referred me to a proper RMC specialist in a different hospital. She also did a couple more tests a couple of weeks ago for the sticky blood thing as her and a doctor I saw at hospital during my last MC both suspect it could be that or hormone levels due to the PCOS. My pregnancies all end at 8-10 weeks, all after good healthy scans etc. The time I did carry I followed a low GI/diabetic diet strictly and I dont know if that was the key but I will be doing that and taking aspirin if the tests aren't done by then, or dont show anything significant. I had such sugary cravings with my last pregnancy and found the diet really hard to stick to, I fear it contributed but of course we'll never know.

Tests of my last MC loss can take months where I live so I still havent heard anything from April

So it's a matter of keeping positive and continually looking forward, and praying a lot xo

Janelly- If you don't get your period by Monday, you should try to get a blood test to put your mind at ease.

Shefali- Sorry to hear you're still in limbo. Sometimes things get out of whack after a MC. I think the farther along you were, the longer it takes to get back to normal. Are you using OPKs?

Yes dear i am using opks. infact i got lot of ewcm leading to a positive opk about 2 days before the spotting started. We bd as well around that time

Shefali, I've had 5 MCs, 2 of them this year. The first time I ovulated after both of them I had spotting which muct have been ovulation spotting. I've never had it before but it fitted in with all my temps etc. It settled down on second cycle after loss. MCs really do mess with our bodies, I'd give yourself a couple more cycles before trying to work out if something strange is going on. Easier said than done mind! Just go with the flow (excuse the pun) and keep .

And on a positive, I had my DS inbetween all those MCs so keep positive xo

oh i am so sorry for your losses cant imagine 5 !
i am still spotting ..i should be about 7dpo now. so i think af will be here after the spotting.. i just read up that spotting between ov and af can be due to low progesterone. can be expected as the hormones must be all crazy rightnow. i am just waiting for my cycles to get regular the way they used to be.. cant handle this wait want to be pg asap

I share that madness. My last MC was on Good Friday and I forced myself to wait until July before we started TTC again as I had two pregnancies straight after each other this year without any AFs inbetween. I just wanted to give my body a better chance to recover to be in good shape for hoepfully another miracle soon . It was an extremly difficult time! I think I just expect to fall pregnant really quickly now but somehow I dont think that will happen so just trying to keep things low key to keep the stress levels down (it's not working ). x

awww did you get any answers to why they did not work??

hey dear even i have lots of tests coming up on the 5th.. In our country we do not get insurance for pregnancy related issues..only for delivery. So everything is done privately here which is ok as it isnt too expensive here. I really pray we get our answers this time and proper treatment for it! fingers crossed for both of us.. waiting for the answers sucks. i have a really low patience level Lots of hugs

 

[shefali83]

Lisalee - Congrats 12 weeks hope your symptoms ease up a little now

Hopestruck - Congrats on your engagement, when is the big day? - my hubby proposed to me via TEXT yep that's right and guess what he spelt my name wrong but geez I was so excited I didn't notice

6 months later we were married and we are about to celebrate our 2 year wedding anniversary on Wednesday

I am also rooting for you that the baby is ok - thinking of you hun

Krissy - I'm sure hubby still fancies you curves and all, it's just they get a bit preoccupied with those stupid games! I have three boys in my house and everyone of them gets so engrossed it drives me mad, personally I can't see the attraction - give me a good soap or reality show any day I can also understand the comment about not wanting to get pregnant if the result is a m/c although we have to have hope that the next one will be fine and of course their are plenty of ladies to back this up - so our next one will be fine hun! ps by the way your hoping aren't you the kids room stays tidy till Monday

Never - How are you feeling today hun - I suppose I can be updated to say the Witch is in the building!

Bay - I know it's a slight improvement 19 to 23 days but it doesn't make it any easier - as most people say you are more fertile after a DNC well I am know on cycle 4! Anyway here's hoping for a September BFP!

Shefali - Hang in there hun - easier said then done but who knows maybe we will get our BFPs together.

Storked - How's the packing going? - are you still ttc or is that on hold for now

His Grace/Angel Serenity - I have to admit I'm not very religious sometimes I wish I had something to believe in with a passion like you ladies in times of trouble I bet it helps

Hi to all the lovely ladies

AFM - CD 2 - not a lot to report except we finally had our romantic picnic yesterday (a day late) not so romantic though with 2 dogs, 2 kids and a cat



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Yay fingers crossed for us

 

[shefali83]

WOW...so much to read....YAYYYY, I love it!

Ok sooo I sneaked on here to see what's happening Bc the Wknds belong to my DH.sorry ladies I thought about y'all though!! So Bc I missed so much I'm def not going to remember everything that was sad, apologies. And I may not get everyone.

BayBeeEm: I'm sooo stoked about your POSITIVITY!!! I love it, def speak it into existence ma'am, I'm speaking for you and with you!! Now go out in that neighborhood and share those hpt with your neighbors, I'm sure all those sticks is dangerous!!! You were soo right about men. I can be your cheerleader all the way over here!!

Hopestruck; how lovely and sweet, I'm sooo glad you n "DF" made it back safely!! CONGRATS MA'AM!!! Any planning? SN: I'm sooo sorry that those numbers weren't as high as you wanted them to be but trust me ma'am Miracles can happen...you just have to have faith the size of a mustard seed. Don't give up yet and claim that m/c, God works miracles just to test your faith. As much as a realist as you are, sometimes it's ok to believe and want things that you cannot see. I'm still holding on for my twin that the doc gave up on on, but just Bc her mouth said one thing MY heart and faith in God says another. GL ma'am, I'm always rooting for you. Count your blessing as they come, you got a soon to be Husband rejoicing is def in order!

Lpjkp: welcome bk ma'am, you know we always misses you!! And it sounds like you're getting back in the game, GO YOU, Mrs.BUSY PANTS!! lol just kidding! I love it!! Never give up on something you want!!

Shefali: I'm hoping your cycle returns to normal it can be a rollercoaster but once it's over and everything back to normal you'll be complaining about excessive BD! GL ma'am!

Stork; you want that baby dang it, an I want it for you too, NOW GO GET IT!!!

Garfie: I always love to see you post since I see you're a traveler! I'm sorry AF showed, but ma'am September is 3 wks away giving AF to come and go and time for you to gear up for "O" so def hang in there!!

AngelSerenity: Love your POSITIVITY, it's contagious!!

Sweetz: sorry for all the Symptns, hope you feel better soon. Keep us updated on appt.

Lisalee: CONGRATS ON BEING 12WEEKS!!! 3 MONTHS PREGNANT, GO YOU!!!!!! You are moving sooo along, you're going to be 13wks next wk!!! I totally not sure if "High School Moms" comes on Sunday definitely, but I saw a preview where it said it suppose to come on Sundays @ 9 or 10pm. I I hope that m/s is easing up.will you be getting the baby magazines after your 12wk appt.?

Krissy: BayBeeEm is sooo right ab DH, I do the same thing, my DH loves his videogames, basketball, football,wrestling,COD, and everything else, and I sit right there and play it with him, and he loves that. I watches football with him, i make his interest mine, his hobbies mine. And in return he gives me quality time,not as much as I want but just enough to make me happy. And our marriage is sooo much better, you have to understand their still men, mine was never a talker evn before we got married, and we were boyfriend and girlfriend for 7 1/2 years before we got married so I had a idea what I was getting into, and all the good stuff about him outweighed the negative Bc mo one is perfect, and we all kindve know what we're getting ourselves into before we say I DO, so we can't expect for them to change after we basically "gave our lives to them".GL(remember what may work for me or others may not work for you, just opinions)

Hi to HisGrace and the other awesome ladies!!

AFM: Today is DH and I 1st year anniversary 08/20/12 It has been a journey but I wouldn't change anything about him or what we've been through Bc they are lessons learned! And he's taking the day off to spend with me..Yayy so I will be M.I.A again. No m/s this Sun. strange.. I've had a aching knot like cramp on the backside of my Left shoulder and it's driving me crazy, I'm sure I slept wrong Bc it's only in that one spot and it only hurts when I move my arm and position my back the same way everytime. It's driving my DH crazy Bc he fears about a m/c, so I try not to worry or say anything TO him Bc he'll be asking me how I feel or am I alright all day long. But as much as I fear to have another one, I know I did all I can do so the rest Is left to GOD, and if it's not meant to be now then I'll keep praying for him TO bless me with it in due time BUT NOT THINKING AB m/c..got to stay positive!

Well it's 4:00am, time for me and Lisalee favorite show, "Married With Children", that show is sooo funny. I will update the list later.

GL ladies, and sorry for the Essay, I see it's becoming a common thing which BayBeeEm is awesome, no aplogies for getting everything out..BC WE WANT TO HEAR!!

Hey dear thanks a ton i am 10dpo now. spotting stopped at 7 dpo. god knows whats up. i have creamy white cm now(tmi)

 

[lpjkp]

After the initial anxiety/excitement has died down, I don't think I'm going to read too much into it...I'm going to put my sensible head on and think that 6dpo would be too early and, besides, I don't have the same symptoms as my BFP month (I had an insane amount of creamy CM then)...maybe it was just a dud test because, after going back to it like half an hour after the time limit, the line has become an evap...mehh, I'll leave it a good couple of days before I test again and I guess I'll know then if it was a fluke or not!x

 

[Storked]

Shefali, cycles are all messed up after mc I am afraid and everyone's is different :-/
Lpjkp, PIC!

 

[shefali83]

Shefali, cycles are all messed up after mc I am afraid and everyone's is different :-/
Lpjkp, PIC!

That sucks isn't it

 

[Storked]

It is frustrating when you just want your baby

 

[shefali83]

It is frustrating when you just want your baby

just yesterday i got to know my cook aborted 4 girls just because they wanted a boy. They do have a boy now plus 2 girls.. it breaks my heart. bloody murderers.. these guys don't deserve even one
and here i am i cant even have one kid.

 

[Storked]

Oh honey I am so sorry! How terrible. I think girls are awesome but will appreciate any gender I am blessed with.
We will both have our babies. It is hard to be patient but we will have our babies

 

[shefali83]

Oh honey I am so sorry! How terrible. I think girls are awesome but will appreciate any gender I am blessed with.
We will both have our babies. It is hard to be patient but we will have our babies

fingers crossed!! I am 29 and i feel the time is running out of my hands.. i want atleast 2 babies

 

[Storked]

Prayers for you!
I want at least two as well but hope for more.

 

[shefali83]

Prayers for you!
I want at least two as well but hope for more.

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