March/April BFP's who's going for it!! NEW LADIES COME JOIN IN!!

[lisalee1]

AFM i just ordered FertileCm and FertiliTea online.. waiting for it to reach me asap.. I hope they help me to get our BFP this cycle I also use preseed and ladycup to hold the spermies in bought softcup this time. lets see how it goes. they look quite big to me

I tried FertileCM but unfortunately it didn't work for me. There are lots of success stories on the internet tho so PLEASE let me know if it works for you. I had to stick to a lubricant. I used pre-seed. I tried Conceive Plus lubricant too but didn't like it b/c it dried out too fast.

If you don't produce your own lubricant and are not using any, you will get sore- especially if you BD everyday. PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE don't do that to yourself. Ouch! Please use a lubricant.

 

[lisalee1]

Army- I'm sorry this wasn't your month. Sometimes, the stress of getting pregnant on demand can be too much. Pregnancy is not something we can just make happen at our own will.
Let me share a little of my story- my husband had a job in which it would have been really bad for me to get pregnant at a certain time of the year. We decided that if we didn't fall pregnant by a certain time frame, I would get back on BC pills until later on during the year. Long story short, I didn't fall pregnant in that time frame but I also didn't get back on the BC pills. I ended up getting pregnant in the 1st month that we deemed would not have been ideal! That was the 1st month that the pressure of getting pregnant was relieved from me (no pressure from him tho) and I wonder if that played a part in it. That was also the month that I had gotten an HSG, not used OPKs, and was on vacation. So it could be a combination of things.

Keep in mind that my husband never pressured me. I put this pressure on myself. He didn't know I was using OPKs or was trying my best to time sex.

So I'm just saying that a lot of times it happens when we least expect it. Different things work for different people. I really hope this is your month. But please don't put too much pressure on yourself (easier said than done). I still like the idea of the fertile monitor b/c I don't think it's a bad idea to know when you're fertile. Best of luck to you.

 

[shefali83]

AFM i just ordered FertileCm and FertiliTea online.. waiting for it to reach me asap.. I hope they help me to get our BFP this cycle I also use preseed and ladycup to hold the spermies in bought softcup this time. lets see how it goes. they look quite big to me

I tried FertileCM but unfortunately it didn't work for me. There are lots of success stories on the internet tho so PLEASE let me know if it works for you. I had to stick to a lubricant. I used pre-seed. I tried Conceive Plus lubricant too but didn't like it b/c it dried out too fast.

If you don't produce your own lubricant and are not using any, you will get sore- especially if you BD everyday. PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE don't do that to yourself. Ouch! Please use a lubricant.

I dont have issues with producing ewcm but cant produce any lubricant for .
I have been using preseed and i totally vouch for it.

We always use lube for . Penetration isn't possible at all without a lube(TMI).

 

[lisalee1]

AFM i just ordered FertileCm and FertiliTea online.. waiting for it to reach me asap.. I hope they help me to get our BFP this cycle I also use preseed and ladycup to hold the spermies in bought softcup this time. lets see how it goes. they look quite big to me

I tried FertileCM but unfortunately it didn't work for me. There are lots of success stories on the internet tho so PLEASE let me know if it works for you. I had to stick to a lubricant. I used pre-seed. I tried Conceive Plus lubricant too but didn't like it b/c it dried out too fast.

If you don't produce your own lubricant and are not using any, you will get sore- especially if you BD everyday. PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE don't do that to yourself. Ouch! Please use a lubricant.

I dont have issues with producing ewcm but cant produce any lubricant for .
I have been using preseed and i totally vouch for it.

We always use lube for . Penetration isn't possible at all without a lube(TMI).

OK Good. That makes me feel better. I was worried that you were trying to go without using anything.

 

[shefali83]

AFM i just ordered FertileCm and FertiliTea online.. waiting for it to reach me asap.. I hope they help me to get our BFP this cycle I also use preseed and ladycup to hold the spermies in bought softcup this time. lets see how it goes. they look quite big to me

I tried FertileCM but unfortunately it didn't work for me. There are lots of success stories on the internet tho so PLEASE let me know if it works for you. I had to stick to a lubricant. I used pre-seed. I tried Conceive Plus lubricant too but didn't like it b/c it dried out too fast.

If you don't produce your own lubricant and are not using any, you will get sore- especially if you BD everyday. PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE don't do that to yourself. Ouch! Please use a lubricant.

I dont have issues with producing ewcm but cant produce any lubricant for .
I have been using preseed and i totally vouch for it.

We always use lube for . Penetration isn't possible at all without a lube(TMI).

OK Good. That makes me feel better. I was worried that you were trying to go without using anything.

LOL no way.. i would probably die Though i still get sore.. Nomatter how much i use artificial lube is never enough for sore free

 

[garfie]

Morning ladies (well nearly afternoon where is the time going?)

Army - So sorry this isn't your month - not looking like it's going to be mine either

Lisalee - How are you feeling today hun any new symptoms for us?

Shefali - Aw hun I know what you mean about shrinking back into your shell - some mornings I don't want to get up, although I am pleased to say I am feeling less like that and more able to tackle the world - even when my best friend says shes pregnant and thanks for helping her work out her one cycle after coming of the BCP

Sweetz - can't wait to see that u/s pic of your beautiful baby

Never - how are you feeling today glad you are glowing shame about the pimples

Angel - Hope you are feeling good today hun and your symptoms are progressing

Baby - I agree with the other ladies - missing you

Greg - Where are you?

Bama - Loving your relaxed approach - wish I could do that but I'm to much of a control freak - I need to know

Storked - Have you thought about using one of his ties - to tie him up much more fun than cuffs if he's scared so have you O yet or are you like me and don't know? - thought I had but my temps say otherwise If hubby won't play ball and put on his sexy lab coat buy one - Ebay

Janelley - gorgeous pictures of your family they grow so quick so lovely to have these memories and so kind that you share them with us

Krissy - You are one busy mama - but yet you always seem to have time for others - I wish I could pop on here more often but between the kids (one who is autistic), 2 dogs a cat and a hamster plus avon ooops not forgetting hubby my days just go by in a blur

Hi to all the other ladies

AFM - I am on CD12 now - Monitor still on HIGH - maybe this month I won't get a PEAK will just be great to know I ovulate again




X

 

[AngelSerenity]

Hi ladies just popping in quickly at lunchtime. I read 10 pages last night and was tired afterwards I couldnt even post , so forgive me. I am reading and keeping up

Garfie, CD12 is still early so I'm sure you will ovulate this month .

Sweetz, looking forward to seeing the US pic as well

Never, how you doing lady? Thanks for always trying to keep us together and summarizing updates, you're an absolute star

Lisalee, how's things today?

Shefali,

Hopestruck, if you're lurking missing you< i hope you are recovering ok

Army , I think that's all I need to say for now

lisalee, I agree with your post 100%, I went through similar and I know loads of couples in the same boat. It's being able to find that relaxed approach. Army, I force myself to think of anything but babies when we , sounds mad but I think it helps!


Janelly, Bama, Storked, Krissy and everybody else


AFM... I've been quite good the past two days, symptoms are not too bad which of course had me worried . But I've just made Thai soup and as much as I like it every mouthful is making me want to heave . Temps are still high so I'm semi-content for the moment. I looked into progesterone cream but after some research I've decided to avoid it until I see my RMC specialist on 6th Sept. I'm not sure if anybody uses it, or is thinking about it when you get your BFP but this article swayed me to wait - https://miscarriage.about.com/od/treatment/f/progcream.htm . I was panicking about progesteron as my GP won't prescribe it, but I dont even know if I need it

 

[Storked]

Shefali, yay for doggie!
I use soft cups and find them very easy to get in there and get out. I actually really really like them and may get a Diva Cup for actual AF. Right when I get my shewee

Army, boo to the witch getting you!

Garfie, no idea when I O this cycle. I am playing it relaxed and just getting in the sex
I don't think I can tie him up with anything if he isn't willing- he is very strong with sexy muscly abs and arms... (heavy panting)
Yay for a high!

 

[Storked]

Angel I think we have had a few ladies use the cream

 

[nevergivingup]

GM ladies; it's 9:03am over here.

Aspe: I def don't have any problem with you asking me; with all my Pregnancies I had IB on 8-10DPO. Which IB occurs around 6-10 DPO so they say. The IB lasted like 3 days only noticeable when I wipe which is a light pink color which can also be a brown coloring. With my pregnancies it was followed by slight cramping in my lower abdomen which felt like AF cramps. Once I got it I would test 3-4 days later resulting in my BFP. Some say IB means low progesterone levels but don't read to much into it, Bc I don't know how true that is. But I def hope that's what it is for you.

Garfie: Yayy always happy to hear from you. And woe yes ma'am your schedule is def taken up which is a great thing. I wish I could be that busy!! The CBFM: on high peak still?! I never used them but all those high days would def tire me out!

Shefali: Again I'm sorry, but you know we're always here for you! Bc we're all going through or went through the same thing. Head Up chin up!! And I hope that fertilaid tea works for you. You'll get it though. I just know you will.

Armymama: O my I mustve missed that post. I'm sorry AF showed up. I was sooo rooting for you. But as much as I know you wanted it this time, you still have one more chance that you know if to get it,dont give up, you never know what God can do for you!

Lisalee: o my, I enjoyed your story, how amazing that was to happen. I agree with you it can happen when we least expect it.

Sweets: Whenever you find energy I def want to hear that story. Again I'm sorry. BTW: YAYYY YOUR U/S is today!! I know it will go well. Have fun and ask lots of questions!!

AngelSerenity: I totally understand how you feel about catching up, heehee, at least you do post. Thank you. About the progesterone, the website that you retrieved it from wasn't as informative and helpful it seemed to be talking more about store bought progesterone and it really didn't underline the pros or cons from it. The ladies on here had a convo about this topic awhile ago on here some far pages ago. And honestly progesterone can't stop a m/c from happening if it's some underlining problems such as chromosomal abnormaltilities. I am on progesterone crinone gel 8% my doctor prescribed me and it's absolutely a saver for me. It helps women who suffered from m/c's, also in many other ways unknown to you or me. Now I wouldn't buy the store bought kind that the website that you referred to is talking about, the only promising kind is the ones you need a prescription for. Bc I'm on my iPhone it will take awhile to type you the accurate info that I recieved for progesterone. So I will pm you the info. I've been using it since I was 4wks and last week was my last week to use it and Angel honestly sweety I am sooo grateful for it, Bc it did help, a Woman's placenta isn't producing progesterone until 12wks prego but any time before that my progesterone could've dropped at any time evn though I tested high @ 4wks. Do more research about it, ask your doc about it before going with one website and saying No. I'm always rooting for you ma'am and ESP. For you to do whatever you can for this baby. ya!

 

[nevergivingup]

CONGRATS TO OUR LOVELY LADIES Lisalee, Nevergivingup, Sweetz , AngelSerenity and Lpjkp we def have more to Come SO CATCH THOSE EGGIES LADIES


Our June BFP's

Lisalee1:June /Symptns 2Day:getting an appetite back. Less sore boobs, m/s going away. 1st HB: 169@ 8wks/ 2nd HB: 167@ 12wks

Nevergivingup: June / Symptns: always XTRA CM, spitting,appetite coming bk, and pimples EDD: March 5, 2013/ 1st HB: 130 @6wks/ 2nd HB: 162@7wks / 3rd HB: 161@12wks


Our July BFP's:

Sweetz33/ July1 Tested / Symptns: gassy,lot of CM, appetite. 1st HB: 145@8 wks, 2nd HB 166@11 weeks



AUGUST BFP's Lovely Ladies:

Angelserenity: Tested Aug. 23: 1st HB:

Lpjkp: Tested Aug 24: / Symptns: Sore boobs / 1st HB:


SOON AUGUST BFP'S LOVELY LADIES:


BamaGurl: / Relaxed Approach TTC: No Tools/ TWW

Garfie: CD 7/ waiting to "O" just

Gregprincess: M.I.A



SOON SEPTEMBER BFP's LOVELY LADIES::

Storked: waiting to "O" Just

BayBeeEm: CD1/ AF showed; Missing you

Janelleybean: CD:7 / Waiting To "O"

Krissy485: CD/ Not Trying until see Doc.

HisGrace: CD 7/ waiting to "O" Just

Hopestruck: taking a break

Kanicky: CD1/ AF in town Test Date:

Aspe: DPO/ TWW

Shefali83: CD 1/ AF showed

armymama2012: CD2/ AF showed

 

[AngelSerenity]

Cheers Never, there is so much conflicting information about! I'm just on the 'can I wait until the 6th September before I do anything' mode but I think I'm going to have to. My appointment with the RMC specialist is then...

And I do agree, it needs to be prescribed so looks like I have to wait. Sorry, i should have made myself clear, I was talking about the ones you can get off the internet xoxox

 

[Sweetz33]

Hey ladies leaving in about an hour for appointment. Excited but nervous. Woke up to horrible ms and *eh-hem * gas bubbles. Not sure where those are coming from lol. I will definetly update y'all when I get back.

 

[Storked]

Sweetz, I have been gassy too. Are we in sync?
Update with pictures!

 

[MnJ]

Angel & Lpj - what dpo are u today?

 

[Sweetz33]

I think so Storked!! Haha!!

 

[Krissy485]

ok so i was working on my nice long reply to yall since i havent posted since last night...my ob dr office called and the receptionist i talked today was such a B**** that i couldnt believe it. i know i told yall that i spoke to two different poeple about my insurance issues there and that my new insurance wont go into affect till sat. well the other two people told me dont worry about since i have medicaid and if medicaid dont pick it up they cant come after me for it since all i have is medicaid...well this told me that the other two people were wrong and i will be held accountable for the charge and have to pay it...and i know it would be a few hundred dollars since it is an ob...so i said fine change me till next week when my insurance is correct....oh then they only had a 3pm right when my kids are about to get out of school....seriously....soo pissed right now cant see straight...must go clean that is what i do when i am upset i clean......grrrrr........

i jut want answers is that too much to ask? all though i am sure she would tell me well since you carried the first mc tilll 11.5 weeks and it was a blighted ovum it shows you can carry especially since you had 3 previous pregnancies that went to term..and this last mc happens to alot of people so it was just bad luck...i see it now...so why bother going right?!?!?!?!?

 

[lpjkp]

Afternoon everyone!! Hope you're all well! Yet again people have been chatterboxes while I've been gone so I'll do my best to catch up!

MnJ: Hey fellow pregnant lady! I’m officially 14dpo today and 2 days late for AF (AF was a definite no show and, since then, I feel “wet” down there a lot from the CM!)…I’ve been amazed by how quickly things happened for me because I only got the faintest line at 14dpo with my mc, yet this pregnancy I have a line darker than the control on FRER on 14dpo! Keeps me smiling until my doctor’s appointment! How many dpo are you today? How are you feeling?

Sweetz: I cannot contain my excitement that, in a couple of hours, we will all have a brand new US piccie to croon over!! Good luck with your appointment and hope your not-so-little bean will be bouncing around the screen saying “hi mommy!”

Angel: As difficult as it is, try your best not to overworry until you can get to the doctors...stress will not make your little bean very happy! At the minute, he/she is all snuggled in and happy and that’s what you should keep thinking! I definitely agree with Never that the best cream would be on prescription…if you’re too worried, could you not just schedule a blood test/explain your concerns to try and get an earlier appointment? Sending positive thoughts your way…this IS your miracle rainbow baby!!!!
Also, try not to worry about the “lack” of symptoms…right now, we should be enjoying these good days before the clouds roll in and we feel awful everyday! Sickness and vomit is just around the corner, so you’d better get ready!

Lisa: Loved reading your story about how you got pregnant…it’s so amazing yet frustrating isn’t it how you can try so hard and then, when you stop trying, it just seems to happen? I’d never have believed that myself until it happened to us, and now I wonder why we bothered making such an effort in the first place!
Never: Hi back! Luckily I’ve got the day off from work today, but it ramps up from tomorrow…I don’t know how I’ll cope, I feel like a walking zombie at the minute!! At least the Paralympics are only on for around 10-ish days so I’ll finish 9th September for a well-deserved rest!

Garfie: YAY for highs on CBFM!!! Remember your tips to me and you should be fine and knocked up in no time!! If you’ve just dusted it off, maybe it will be like my first month when it gave me 6 days of high to get used to me? Don’t tire yourself out, and your peak WILL come! Maybe your cycle is going to be a little longer this month (YAY if it is!!), or maybe your cycle won’t end at all and you’ll be preggo (DOUBLE YAY if it is!)?

Storked: Hmmmm…I get the whole DH not liking being tied up...but desperate times call for desperate measures!! And desperate measures resorts to bribery and promises to do whatever he wants if he lets you!! With my DH, it’s the promise that I’ll allow him to play video games/cook/clean for him etc…WAIT A MINUTE! I do that anyway! My DH is such a lazy man! Haha!

Kanicky: YAY for AF leaving the building!! Have your week or so of relaxation then ramp it up ready to catch that eggie!! This is your BFP month!

Shefali: I found pre-seed fantastic…I was having the problem where I felt like I was drier than Ghandi’s flip flop “down there”,and the pre-seed sorted it out so much! I’ve got to say though, when we decided this month to give up the TTC for a couple of months, my juices really started flowing again (I think we were so much more relaxed and DTD for fun rather than baby making), and that was the month I conceived!

Army: Sorry that the witch got you…stay positive, do something that you wouldn’t be able to do if you were pregnant, and gear yourself up ready for another attempt, because THIS MONTH IS YOUR MONTH! As hard as it is, try not to think about it being your “last month”…I found it hard to listen to people when they told me it’ll happen when you relax, and it took for me to get as frustrated, angry and upset as you are feeling right now to say “I’ve had enough, we’re taking a few months not TTC now”…and a couple of weeks later got my BFP…I’m convinced it’s because I finally let go of all that tension and unhappiness and really relaxed for once and just enjoyed that intimacy with my DH without thinking about babies. Good luck and fingers crossed for you!!x

Hello also to Janelley, Krissy, BayBeeEM/Hope/Bama (Miss you ladies!) and any other ladies I’ve not been thorough enough to remember!xxx

AS FOR THE POSITION I THINK I CONCEIVED IN (READING OTHER WOMEN’S POSTS): I’m almost certain we conceived doggie style!

AFM: Enjoying my day off today! Had my first day back at work yesterday and had to endure comments like “Hmm, there’s something different about you, but I can’t put my finger on it”…err, thanks! I just smiled sweetly, whilst instead, I was thinking oh gosh, don’t let me be sick in front of all these people!! Not vomited yet, but there’s times when I feel awful!! Breast soreness has decided to ramp it up with a vengeance (Was driving today and was thinking “OWCH!” with ever bump!) and tired like I’ve never been before in my life!! And I have accomplished my first pregnancy milestone…DTD WITH MY DH!! It sounds small, but I was so terrified to DTD because last time we did and I was pregnant, I miscarried just after…this time, I’m pleased to report, was uneventful and I didn’t bleed (Though it did feel a little uncomfortable!) Also had a chat with DH too, which I feel better about, and turns out my DH has been a little distant because he’s scared to get excited in case it all happens again…I think he’ll feel a little better soon, hopefully!
Not much else to report, really! Going to go lie down on the sofa for half hour and snuggle the doggies to try and save some of this energy I think!!x

 

[lpjkp]

Krissy: So sorry to hear about all the trouble that your having...I'm sorry I can't offer any advice (I'm in the UK, so we have the NHS instead of insurance, so I don't understand it too much), but sending hugs your way and hope you get the answers that you're hoping for...just because you've proved you CAN carry to full-term (And that is an important factor to remember and stay positive about!) there's no reason why you wouldn't want to/need to know why you've been having problems now...I hope they're more cooperative with you, just keep trying xxx

 

[Storked]

Krissy ugh I hate insurance stuff. I had to call and raise all kinds of hell after my D&C because they had only sent it to one of my insurance companies.

Lpjkp, I don't have anything to bribe my guy with. He is pretty perfect hehe!
Good symptoms girl!