May-be Baby!! Let's get some BFPs ladies!! Newcomers welcome :)

[BubsMom17]

Well looks like bleeding has come back and worse than yesterday. Really dark red with clotting, more like AF on like the 3rd day I hope I'm just one of those few people that have bleeding in early pregnancy and still have everything turn out okay.

I am so sorry you are going through this... I wish I could do something for you.

 

[asmcsm]

Thanks guys, trying to stay positive about it but still a little worried. Hopefully Thursday ill find out everything's okay and this will all be history

 

[Mrs LaLa]

Oh no!!! Maybe you can call tomorrow and they can fit you in for an emergency girl to see whats going on

 

[goldstns]

Ashlee- you are a patient lady
..i would not be able to wait. Praying for you.

 

[TTCaWee1]

^^^^^^what she said.....

 

[Disneybaby26]

Alissa- sorry AF got you that has to be so disappointing! Fingers crossed for you that the next IUI gives you your little one!

Rachel-fx'd you get your Mother's Day BFP!

Ashlee- I'm sorry the spotting came back Like Cassidy said hopefully you just take after you mom and everything will be okay!

Nichole- that sucks that this month will be annovulatory for you but it's sounds like you've got a great plan to be heathy in the meantime! Way to go!

 

[Disneybaby26]

Nikki- interesting happenings going on there!! Fx'd the witch stays away!!

 

[asmcsm]

Well, the way I'm trying to look at it is that if I am in fact m/c there won't be anything I can do to stop it so there's no point in making an emergency appointment unless I start to get cramping or a fever, etc. and really the extra day will give them a better idea of how my hcg levels are changing up or down, whichever it happens to be. It's not fun waiting but it's either happening or not so I'm just waiting until my scheduled appointment to find out. If I am then this baby just wasn't healthy enough to make it which does make me sad but I know that I can't change it and that ill just have to try again :/

 

[pdxmom]

Ashlee - so gud to c tht ur being so strong but hopefully it will all b gud and the appointment will just give u gud news

Nichole - too bad this is annovulatory mth for u...unfortunately it is for me as well...

Rachel - all the best with wat your dh says...hopefully his words will come true soon

Alissa - so sorry af got u hun.... really hope ur next round gives u the long awaited news..

AFM - less than 2 weeks to start trying ...im happy yet very very scared.... the scare is not letting me get excited at all....moreover this mth is annovulatory so dont know wen af is gonna come and then dont know whether ill ovulate or not... so just waiting

 

[RobertRedford]

Ashlee, I am amazed at how strong and calm you are being. I am sending tons of good thoughts your way, to both you and baby.


Has anyone ever done this? I know its kind of lame, but I would be curious what the results were for OH. I don't think he would be too happy about the process though.
https://www.walgreens.com/store/c/s...4323&sst=5bb8825c-12aa-2168-8310-00001e422c9b

 

[pdxmom]

I havent tried this hun...wen i was trying initially before any of my pregnancies i sure wnated to but then i conceived so now with both my pregnancies and losses it has become very obvious to us tht the prob is defly me but if u have any doubts or just for the heck of it i dont c any harm in checking...im sure dh will feel better abt doing it wen u tell him its better than goin to the clinic...mayb thtll help

 

[wavescrash]

Yay Waves! Im glad AF came!

Thanks! Me too! However after two days of bleeding, I'm ready for her to get the heck out of here again lol. I didn't miss this THAT much

AFM, well I am totally saying that my body is being funny about AF! It might be because of medication change, which was just over a month ago. However yesterday (10dpo according to FF, however I *think* it might have been 12dpo) I got a little AF cramping in the morning and assumed she would show yesterday/today (which according to my count, not FF, that would have made a 12-13 LP, which is normal for me). Yesterday at about 11:30am I got some spotting, grabbed a tpon and put it in. Well that tpon had spotting of brown cm on it when I removed it around 4pm. I put another in assuming it was around the corner... took it out at 9pm and NOTHING. Put another in while I slept, in case she came...well NOTHING again. I put a new one in this morning (7am), also checked CP (which seemed higher) and I just took it out (1030am)...nothing again. So I stopped wearing one and will keep my eye on it. I assume its all because of meds and what not, however no more AF cramping since yesterday morning. Gosh keeping my fingers VERY TIGHTLY crossed that was implantation bleeding, not start of AF!

Oooh, good luck to you! FX!!!


Ashlee - I'm sorry to hear the bleeding started back up I saw you mention if you start cramping so I'm assuming you haven't been up to this point. That could be a good sign. With both my losses (1 m/c at 8 weeks & 1 chemical pregnancy) I had terrible cramping. Worse than AF. It would make me double over. I'm hoping the lack of cramping is a good sign for you! I always feel awful mentioning this but it helped me deal with my chemical preg when TTC my youngest - they say you're most fertile after childbirth or a loss. I had my chemical pregnancy in August 2011 (bleeding started Aug 4th) & I conceived my daughter a few weeks later, got my BFP the first week of September. But hopefully that's nothing you need to worry about and this little bean is staying put!

 

[clynn11]

Alissa- I'm sooooo sorry the IUI didn't work this time. I have everything crossed for you to see your BFP, you so deserve it.

Nikki- Ahhhhhh FX for IB IB IB!!!!!

Sonia- Woohoo, getting so close to TTC again!! I wish you the best of luck!!!

Waves- congrats on AF! Lol now you'll know where you are in your cycle!! No more guessing game!!

Rachel- Any SS lady???? I wanna see that BFP!!!!

 

[asmcsm]

Ashlee - I'm sorry to hear the bleeding started back up I saw you mention if you start cramping so I'm assuming you haven't been up to this point. That could be a good sign. With both my losses (1 m/c at 8 weeks & 1 chemical pregnancy) I had terrible cramping. Worse than AF. It would make me double over. I'm hoping the lack of cramping is a good sign for you! I always feel awful mentioning this but it helped me deal with my chemical preg when TTC my youngest - they say you're most fertile after childbirth or a loss. I had my chemical pregnancy in August 2011 (bleeding started Aug 4th) & I conceived my daughter a few weeks later, got my BFP the first week of September. But hopefully that's nothing you need to worry about and this little bean is staying put!

No cramping yet. Just a little backache from laying down so much. Usually with AF I have horrible cramping and back aches that make it hard to stand, so it's a little reassuring that I haven't had any yet. I have actually considered what you said about being most fertile after a miscarriage and I think we would start trying as soon as we could after if it came to it. I know many people like to wait but from what I've read it's not necessary it's usually just advises by some doctors or for emotional reasons. Though hopefully it won't come to that and this little one is here to stay.

 

[RobertRedford]

Rachel-- I have a good feeling for you this month! Lets hope that DH is right! When are you going to test?

Alissa, I am sooo sorry that the IUI didn't work. Keep your head up-- we're all here for you!!

pdxmom, thanks! I have some doubts but i don't think we are going to have any problems...at least i hope not. and if we do, we will cross that bridge when we come to it. I agree, and I think OH would much rather do it at home versus in a clinic.

Nichole, I hope hope hope you ovulate! Crossing my fingers that you do!

Disney, how are you doing post MC? are you feeling better, now that you got the test results back?

Ashlee, everything will be fine, so hopefully thinking ahead is just a precaution!

Cassidy, where are you in your cycle? O anytime soon?

 

[clynn11]

According to previous cycles I can O anywhere from 4 days from now to 12 days from now. BUT the early early O and late late O has happened ONCE each. So really anywhere from 5 days to 9 days from today is more likely. FX this is the month.

As for DF, I finally got the specialist to call me back yesterday morning. And the soonest appointment they could get him in to is THREE WEEKS FROM NOW. I'm pissed.

 

[RobertRedford]

According to previous cycles I can O anywhere from 4 days from now to 12 days from now. BUT the early early O and late late O has happened ONCE each. So really anywhere from 5 days to 9 days from today is more likely. FX this is the month.

As for DF, I finally got the specialist to call me back yesterday morning. And the soonest appointment they could get him in to is THREE WEEKS FROM NOW. I'm pissed.

EEks! thats not too far away! yay!!

and UGH! I would keep calling and asking if they have any cancellations! Fingers crossed that the specialist can give him something that will offer him some relief!!

 

[goldstns]

Ugh...woke up to pee and now can't sleep.my guess its mt bodies way of being excited to possibly test in the am. However, I have no Prego symptoms at all. Nothing. No more bleeding of any kind too. I bet the meds are playing dirty tricks.

Cassidy-is there a different doc? I could never imagine a doc asking me to wait that long.

 

[clynn11]

This is a specialist that the first doctor sent him to, she had the diagnostics send the results of the rheumatoid arthritis test to him. I guess with Lyme it's really hard to find a doctor that will treat it because of the controversy over Chronic Lyme Disease. Basically half of the medical world say you treat Lyme disease with antibiotics for two weeks and it goes away. The other half say it can be an ongoing thing depending on when you catch the infection, that there's three stages and with each stage the symptoms get more severe and it's harder to get rid of. Because the AMA does not recognize Chronic Lyme Disease, doctors have lost their licenses for treating patients over two weeks for it. So it's hard to find doctors who are 'lyme literate' as they call it.

 

[asmcsm]

Hey ladies. So I started bleeding worse and around 10:30 was getting some cramping and back aches a lot like AF and just went to the bathroom and had a rather large red and grayish piece of tissue come out that I believe was the little bean since that, the cramping hasn't been as strong. Will have to go to the dr and have them do another scan to make sure everything is out. I'm quite sad at the moment, only thing keeping me from falling apart is that hopefully DF and I will have some success next time around, hopefully soon