MAY we all be blessed with baby! May 2013 and beyond (BFFs Seeking BFPs)

[burgbrandy]

Congrats!

 

[Ruskiegirl]

ruskie and franco: thanks. I know I'm not alone. It just gets to be so much sometimes, and that's why I couldn't have made it without this forum. And I agree franco that even if I stopped, I would notice certain things. It's not like we can unlearn this stuff and I couldn't imagine the ups and downs that you have been through ruskie!

Its been a really long road for me but I hit the end of the road with my HSG which was all clear , Hoping that I get that miracle because my DH refuses to have himself checked out . But at least there is hope even if he has swimmer problems

 

[pennymarie]

Mine too!! After a year or two he admitted that it's based in the fear that its all his fault. And since until last year my periods were irregular at best, there was no reason to get him tested. But now I don't wanna push the issue now that I know I'm ovulating. I mean I was scared too, but got over it because this is my life we are talking about...he says there is safety in the unknown. But that's what I mean by I'm starting to feel alone in this. And if we talk about this feeling I have, he gets really defensive and says of course he wants a kid; it's the most important thing to him.

 

[Dannixo]

I was down to test on May 10th but I tested early. I got a positive on a digital test this evening at 10DPO! to everyone!

Congratulations happy and healthy mine months to you!

 

[Hopeful2014]

Does anyone else just feel like giving up sometimes? DH has been away most this cycle. I just feel so alone in this now.

I'm sorry. You are not alone. Ttc is so hard. It can be difficult if our partners are gone or if they are around but don't understand it all the way we do. I understand feeling like giving up. The thing that always makes me come back to ttc is thinking of that precious baby I will have. I love my nieces and nephew; I am definitely helping in raising them. But-the thought of creating someone, a whole new person that wouldn't exist without dh and me, just makes me so hopeful.

We all want it NOW! please. I try to think about something else as well. My sister-in-law struggled with having her second child, the one who is like my mini-best friend. There were lots of months that she didn't conceive, but then she finally did! And it was my beautiful niece. Now I know she had to wait--but I think it turned out the best way possible. I like to hope that's true for me as well. When it happens I'll get someone who I realize I could have never lived without if it hadn't of been him/her.

You're not alone; let us know if you need anything.

 

[Hopeful2014]

@Rhi_Rhi1 I'll keep you in TBA until you're sure of your date. I'm so glad you are sticking with us.

@stephj25 Date updated. I always fear testing early because I don't want to see the negative.

@burgbrandy

@ALiKO Great news! Keep us updated!

@kittiecat Date updated. I'm glad it was more relaxed for you this month. Perhaps that will be the key factor here! Good luck!

@mummy2o It's always the unwanted guest that shows early. I'm sorry. Do you want me to update it to June 6th or wait until you're completely sure?


@melann13 I'm so happy for you!! May the "feeling like absolute crap" and your happiness continue! I imagine feeling that way does sort of confirm it for you.

@live_in_hope Congratulations! I see it! I'll update you on the front!

@Ameli Congratulations!! I'm so excited for you. Share photos soon! I'll update you on the front!


Ladies, pennymarie is right! If it has to be June, Valentine's Day babies would be wonderful!

 

[want2bemommy]

I was down to test on May 10th but I tested early. I got a positive on a digital test this evening at 10DPO! to everyone!

Woot woot!!! Congrats

 

[mummy2o]

You can update to June 6th. She has started full force this morning. On the plus side I never got to see a BFN this cycle so thats good and I get my bloods retested, so I guess its not all that bad.

Also congrats on anyone else who got their BFP this so far this month.

 

[hopeforamirac]

congrats to all with bfp's happy healthy pregnancies

im out the witch arrived

 

[Hopeful2014]

congrats to all with bfp's happy healthy pregnancies

im out the witch arrived

I'm sorry. I hope you will stick around with us for next month. I can add you as TBA for now, if you want.

 

[AllStar]

Congrats Ameli!! Happy and healthy 9 months x

 

[lesh07]

I was down to test on May 10th but I tested early. I got a positive on a digital test this evening at 10DPO! to everyone!

Congrats hunni. H&H 9 months to you. xxx

 

[lesh07]

Well feeling a little down as I did test this morning and BFN and just now AF has got me 2 days early.

I was so sure that with all the symptoms I was having this was going to be it but guess I let myself hope to much as I really knew it was never going to happen 1st cycle. Long haul here we go again.

So I have only had a 26 day cycle. If I go by my 28 day calender I am down for 4th june testing. Xxxx

Good luck to everyone else. xxx

 

[Hopeful2014]

Well feeling a little down as I did test this morning and BFN and just now AF has got me 2 days early.

I was so sure that with all the symptoms I was having this was going to be it but guess I let myself hope to much as I really knew it was never going to happen 1st cycle. Long haul here we go again.

So I have only had a 26 day cycle. If I go by my 28 day calender I am down for 4th june testing. Xxxx

Good luck to everyone else. xxx

I'm sorry. I've added your new date. I'm glad you are sticking with us; hopefully those who do not get a BFP in May will get a BFP in June! Feel better dear.

 

[Twag]

Congrats to the new 's H&H 9 months

to those still waiting

to those waiting to test in June

 

[hopeforamirac]

congrats to all with bfp's happy healthy pregnancies

im out the witch arrived

I'm sorry. I hope you will stick around with us for next month. I can add you as TBA for now, if you want.

would love to stay if you'll have me

 

[Hopeful2014]

congrats to all with bfp's happy healthy pregnancies

im out the witch arrived

I'm sorry. I hope you will stick around with us for next month. I can add you as TBA for now, if you want.

would love to stay if you'll have me

Absolutely!! Yes, please, and thank you!

 

[Hopeful2014]

MAY , HERE WE COME!!!

Ladies, Remember
1. That it's not over until AF comes
2. That many ladies get false negatives
3. That implantation happens 6-12 dpo
4. That we are here for you no matter what

I know some of us will test early, so tell me when you post if you want to be updated as TBA for June or with your new June testing date or as a . I have an idea. What if instead of marking you as AF or hugs on the front, I just add your new date or as TBA? We keep adding to the list from May and on until we can see everyone have that beautiful beside her name. What do you all think? Good luck and fingers crossed!

TESTERS:
May 7: missranda

 

[Rhi_Rhi1]

Well feeling a little down as I did test this morning and BFN and just now AF has got me 2 days early.

I was so sure that with all the symptoms I was having this was going to be it but guess I let myself hope to much as I really knew it was never going to happen 1st cycle. Long haul here we go again.

So I have only had a 26 day cycle. If I go by my 28 day calender I am down for 4th june testing. Xxxx

Good luck to everyone else. xxx

Af got me two days early this cycle too
I was feeling really down yesterday(cd1) likely doesn't help with all the extra hormones! etc x

 

[J_Lynn]

AF got me May 5th - starting my new clomid cycle today ... hopefully it will work, so I'm out this month but maybe June will be a lucky month