MAY we all be blessed with baby! May 2013 and beyond (BFFs Seeking BFPs)

[Kwaggy]

Congrats to all the BFPs !!!

Had a huge temp dip today at 4dpo, not sure whats going on

 

[lilly_bum]

Let us know!! Any symptoms like CM and CP?

well on Saturday i had loads of stringy cm i was weird like it felt like i could pull it out of me boke so im not sure if i am testing too late lol but i think my cp is good this is the theory i go by when im not fertile my oh's thingy lol always hits my cervix and its really sore but the last 2 days its not hit so im guessing its up high lol
i have had some what looks like ewcm but not sure if thats his left overs

edit: the only reason i dont check my cp myself is because im terrified to touch inside me since having my lo scared incase im all deformed haha x

 

[Ruskiegirl]

Congrats to all the BFPs !!!

Had a huge temp dip today at 4dpo, not sure whats going on

Sounds like your surge of estrogen =D You usually get it around 3 -4 dpo

 

[melann13]

Congrats to all the BFPs !!!

Had a huge temp dip today at 4dpo, not sure whats going on

I have gotten temp dips almost every month between 2-4 dpo. I have been told that it's just a secondary estrogen surge and nothing to worry about. This month I had it on 3dpo back to my coverline and then BFP at 11dpo (with an implantation fdp at 8dpo).

 

[Kwaggy]

Thanks ladies, good to know Im new to charting, so Im still figuring out what it all means... I was starting to think maybe I didnt ovulate but FF says I did which is exciting, considering I've never actually confirmed ovulation before...so even If I dont get my BFP this cycle is still a success for me

 

[pennymarie]

Just used the bathroom and there was spotting. It was mixed with CM, but this always happens before my period. I was hoping the cream would work, but luteal phase is still too short I think, and progesterone levels are faltering.

I can't stop crying and DH won't be home for another week. Usually there is no way to get ahold of him except right before he goes to bed, and even sometimes he forgets because he is tired.

I feel so foolish

 

[J_Lynn]

Let us know!! Any symptoms like CM and CP?

well on Saturday i had loads of stringy cm i was weird like it felt like i could pull it out of me boke so im not sure if i am testing too late lol but i think my cp is good this is the theory i go by when im not fertile my oh's thingy lol always hits my cervix and its really sore but the last 2 days its not hit so im guessing its up high lol
i have had some what looks like ewcm but not sure if thats his left overs

edit: the only reason i dont check my cp myself is because im terrified to touch inside me since having my lo scared incase im all deformed haha x

I never, ever do internal examinations - you should be able to just test whats on the tissue after you wipe

If you wait about 20 minutes after intercourse, you can do a rep of 3 kegels, bear down - 3 kegels, bear down - then 3 kegels and bear down again and it should get all the extra seminal fluid out where it won't mess up your CM readings.

I do Creighton Model natural family planning - it's a 100% CM based system, so I have become a pro at reading CM lmao

 

[J_Lynn]

Just used the bathroom and there was spotting. It was mixed with CM, but this always happens before my period. I was hoping the cream would work, but luteal phase is still too short I think, and progesterone levels are faltering.

I can't stop crying and DH won't be home for another week. Usually there is no way to get ahold of him except right before he goes to bed, and even sometimes he forgets because he is tired.

I feel so foolish

I'm sorry

 

[allforthegirl]

Just used the bathroom and there was spotting. It was mixed with CM, but this always happens before my period. I was hoping the cream would work, but luteal phase is still too short I think, and progesterone levels are faltering.

I can't stop crying and DH won't be home for another week. Usually there is no way to get ahold of him except right before he goes to bed, and even sometimes he forgets because he is tired.

I feel so foolish

Don't feel foolish!!

I am sorry things didn't work out this cycle, I am sure it will happen soon. Just remember that baby will come when it is ready!! Sometimes it take patience that we don't want to have.

 

[Mummy to HP]

Congrats to all the new BFPs! For the ladies still waiting good luck.

Hopeful2014 I just wanted to say thank you for all your supportive comments through this thread. Your positivity is a lovely breath of fresh air and I am sure like me it has lifted many of the ladies on here. I hope things are working out for you to?

xxxxx

 

[RaeChay]

Penny-
Don't feel foolish. We're all fooled from time to time...I'm sorry that you don't have your husband nearby to pick you up and dust you off right now. Sending hugs to you!! Hang in there.

 

[live_in_hope]

Congrats to all the new BFPs! For the ladies still waiting good luck.

Hopeful2014 I just wanted to say thank you for all your supportive comments through this thread. Your positivity is a lovely breath of fresh air and I am sure like me it has lifted many of the ladies on here. I hope things are working out for you to?

xxxxx

Here here!! xx

 

[stephj25]

Af has come

 

[stephj25]

Af has come

 

[Hopeful2014]

@missranda You're not out until the witch shows.

@pennymarie I'm sorry you're having such a tough time. It sucks when you can't have someone there with you. We are all here for you. Please do not feel foolish. I'm going to look into the cream and see if I can find anything for you. I'll keep June 7th in mind, but I hope you won't need it. I'll update if/when you need it.

@lilly_bum I agree; it's on its way to being positive soon. Keep checking everyday. It should be soon.

@Kwaggy I agree; an early dip is usually a secondary estrogen surge. I've noticed I have mine on 2 dpo each month I have temped. I'm glad you confirmed o!

@stephj25 I'm sorry dear. Will you stay with us for June? I can add you as TBA for now.

@Mummy to HP Thanks so much! I really hope it does help. I've read threads before, but this is the first time I've really participated. I want to be able to connect to each of you, respond with information if I have it/can find it, or just comfort if I can't. That's also why I would like for us all to stick together. Sometimes it seems so sad when you're out for the month and the thread isn't as welcoming anymore or you feel left out since there isn't a new thread. I want us all to have the BFP on the front page and I'm so glad you and the other BFPs stick around as well. We want to know how you are as well!

AFM I could be due up until Sunday, most likely Friday. I'm thinking of sneaking a test in the morning. I'm not sure though. I really don't want to see a BFN. I've had some feelings/symptoms, but I'm nervous.

 

[Hopeful2014]

@lilly_bum and others not sure about EWCM/semen

FF and other sources say:
EWCM is more clear, stretchy, and shiny. Semen is more whitish and is more likely to break apart.

A couple of neat methods I read about:
EWCM will generally sit on top of toilet paper, whereas semen will quickly absorb into toilet paper.

EWCM will form a ball and sink in water. Semen will dissolve into the water.

 

[want2bemommy]

Hopeful- you are doing a wonderful job leading this thread!

 

[kksy9b]

Hopeful- you are doing a wonderful job leading this thread!

Agreed! It is wonderful to log in each morning and see your positiveness and encouragement. Thank you for giving so much of yourself to help all of us through this journey!

 

[stephj25]

@stephj25 I'm sorry dear. Will you stay with us for June? I can add you as TBA for now.
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Thank you, I'm fine though, I get to start my Clearblue trial! set my monitor up this morning

yeah add me to June, I'll update my test date when I know my ov date because my last cycle was 27 days and the cycle before was 34 days

 

[Twag]

Sorry about the showing ladies

AFM CD13/1DPO today so the TWW begins - I hope we have done enough this cycle to catch

GL everyone