MAY we all be blessed with baby! May 2013 and beyond (BFFs Seeking BFPs)

[pennymarie]

This whole relationship has been a lesson in trust. Sometimes I thought I trusted people, I thought I knew what that meant. And last year I learned that it is completely letting go, just blindly having faith, based on small insignificant facts, and pulling through somehow. It was the hardest and still is the hardest thing to do for me. I understand where he is coming from, and where the fears are, but if I try and force the issue he pulls back more. Fortunately or unfortunately he's one of those "problem with authority" type, and if anyone even hints at telling him what to do, then he does the opposite. Sigh.

 

[AllStar]

I think I'm getting the flu or something which would maybe explain the high temp? My throat is so sore, I have the worst headache and my neck and back are so achey I'm not comfortable however I'm sitting/lying. It all just came on all of a sudden. Also had a tiny bit more bloody cm so don't think it's looking too good. Still not taking any meds 'just in case' though.

 

[burgbrandy]

I think I'm getting the flu or something which would maybe explain the high temp? My throat is so sore, I have the worst headache and my neck and back are so achey I'm not comfortable however I'm sitting/lying. It all just came on all of a sudden. Also had a tiny bit more bloody cm so don't think it's looking too good. Still not taking any meds 'just in case' though.

Most of those are pregnancy signs! And maybe the spotting is from implantation! When are you planning on testing?

 

[OurLilFlu]

@ penny trust is definitely the hardest thing to give, earn and share. Before my oh, I was in a relationship of lies and cheating. It's really hard to recover from that and even harder to let that trust grow again with someone else. But when you have those 'aha' moments where you feel like you've really let go and let someone in even more its def rewarding. It's really tough not to push the issue until you get an answer or the answer you want, which isn't fair to him. Try to take a step back and start the conversation a different way next time and just give it a bit of time

 

[pennymarie]

I agree. That sounds like it could be either one. If you are feeling those symptoms maybe test now. Just in case

 

[pennymarie]

@ penny trust is definitely the hardest thing to give, earn and share. Before my oh, I was in a relationship of lies and cheating. It's really hard to recover from that and even harder to let that trust grow again with someone else. But when you have those 'aha' moments where you feel like you've really let go and let someone in even more its def rewarding. It's really tough not to push the issue until you get an answer or the answer you want, which isn't fair to him. Try to take a step back and start the conversation a different way next time and just give it a bit of time

Yea, I'm not even going to bring it up. For now. And look at my pretty flowers

 

[AllStar]

Thanks ladies, I love your PMA and really appreciate it but I really think I'm just ill. Took my temp before getting into bed and its 37.52! Definitely got a fever and feel so ill with it. Getting cramps now too so looks like I'll be battling flu and AF tomorrow

 

[Kwaggy]

Pic is kind of blurry, but I think I see a super faint line.

 

[Ruskiegirl]

Well I think my tests were faulty , Starting to feel like AF is coming and the line hasn't gotten darker it was actually lighter this morning . If she comes I am done TTC throwing in the towel and enjoying what I have

 

[MamaPeaches]

Pic is kind of blurry, but I think I see a super faint line.

I see it! That looks like a BFP to me!!!!

 

[Ruskiegirl]

Pic is kind of blurry, but I think I see a super faint line.

THAT is not faint

 

[J_Lynn]

Well I think my tests were faulty , Starting to feel like AF is coming and the line hasn't gotten darker it was actually lighter this morning . If she comes I am done TTC throwing in the towel and enjoying what I have

You're in the wrong forum to give up!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

[omgbaby]

@Kwaggy!! That's no faint line that's a !!!

@Ruskiegirl Aw, let's hope she stays far away!! GL!

 

[J_Lynn]

Pic is kind of blurry, but I think I see a super faint line.

That gives me all sorts of new hope for starting femara next month!

 

[pennymarie]

Well I think my tests were faulty , Starting to feel like AF is coming and the line hasn't gotten darker it was actually lighter this morning . If she comes I am done TTC throwing in the towel and enjoying what I have

You're in the wrong forum to give up!!!!!!!!!!!!

I know that its your decision. And you've probably been through all sorts of hells, but a line is a line. At worst its a chemical, not a false positive. Didn't you use multiple tests? And if you wanted, you could go in to the ER and say you're "spotting" and you tested positive and they have to give you a blood test right there. With results

 

[Ruskiegirl]

Well I think my tests were faulty , Starting to feel like AF is coming and the line hasn't gotten darker it was actually lighter this morning . If she comes I am done TTC throwing in the towel and enjoying what I have

You're in the wrong forum to give up!!!!!!!!!!!!

I know that its your decision. And you've probably been through all sorts of hells, but a line is a line. At worst its a chemical, not a false positive. Didn't you use multiple tests? And if you wanted, you could go in to the ER and say you're "spotting" and you tested positive and they have to give you a blood test right there. With results

going to er costs me more then 1000 bucks each time even with insurance . And after trying for 13 years any chemical is devastating to me. If i get another faint line i will ask my doc for a beta

 

[clairebear0]

Well I think my tests were faulty , Starting to feel like AF is coming and the line hasn't gotten darker it was actually lighter this morning . If she comes I am done TTC throwing in the towel and enjoying what I have

Oh my goodness, I am sorry you are going through that stress!!! Hang in there for a few more days!

 

[Rikkitikki]

Darn I'm out this month again
and just got a call from my doctor, cd21 blood test was .27 on the progesterone, no ovulation again. Last round if Clomid and this is as far as she goes for infertility treatment, so I've officially been referred to a fertility clinic. Best of luck to the rest of you this month! go s!

 

[allforthegirl]

Darn I'm out this month again
and just got a call from my doctor, cd21 blood test was .27 on the progesterone, no ovulation again. Last round if Clomid and this is as far as she goes for infertility treatment, so I've officially been referred to a fertility clinic. Best of luck to the rest of you this month! go s!

Sorry to hear this!! Let's hope the FC can help you out more!!

 

[J_Lynn]

This is the 2nd night of fertile type CM so maybe the cocktail of pills my dr has me on to try and get me to produce cm is working. Lets hope so.