MAY we all be blessed with baby! May 2013 and beyond (BFFs Seeking BFPs)

[littlesteph]

can you switch mine to june 19th please hopefully i get a bfp this time round

 

[clairebear0]

@Becyboo__x Good luck!

@EAandBA_TTC We're here for you.

@Dannixo Yay! You have crosshairs now, right? Good luck!

@FrancoRie710 It should give you crosshairs after a few days of high temps and once a shift is determined. Good luck!

@RosyPosy5 It's still early, but I know it's hard to wait! Fingers crossed one day soon (hopefully tomorrow) you get two lines! Good luck!

@lesh07 It may be ovulation spotting or maybe you got nicked during bd? Any pain or is it heavier? That's definitely not fun on holiday. Feel better.

@clairebear0 Congratulations! Do you want to make it official on here?

@melann13 Your little sweet pea is helping you make decisions now! It's all to be expected and understood!

Yes you can go ahead and make it official. I retested this morning and its still positive.

 

[omgbaby]

Congrats Claire!!

My new testing date is June 4. That'll be our anniversary so hoping for a bfp!

 

[burgbrandy]

Congrats clairebear!

Afm, opk not quite positive but finally got watery cm yesterday! My temp has been super low the last 3 days...probably increased estrogen cuz of the clomid and black cohosh!

 

[allforthegirl]

Hi hun. No I have had no pain really, Maybe a little tightness around the tummy area. I just wish my cycles could go back to normal. I used to know my cycles so well and they used to be so easy (Every 28 days i got af, No other problems) But since having my last ds they are all over the place. I just keep hoping it is an age thing as I have just turned 30! Xxx

I believe it is because of your age too!! We go through a whole bunch of new hormonal changes at 30 no one talks about. It will mess with our cycles and also we can have THE worst acne of our lives. Fun hey? I wish someone would have told me that cause I though I was PG every time I was late or something different was going on with my body!! Errr

 

[gabbygabz]

Hi all, just popping in to update: am on day 4 of my 1st Clomid 50mg round (CD 5-9). So far no side effects to speak of other than being super hot overnight! Keeping all the PMA I can muster and hoping for good things for us all! Huge congrats to the new BFPs!

 

[MamaPeaches]

Hi Ladies Hope everyone is doing well today! I should be Oing in the next few days, have watery cm and such, no positive opk yet though! Temps are a bit up and down,I believe due to waking up at different times. Have an alarm set now so hope that helps!

So for fun I thought I would ask a question! It may be tmi for some thou!! How do you keep things "spiced up" in the bedroom with all the bd?! I try to avoid discussing my fertile time with Hubby so he doesn't focus on why it is we are constantly bding though he still knows! I've found surprising him in the shower or in the middle of the night or early morning keeps things a bit spicer! What do you all think?

 

[allforthegirl]

Hi Ladies Hope everyone is doing well today! I should be Oing in the next few days, have watery cm and such, no positive opk yet though! Temps are a bit up and down,I believe due to waking up at different times. Have an alarm set now so hope that helps!

So for fun I thought I would ask a question! It may be tmi for some thou!! How do you keep things "spiced up" in the bedroom with all the bd?! I try to avoid discussing my fertile time with Hubby so he doesn't focus on why it is we are constantly bding though he still knows! I've found surprising him in the shower or in the middle of the night or early morning keeps things a bit spicer! What do you all think?

I have bought some corsets and some sexy underwear. Bought a Japanese sensual bath (oh that was fun), some candles massage oil with a massage mit!! Or even just walk buy him naked LOL. I try to also keep kissing him sensually all day, so that he doesn't think I am just there for his

 

[Dannixo]

I took a test this morning at 10piui and 11 11 days past noverall shot and I thought I saw a very light shadow of a line which I've had positives all week assuming from the trigger shot and then it appeard to get very light not never go away. I waited 4 mins and still just saw what I thought was a shadow. Go back to bed get up 3 hours later and it's looks like a bfp. Could just be an evap. What do you ladies think? My boobs have been super sore for 4 days now.

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[burgbrandy]

I always get bad evaps with those tests...

Could still be a bit of the trigger, but fingers crossed that it gets darker in a couple days!

 

[J_Lynn]

I took a test this morning at 10piui and 11 11 days past noverall shot and I thought I saw a very light shadow of a line which I've had positives all week assuming from the trigger shot and then it appeard to get very light not never go away. I waited 4 mins and still just saw what I thought was a shadow. Go back to bed get up 3 hours later and it's looks like a bfp. Could just be an evap. What do you ladies think? My boobs have been super sore for 4 days now.

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It looks like a bfp, but the trigger shot could also still be there 11 days out - I'd give it another 48 hours, honestly. The HCG levels go down by 50% a day, so it can take up to two weeks to get out, that's what my Dr told me anyway. He said wait until day 13 to test, so I just stick to that - just to be safe.

 

[KatyW]

Hi Ladies Hope everyone is doing well today! I should be Oing in the next few days, have watery cm and such, no positive opk yet though! Temps are a bit up and down,I believe due to waking up at different times. Have an alarm set now so hope that helps!

So for fun I thought I would ask a question! It may be tmi for some thou!! How do you keep things "spiced up" in the bedroom with all the bd?! I try to avoid discussing my fertile time with Hubby so he doesn't focus on why it is we are constantly bding though he still knows! I've found surprising him in the shower or in the middle of the night or early morning keeps things a bit spicer! What do you all think?

That's a good idea - I think it is so much less stressful when we just relax and enjoy ourselves...it can be a time to be closer to your partner/husband/etc.

 

[kirstyjane13]

Im sorry kirsty jane! It probably was a chemical. With mine, i got positives for 2 days and then negative for 3 days then af showed a day late.

So sorry ruskie!

Good luck everyone still waiting! Fingers crossed!

Im going to try and not beat my self up about it, either way if it was a false positive or a Chemical what it comes down to is im not pregnant. But only our 2nd cycle so we have got plenty of time to try again xx

 

[Mme2kdee]

Hi Ladies Hope everyone is doing well today! I should be Oing in the next few days, have watery cm and such, no positive opk yet though! Temps are a bit up and down,I believe due to waking up at different times. Have an alarm set now so hope that helps!

So for fun I thought I would ask a question! It may be tmi for some thou!! How do you keep things "spiced up" in the bedroom with all the bd?! I try to avoid discussing my fertile time with Hubby so he doesn't focus on why it is we are constantly bding though he still knows! I've found surprising him in the shower or in the middle of the night or early morning keeps things a bit spicer! What do you all think?

That's a good idea - I think it is so much less stressful when we just relax and enjoy ourselves...it can be a time to be closer to your partner/husband/etc.

That is a great idea. My DH works 70-80 hours per week right now because of the industry he is in - the busy time
I have a hard time BDing because he leaves before I wake up and gets home when I am sleeping. I try to stay up later so we can BD but he doesn't want to know if we are trying or not trying (that time to try or not) because he doesn't want to be disappointed. I try to not make it obvious that it is time to try more than other times of the month but I struggle. I think spicing things up would be great to turn him on and get him in the mood after a super long day!
Things I have tried - buy new lingerie and give him a massage... any ideas that you all have could definitely benefit us all Thanks for throwing this topic out there MamaPeaches!!! Awesome!

 

[kirstyjane13]

I took a test this morning at 10piui and 11 11 days past noverall shot and I thought I saw a very light shadow of a line which I've had positives all week assuming from the trigger shot and then it appeard to get very light not never go away. I waited 4 mins and still just saw what I thought was a shadow. Go back to bed get up 3 hours later and it's looks like a bfp. Could just be an evap. What do you ladies think? My boobs have been super sore for 4 days now.

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It looks like a bfp, but the trigger shot could also still be there 11 days out - I'd give it another 48 hours, honestly. The HCG levels go down by 50% a day, so it can take up to two weeks to get out, that's what my Dr told me anyway. He said wait until day 13 to test, so I just stick to that - just to be safe.

I agree, id wait a few more days to test. Fxd it is your bfp xx

 

[burgbrandy]

Im sorry kirsty jane! It probably was a chemical. With mine, i got positives for 2 days and then negative for 3 days then af showed a day late.

So sorry ruskie!

Good luck everyone still waiting! Fingers crossed!

Im going to try and not beat my self up about it, either way if it was a false positive or a Chemical what it comes down to is im not pregnant. But only our 2nd cycle so we have got plenty of time to try again xx

Great attitude! Every month is a new opportunity. I try to add something new each cycle. makes me feel like I'm doing something at least!

My chemical was on cycle 9, and the way I stayed positive was to look at it as at least we know its possible to get pregnant! This will be our first child together , so at least we know its possible! I have one, he has one biologically, and another adopted from his ex wife. So we were worried that something was wrong, but the chemical gave us some hope.

 

[FrancoRie710]

Hi Ladies Hope everyone is doing well today! I should be Oing in the next few days, have watery cm and such, no positive opk yet though! Temps are a bit up and down,I believe due to waking up at different times. Have an alarm set now so hope that helps!

So for fun I thought I would ask a question! It may be tmi for some thou!! How do you keep things "spiced up" in the bedroom with all the bd?! I try to avoid discussing my fertile time with Hubby so he doesn't focus on why it is we are constantly bding though he still knows! I've found surprising him in the shower or in the middle of the night or early morning keeps things a bit spicer! What do you all think?

That's a good idea - I think it is so much less stressful when we just relax and enjoy ourselves...it can be a time to be closer to your partner/husband/etc.

That is a great idea. My DH works 70-80 hours per week right now because of the industry he is in - the busy time
I have a hard time BDing because he leaves before I wake up and gets home when I am sleeping. I try to stay up later so we can BD but he doesn't want to know if we are trying or not trying (that time to try or not) because he doesn't want to be disappointed. I try to not make it obvious that it is time to try more than other times of the month but I struggle. I think spicing things up would be great to turn him on and get him in the mood after a super long day!
Things I have tried - buy new lingerie and give him a massage... any ideas that you all have could definitely benefit us all Thanks for throwing this topic out there MamaPeaches!!! Awesome!

This might be strange, but I had GREAT sex with my hubby once when I had been sleeping and he woke me up. I'm not usually inhibited or anything, but I think it's because I was SUPER relaxed and in between that dreaming and awake phase and he woke me up in a VERY nice way . I have told him that he needs to try that more often! Of course that's more on him than you, but if you left him a note inviting him to wake you up maybe it would work?

 

[burgbrandy]

As far as spicing things up...my dh is really into role play. And we do candles sometimes. He knows when its baby making time, and he looks forward to it, so he usually initiates BD during fertile time, so we don't have much issues there. But the rest of the month, we try to keep things interesting with dtd in various rooms and such. Quickie in the kitchen while supper is cooking, surprise him in the shower, on the couch during a movie...

 

[Mme2kdee]

Hi Ladies Hope everyone is doing well today! I should be Oing in the next few days, have watery cm and such, no positive opk yet though! Temps are a bit up and down,I believe due to waking up at different times. Have an alarm set now so hope that helps!

So for fun I thought I would ask a question! It may be tmi for some thou!! How do you keep things "spiced up" in the bedroom with all the bd?! I try to avoid discussing my fertile time with Hubby so he doesn't focus on why it is we are constantly bding though he still knows! I've found surprising him in the shower or in the middle of the night or early morning keeps things a bit spicer! What do you all think?

That's a good idea - I think it is so much less stressful when we just relax and enjoy ourselves...it can be a time to be closer to your partner/husband/etc.

That is a great idea. My DH works 70-80 hours per week right now because of the industry he is in - the busy time
I have a hard time BDing because he leaves before I wake up and gets home when I am sleeping. I try to stay up later so we can BD but he doesn't want to know if we are trying or not trying (that time to try or not) because he doesn't want to be disappointed. I try to not make it obvious that it is time to try more than other times of the month but I struggle. I think spicing things up would be great to turn him on and get him in the mood after a super long day!
Things I have tried - buy new lingerie and give him a massage... any ideas that you all have could definitely benefit us all Thanks for throwing this topic out there MamaPeaches!!! Awesome!

This might be strange, but I had GREAT sex with my hubby once when I had been sleeping and he woke me up. I'm not usually inhibited or anything, but I think it's because I was SUPER relaxed and in between that dreaming and awake phase and he woke me up in a VERY nice way . I have told him that he needs to try that more often! Of course that's more on him than you, but if you left him a note inviting him to wake you up maybe it would work?

That is a great idea!!!!!! I may just try that this week - even though not ovulation time - just to see what he thinks!
Thank you

 

[kirstyjane13]

Im sorry kirsty jane! It probably was a chemical. With mine, i got positives for 2 days and then negative for 3 days then af showed a day late.

So sorry ruskie!

Good luck everyone still waiting! Fingers crossed!

Im going to try and not beat my self up about it, either way if it was a false positive or a Chemical what it comes down to is im not pregnant. But only our 2nd cycle so we have got plenty of time to try again xx

Great attitude! Every month is a new opportunity. I try to add something new each cycle. makes me feel like I'm doing something at least!

My chemical was on cycle 9, and the way I stayed positive was to look at it as at least we know its possible to get pregnant! This will be our first child together , so at least we know its possible! I have one, he has one biologically, and another adopted from his ex wife. So we were worried that something was wrong, but the chemical gave us some hope.

I haven't even looked at it that way. My dp had cancer about testicular cancer 6 years ago (before we met) and had one testicle removed, he does have frozen sperm if ttc naturally doesn't work, he seems to think he can't have children now as he thought i'd be pregnant within the first month.. but i have every hope it will happen and what you have just said has made me even more hopeful. I don't even think about his past as the drs said to him freezing sperm was a precaution and hopefully he would be able to concieve naturally. So I guess if this was a chemical then we know everything's ok xx