@KatyW This cycle has been so confusing. I can't say that anything I might have felt was definite ovulation pains because I felt them a couple times. Of course that could mean it tried but was delayed. My cm is not of much help either since there were so many more days of it. However, it did become a lot more dry around cd 21-22 so it had to of been before then at least. I honestly think I may be around 8 dpo today (meaning cd 21 ovulation) because if it was cd 13 I would be 16 dpo with a negative and none of my normal signs that af is coming. My lp is usually only 13-14 as well so that would be odd. I wish it could be this month, but this cycle has been so crazy I don't really expect it. I just really, really hope next month is back to normal.

I see that you got your temp rise. Fingers crossed we will both be celebrating sticky BFPs soon!
@nikkilucky77 I have heard that heartburn can be a sign. It could be since it is something different for you. Good luck!!
@burgbrandy Thanks! I am not sure this will be the one, but my temps have been going up the last two days. Assuming I am now 8 dpo based on cd 21 ovulation, I may test on 13 dpo if my temps are still really high. Fingers crossed for both of us and may the waiting be less annoying!
@omgbaby Good luck with that rise!!
@MamaPeaches Your temps are looking very nice. I hope you see very dark, obvious lines tomorrow! Good luck!
@Lazydaisys Why must we wait for everything?

I promise, I would be better at waiting if I could know a definite time frame ahead of time.
@kirstyjane13 Welcome back! I've been wondering about how you were. Nice, new picture. I hope those are your signs. Shall I keep you for testing on July 13th? Good luck!
@melann13 I'm glad to hear that everything is going so well! Yum, peaches this week!!
@ProfWife I'm so sorry.

People say the most idiotic things sometimes. They may not mean it, but it definitely still hurts. It
will happen for you and for all of us. I can bet you, the children we have will sure have more manners than most people seem to have.
@anointedq I'm sorry that it's so confusing for you right now. I understand that having conflicting signs is so frustrating. FF may suggest waiting to 19 dpo if you haven't been using the system or temping for very long. It usually wants everyone to wait to 18 dpo or something like that when you first join because it doesn't know what your cycles are like yet. The overall guideline is for women to wait until the day of their missed period or even up until a week later. However, a lot of women start testing earlier than that because you can
sometimes get an early BFP. I think I can see a shift near the end of your cycle so if the test with the doctor was on cd 22, he or she would have missed it since it came later.

You can start testing earlier than the later suggested times, but do not get too discouraged if it's negative because it can definitely be a false negative if you're testing too early. Implantation generally happens between 6-12 dpo and then it takes two or more days for it to show up on a test. Good luck!
