MAY we all be blessed with baby! May 2013 and beyond (BFFs Seeking BFPs)

[momwithbabies]

Lazydaises: Exciting news! I'm glad you're feeling better about it!

 

[kksy9b]

Great news lazydaises!! All my fingers and types are crossed for you!

I like the name change to the that hopeful! I feel like out has been such a journey that we have all been on and that we will all stay on together until all of us have our babies in our arms.

 

[momwithbabies]

AF came, so tons of pain. Trying to act normal because husband is sick. He's lost a lot of weight because he hasn't been eating and gets sick because of the anxiety. I am done trying for a while so I can focus on my husband's health. Please pray for him.

In good news...I worked some more in my classroom today! I'm so excited to teach at a new school with different people! I had so much drama last year, it's like I get a chance to start over. I love my classroom! I got a big, nice horseshoe table, tons of books (I actually don't know what I'm going to do with all of them), and a nice space. I can't wait to teach the kids who walk through my doors. I hope I can be a positive person that believes they can do anything! Love you teachers!!!

My husband had a better day today. He's trying to make himself eat, since he's losing so much weight. He has to make an effort to eat (I joke that I wished I had that problem, lol). He has an appointment Wednesday. I'm hoping to go with him if I can find someone to watch the kids.

Sending you ladies love from afar, wherever you are in your journey.

 

[Lazydaisys]

Hope your husband starts to feel better mom with babies. Glad you are excited about your classroom. You sound like a lovely teacher. Xxx

 

[Hopeful2014]

@kksy9b Thanks. I wanted to update it a bit.

@momwithbabies You are both in my thoughts. I'm sorry af is here and also that it's so painful. I hope you like your new school better. It's great to have a fresh start. Teaching is hard. I'm sure you will be a great leader and a positive person for your students.


Did anyone see the post from Jamie King, a model and actress, about infertility and loss? She posted about her struggle on her Instagram. She struggled for 8 years with undiagnosed PCOS and Endometriosis. She had an ectopic pregnancy, five miscarriages, and twenty-something failed IUIs and five rounds of IVF. She finally conceived, but she went into premature labor because of sudden preeclampsia. She was blessed with her son. I feel for her and know she struggled. As odd as it sounds it helps for me to see stories like this. You know we hear enough of the easy, surprise pregnancy stories. I'm sending hugs to everyone here who has suffered in any way. We will overcome this!

 

[newbie2013]

May we all get to live by these.

 

[Lazydaisys]

Did you heard about the model Caprice? She had about five failed Ivf. Managed to get a surrogate to have a biological child for her and then she got pregnant herself naturally the month after. Her surrogate baby was born last august I think and she gave birth in September. She's in her forties. Xx

 

[newbie2013]

How's everyone doing? Nothing new for me. Same old, same old. I had to look up what cycle day I was on - that's how much I'm trying to take my mind of things this cycle - CD19. AF will be on her way in another 7-12 days (yes, that much variance!). Not worried because I'm going to the beach the day after tomorrow!!!

 

[Lazydaisys]

Yay for beach day x

 

[momwithbabies]

Newbie: I love when I can somewhat forget TTC. It is a challenge, that's for sure.

I'm doing well. AF is on her way out. My husband is on a different medicine that only costs $6/month rather than $600 for 3 months!!!! That's a much better price for us. It's a different class of anxiety meds, so I'm hoping it will work well. The doctor wants to see him in a month to see if everything is going okay.

 

[Lazydaisys]

Good news momwithbabies about the reduced medicine costs. That's a big difference x

 

[RaeChay]

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[Hopeful2014]

@newbie2013 Yay for the beach! Have fun!!

@momwithbabies I'm glad you were able to find a more affordable medication. I hope it helps him as well. I'm glad AF is leaving. I always love to see her go.

@Lazydaisys Good luck at the next scan! Fingers crossed for growth and good news!

AFM I agree; forgetting about TTC is hard. I'm already looking ahead, but trying to enjoy this time as well. It might be the last bit of time that I'm not worrying...as much anyway. I'm CD 20 and still waiting for crosshairs. I've noticed a big change in ovulation day since delivery. I usually ovulated CD 13-15 and now it's like CD 14-18. I'm sure that will be a hassle when TTC starts again. I haven't noticed anything too strange since starting the supplements. I'm taking baby aspirin, calcium, folic acid, and a regular prenatal. I'm curious what my next AF will be like and if the baby aspirin will change it. I've read that it does for some and doesn't for others. Roll on to more BFPs and more happy news for us all!

 

[Lazydaisys]

Ttc is hard to forget about, I try to put it to the side of my mind but its always there. It doesn't help that babies and pregnant people are every where!

Thanks hopeful. My folicles are growing for once there aren't loads of them but there is enough, my egg retrieval is booked for Monday. Didn't think I would make it to this far- so I'm really pleased. X

 

[ProfWife]

Great news! You technically only need one...but it's good to have a back-up too.

AFM - I'm praying AF shows today or tomorrow since all tests are negative. If I don't start this weekend, I can't get surgery as scheduled. Then I'll need to go on meds to delay my cycle. With as crazy as my cycles got after being on birth control, I am trying EVERYTHING to avoid that.

 

[Lazydaisys]

Hope af comes for you prowife, if its coming. X

 

[ProfWife]

LOL - Sadly...I know it's coming. Stark white tests show that...This is the first time in 22 months of trying I've WANTED AF to hurry up. If this surgery will help, I don't want to miss the opportunity.

 

[momwithbabies]

wow huge difference! did his MD address anything about the libido issue? that is a common problem with most anxiety meds (but I believe they make OTHER meds that counteract the effect)

Thank you! No, my husband didn't bring it up...I didn't bother making a list of my TTC concerns as he was just trying to get on something that will allow him to function again. I figured we could wait and see how/if it affects his libido and go from there. I just want my happy, light-hearted husband back. It makes me sad to see him afraid to leave the house But he's already doing better. He didn't miss work any last week! We will get back on the TTC crazy train hopefully sooner than later! I'm 31 and not getting any younger, lol!

 

[momwithbabies]

LOL - Sadly...I know it's coming. Stark white tests show that...This is the first time in 22 months of trying I've WANTED AF to hurry up. If this surgery will help, I don't want to miss the opportunity.

I hope she comes soon so you can do the surgery. What day should AF show?

 

[momwithbabies]

ProfWife: Opps! Apparently I can't read, lol!