He is looking at it for some of the right reasons, also- like family security, etc- He was in for 4 years before we met and is a decorated war veteran.
Freaking out, ummm, just moaning on about getting older, and that if he's going to either re-enlist or change careers in anyway it needs to pretty much be now-
Milos- I wouldn't mind him being in, or living on base,or moving... if I could take my other two kids with me

Bethy would hate every minute of it and bounce as soon as she could, and Aaron is too old for him to come with us- unless we lived off base, which I'm actually LESS wild about

He started in on all this a couple years ago and I did A LOT of research into it and came to my peace with it then- but he changed his mind and I relaxed about it. Then he brought it up again a few weeks ago, and we went back over all the
reasons why he decided not to before- This morning he said he's been thinking
about it a lot and he thinks we should sit down and talk seriously about it this
week.