MC#10 at 4w6d~ I need some positive vibes. Page 159.

[brittany12]

yeah, i know exactly what you are saying. I just mentioned it because of that show Gilliana and Bill they did every option and the only thing that worked was the surrogate. It is extremely expensive.

 

[stuckinoki]

Yeah, upwards of $80,000 worth of expensive once you tack on medical expenses, the IVF costs and the surrogacy fees.

We can't afford that.

 

[bettybee1]

The fab thing about ivf even with your own egg is that they check the quality they Makesure your lining is good too and you can get pregnant okay so I reckon your chances are good xxx

 

[brittany12]

yeah and with IVF don't they take a few eggs? So they can take the best one with your DH best sperm and watch it and help with the implanting?

I'm not really familiar with IVF

 

[bettybee1]

Yeah you can produce like 20 eggs on a cycle and they choose the best ones then they choose the best sperm and watch it fertilze and of you have a extended culture they get the best embryo !!! They get your lining too the best condition I mean yeah it can cost a lot but I would get a loan or sell my expensive stuff or go without new clothes and stuff too pay for it !!!! Xxz

 

[stuckinoki]

But, if it's a problem that all of my eggs are just crap, we'd be better off going with a donor. Out of 20 eggs, I don't want to have to choose the best one, I want a mega egg. lol

 

[bettybee1]

I don't think all your eggs are bad chick at all I think you should have some
Good ones too !!!

Can I ask what blood group are you & your husband ???


My mum had rmc and her problem
Was she couldn't carry a positive baby me and my sister are both resus d negative and she carried us full term

Also could the problem
Be your husbands sperm xxx

 

[stuckinoki]

Nope. Husbands sperm count at the last SA was 122million 90% motility

 

[bettybee1]

There something else I think where either the sperm kills something or theres an antibodies that destroy something :/

Is your docter Gunna run more tests I really want you too get your rainbow baby you wil do xxxxxxx

 

[maureenmarsh]

If this pregnancy doesn't stick I'm just gonna inseminate my sister with my husbands sperm, we are identical twins so we have the exact same genes , our blood is exactly the same , she has no problem whatsoever having healthy pregnancies

 

[Babee_Bugs]

I wish I was a fertility specialist or something similar!...

I've seen some ladies talk about going on contraceptive pill, when doing fertility treatment etc, not sure why.. Maybes something to look into.

I've also seen where they partners sperm has antibodies or something, has he been tested for this?

Urghhh wish I could do something to help you, I feel sooo bloody helpless

 

[bexxc]

me too! i just wish i could think of something brilliant that hasn't been thought of or said yet that could just fix all of this for you.

 

[Lisasmith]

Stucki, have you tried the soy Iso?

 

[marymoomin]

Yeah, upwards of $80,000 worth of expensive once you tack on medical expenses, the IVF costs and the surrogacy fees.

We can't afford that.

I have pm'd you the drug protocol for killer uterine cells, that my bf suffered from and was then part of a clincial trial. The drugs are very inexpensive and as I said she has 7 mc in 7 mths and now has 2 babies.

 

[stuckinoki]

Yes, I've tried Soy. It didn't work.

 

[MegnJoe]

My sister was about a year away from becoming my surrogate before I git my bfp. It sounds extreme but it would actually have been less expensive for us to do that route privately, my egg dh sperm than it would have been to IVF. She said she didn't want compensation, just for me to have a healthy baby, my only dream.

Whatever path you choose to go down, you will have you complete family one day Stuck & Maureen. lots of prayers miracles happen, and yours will come along.

 

[mnjhowell]

I did 3 fresh IVF cycles spending over $45,000 out of pocket. It's crazy expensive and it's so not fair that it has to be that costly. I will however recommend going onto clinicaltrials.gov and seeing if there are any IVF trials you might qualify for. Good luck and don't give up hun!

 

[Lisasmith]

Sending you love, stucki

 

[amommy]

My friend had high Natural Killer cells which made her keep having chem pregnancies and early m/c.. She eventually was put on a low dose of prednisone to decrease the NK action, and it worked.. I am very sorry you are going through all this!! There has to be some reason for the early pg loss, they can easily do a blood test for NK cells. It's like an auto immune problem but it can attach early implantation as well. Just my thoughts, by no means a doctor but sometimes putting heads together helps to lead docs on the right path!

 

[lorojovanos]

STUCK- where abouts in the world are you?
Where I am, there is all free health care, obviously IVF treatment cost, but blood work, us's etc are all covered. I'll try and find the name of the group online and post it but there are women in toronto, a group of them who do surrogacy for nothing. All you do is pay for the insems if going iui or ivf route. These are the same women who after giving birth to your baby, continue to pump so they can fill bottles and give to babies in the NICU...