I vote for the " out" with my dh. I don't think I've ever been with a guy that has kept going while sleeping. I would NOT be happy waking up to thaat going on!!
SgtHalesWife- do you know if they recomend having your OH do it in the cup, then putting it in, or having OH finish indside then put the cup in? I wonder if Oing while having it in multiple times is beneficial?
Me and my wandering thoughts..