mid term ttc!

[Wallie]

Well got me so I'm onto cycle 7. I'm with you Mrs Macnamara and I've started to think on the same lines. I've got things coming up over the next two months and friends coming to stay. Hopefully they will take my mind off TTC.

Dissapointed this month as AF arrived 2 days early which meant that I only had a 7 day LP - 2 days shorter than last month! I'm going to continue with B50 complex but obviously it's going to take me longer than a couple of months to sort out my LP. So less stressing may help me on that one.

I'll still be coming on here though but maybe just not posting.

 

[claire99991]

BizyBee, while I'm sorry to hear that the Witch showed up for you, I bet you're glad to be able to start trying again. It must be awful feeling so unsure...and extremely frustrating! FX'd for you!

So I hate to sound totally negative, and I don't want to bring you all down with me, but I am pretty much over this TTC. I don't think I will be coming to the BnB so much - actually, I my trips here have been becoming less and less frequent anyway. I think that somewhere in my heart I'm finally beginning to HONESTLY and FULLY accept that this is completely out of my control.
I have an obsessive personality as it is, and while I have been struggling to control some aspect of this TTC, I finally see (FOR ME!) that it's just not going to happen before it's supposed to and I have no idea when it will. I'm so tired of the disappointment each month and symptom-spotting and just being generally over-aware of my body. I'm done with it. I pray for all of us who are TTC every day and I will continue to do so. I will also continue to check in on my Mid-Term TTC'ers because I love you ladies and will miss you!

Good luck ladies and God Bless!!!!!!! I will probably be checking in once or twice a week...

i can completly understand your descion i dont venture into the trying to conceive section anymore i limit myself to cycle buddy threads i wish you all the luck in the world xxx

 

[claire99991]

wallie so sorry arrived good luck for this cycle lucky number 7!! xxx

bizzybee oh gosh i bet its a relief this cylcle has ended for you! my OH has sperm test this week as well so good luck for all your tests this week i get my cd21 results on wed fingers crossed for us both xx

 

[bobobaby]

Well got me so I'm onto cycle 7. I'm with you Mrs Macnamara and I've started to think on the same lines. I've got things coming up over the next two months and friends coming to stay. Hopefully they will take my mind off TTC.

Dissapointed this month as AF arrived 2 days early which meant that I only had a 7 day LP - 2 days shorter than last month! I'm going to continue with B50 complex but obviously it's going to take me longer than a couple of months to sort out my LP. So less stressing may help me on that one.

I'll still be coming on here though but maybe just not posting.

You may want to consider uping your dosage of B complex to 100, especially if your LP doesn't get longer again next month.

 

[cutie4evr01]

Bizy I'm sorry got you! It will be nice to go ahead and get started on those tests so you can figure out what's going on. Good luck!

mrsmcnamara, I too understand what you're saying and am struggling to let go of control myself. It certainly will happen in its own time. Please do visit back once in a while and be sure to let us know when you get your BFP! I too have stopped coming on here as frequently as I used to (still check in every day or two though), and tend to stay here in cycle buddies instead of regular TTC. It's still very emotional for me every cycle.

Wallie, so sorry got you hun. Good luck with cycle 7 - I'm hoping it will be lucky since so many people are starting cycle 7 together.

Claire I'm glad to hear your OH will be having his SA done this week and you'll get your results also - it will be a relief to be sure everything is ok. Less than a week until testing for you now, right? I'm starting to get excited for you!

 

[claire99991]

cutie due for me next sat wont test unless AF late am not getting my hopes up thou am dreading wednesday gettig the results just have such a bad feeling about it.

 

[BizyBee]

Wallie, sorry got you too!

 

[Mrs G]

There are so many of us on cycle 7 this month, it's got to be a good sign!!

 

[mrsmcnamara]

Thank you ladies! You are wonderful and you brought tears to my eyes with all of your love and support...I thank God for you all and I will definitely be checking in to put in my smart-ass, two-cents worth of opinions every now and again. LOL. Good luck to all you Cycle 7 ladies - well, good luck to us all!

 

[claire99991]

how is everyone doing?

my OH had his sperm test today he did it at home then took it to the hospital there didnt look like there was much in the pot results next monday for him. My cd21 results this wednesday. Im nervous.

9dpo for me no signs of no signs of have no sore boobs no cramps no backache nothing lol

 

[cutie4evr01]

I think it's ok if there wasn't much there for his SA - it should be good enough for them to tell. I read somewhere that they like to do it twice (not sure if that's everyone or just in specific cases), so I'm sure if they didn't get what they needed they'll just ask him to do it again. Don't be worried about your results, I'm sure everything is fine! Be sure to let us know when you hear.

6dpo for me (or 4dpo depending - FF has marked 4 if I use the advanced detector or 6 if I use to research detector). No symptoms for me either - I had slightly sore boobs after Ov, but that's typical for me, and now that has gone away. A little bit of creamy cm today and yesterday, but also typical unfortunately. I'm hoping for some symptoms over the next week. Good luck to all!

 

[Mrs G]

how is everyone doing?

my OH had his sperm test today he did it at home then took it to the hospital there didnt look like there was much in the pot results next monday for him. My cd21 results this wednesday. Im nervous.

9dpo for me no signs of no signs of have no sore boobs no cramps no backache nothing lol

Word of advice about oh's results. If he has to get them from his dr, ask for a copy of them. I was warned about this and it happened to us, they said everything is "fine" but when you actually look at the figures it's not really that good. I think drs say "fine" unless the results are really really low. I guess if you're going to a specialist they would be better.

Don't worry about the quantity, I read somewhere that as long as it's over a teaspoon, it's fine! Like cutie said, my dh is going back tomorrow for a second test to check results. If nhs will pay for it, do it - us ttcers don't get anything else from them!!

FX!

 

[aneageraussie]

how is everyone doing?

my OH had his sperm test today he did it at home then took it to the hospital there didnt look like there was much in the pot results next monday for him. My cd21 results this wednesday. Im nervous.

9dpo for me no signs of no signs of have no sore boobs no cramps no backache nothing lol

Claire its good that ur not spotting any symtomps of .. im keeeping FX for your tests ... it will be alright.. it has to be..
Im 7 CD today so my friday i will be 10 CD and serious weekend.. lol

 

[claire99991]

anegaraussie whooooo nearly BDing time!! how exciting.

although im not symptom spotting my boobs are getting a little niggly right on scheduale for

 

[BizyBee]

My husband had his SA done today also. I dropped it off this morning and got a call this afternoon. Everything is good (we checked the figures online) so that's a relief . I assumed our troubles are related to me since my cycles are so long, but it's good to know that only one of us has problems to worry about. I am on CD4 today and if I Ov it probably won't be for another 40 days or so... Next thing to look forward to is my CD21 bloodwork!

 

[claire99991]

bizzybee wow that is great im so pleased for you!!! we will get ours in a week but i guess thats quite good for nhs, roll on day 21 bloodwork xxxx

 

[BizyBee]

I've heard on here that it can take the NHS up to a month, so I'm glad it will only be a week for you. I hope your SA & CD21 bloodwork goes well!

 

[bobobaby]

That's great news BizyBee!!

 

[BizyBee]

Yeah, I woke up this morning with renewed excitement! I am so glad I don't have to worry about that anymore!

 

[claire99991]

10dpo backache, sore boobs, stinking mood...guess who is on her way to see me!

Rang docs to see if the cd21 results was bk yet and she snapped ring back at 2 they dont give results before that