My MIL is a dummy.
As some of you might know.. I REFUSE to be around her at this point, but OH goes over there with LO. So today, she texts OH so she can see LO because her other grandchild is there and she wants them to play togther.
OH drags himself over there right before her grandson is being put to bed(he's spending the night as he does most weekends). While there MIL explains to OH about her vacation. Apparently, MIL and FIL are going to vacation in North Carolina and are asking OH to take care of their dogs while they're gone. It seems that MIL and FIL, their two other children, and her other DILS are all going on vacation together and didn't.. as always.. ask OH. Her excuse(which she explained without OH asking) was that they HAD to go on vacation then because the rates were cheaper. While we would have NEVER have gone, it speaks volumes. This is also vaguely annoying because when I was in the hospital having LO they wouldn't come over here and take care of OUR animals for US.
She followed this up by telling OH that we should leave LO with her while we go out somewhere. He tells her that she knew we didn't do that kind of thing. She then said that we could go to dinner and leave LO with her. OH explains that if we go out to dinner we just take her with us. She says again that we should leave her alone with her... OH responds with " What's a matter, don't you like me?"... and then she FINALLY dropped it. I think he did a GREAT job of deflecting her.
She then adviced OH that LO has a "pot belly". MIL is obsessed with weight and has made it known that she doesn't like "fat" babies. LO however, is in the lower 35% percentile.
OH tells her that LO is actually tiny. At this point, FIL.. who has been silent, gets annoyed with MIL and cuts in and says she needs to come over and help him with the firewood. This was lost on MIL who didn't understand why he needed "help". OH says it was clear that FIL was aggrivated with her.. which it should annoy him since we told her to stop doing this crap and she still does it.
Tell me why I allow her to see my daugher again? She better not pull this weight crap when LO gets old enough to understand...she'll find herself cut off again.