I've worried about really random crazy things... (these have all since passed, so please don't think I'm crazy... I look back and laugh at how protective and overthoughtful I was
) There is one acception***
We went to a party and people were smoking and I was out on the deck, so it wasn't in my face, but I worried it would really harm the baby just being around it and almost worked myself up... so I went inside, still worrying.
I worried after eating 1/2 a turkey sandwich about listeria and the possibility of harming the baby... so as I'm trying to eat the sandwich and relax, my stomach decided I'm full and I through it out. (my mind took over that one).
I was CRAVING Coca-Cola one day and I took a nice big gulp with satisfaction, then after staring at the can and thinking of how good I had been NOT having a single drop of caffeine, that I felt guilty and worried I could overstimulate the baby since we weren't at the 2nd trimester yet.
I worried about having sex, that the roughness would cause a miscarriage. I was so scared of any force to my tummy (including pushing too hard when constipated HAHAHA SORRY for too much information!!)
***I read somewhere and it was confirmed by my doctor that the baby pretty much breathes off of clothing, so if someone smoked a cigarette outside then came in and held the baby the tar on the clothes would go into the lungs. Sadly it's true, so this is STILL a worry of mine... on Easter I told my MIL who smokes like a chimney that if she smokes, she needs to bring a tshirt to change into and wash up to the sleeve before coming near the baby... I know it sounds ridiculous, but I don't smoke... and I see no reason to chance harm to my baby.