gilz82
Me, OH & beautiful Noah
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Thanks very much Peanut. We do have a union I'm not a member though. I'll have a good look at all the info and go back to my boss on Monday. I'm just really glad I raised this with my work now and didn't wait til I was on mat leave, think that would only have made things worse.
On the money thing it's not too personal. We don't pool all our money. We both have separate accounts with a joint house account. We each put money in the account to cover rent, bills and food etc. The rest of my money goes to covering my car loan and mobile etc and until the baby arrives some savings each month. Same for my OH but in his account.
It does seem strange but at the same time I think it's an age thing. None of my friends even the married ones have all their money in one account. That wasn't meaning you were old cos I know we are similar ages I just mean compared to what our parents automatically did a lot of our generation keep things separate.
My OH makes double what I do and if we pooled our money I'd forever feel like I was spending his money if that makes sense. Maybe it doesn't make sense
On the money thing it's not too personal. We don't pool all our money. We both have separate accounts with a joint house account. We each put money in the account to cover rent, bills and food etc. The rest of my money goes to covering my car loan and mobile etc and until the baby arrives some savings each month. Same for my OH but in his account.
It does seem strange but at the same time I think it's an age thing. None of my friends even the married ones have all their money in one account. That wasn't meaning you were old cos I know we are similar ages I just mean compared to what our parents automatically did a lot of our generation keep things separate.
My OH makes double what I do and if we pooled our money I'd forever feel like I was spending his money if that makes sense. Maybe it doesn't make sense