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No update from me.

Sk glad your getting help fingers crossed you will get it sorted without tablets! Proud of you for getting help !!

Alex is doing awesome!!

Madly glad things are looking up for your sister!

Good luck Kate hope all goes to plan for you!!

Can't remember anything else but hope everyone is ok

Xx
 
oh noooo! just did the worlds worst ever pee sneeze! i didnt even think i needed a wee when i did it so didnt prepare myself goodness me! tmi but had to check it was in fact pee sneeze lol lol thank god dh is currently downstairs lol i was wearing tan trousers so massive bum patch clearly visible! doi!

thanks tas just printed off some pics we took of leo when he was in the incubator to show the woman tomorrow, like they say a picture is worth a thousand words, i would post it on here but it is really upsetting, i cant believe my baby went through all that! he really is my strong little leo lion xkx
 
Aww it must of been heart breaking Kate I can't imagine that! Your really strong to cope with that!

Xx
 
i hate having to relieve it, like i said the other day i want a third but there is no way i am going to get pregnant again without sorting my head out. i know if i get a section this time a third would be likely but we dont know what they will decide in the future, if there are several years between this and the third they might consider it low risk in the future due to the amount of time and i will go through all this again, it is not healthy for me to hang on to all of this for as long as i have let alone for years and years to come
 
Well I hope you get help with your head and the NHS steps up to the Mark this time!!

How's Leo been today? X
 
well if it isnt one thing with leo its another but all reasons for being violent get executed against me

today it has been so hot which got him wound up before bed, i understnad that because the heat is winding me up good and proper lol he calmed down after his bath but also he got annoyed this morning because today was the first day dh was around for the last two weeks and he spent the first three hours getting his jobs done ie not being in the same room as us so i chucked them out the flat, i cant go out but they bloody well could

after burning some energy and spending some quality time with daddy we actually had a really good afternoon with him.

just cant wait until i can go out again with out getting dizzy and for all the other toddler groups to reopen after the hols to get him stimulated and entertained properly again
 
I felt like that in my pregnancy with Caleb then I felt guilty because I always took Caden out even if it was just to the park so I've started making up for it now but still find it hard to get out!
I've decided to do most of my quiet cleaning on an evening so I can spend more time doing fun stuff with boys! I've just finished cleaning my kitchen and realised it was 1am so thought best come to bed lol!

Xx
 
Don't know if anyone is about still but wanted to ask... early labour, can you remember what your pains were like? I've been losing bloody show since 6pm yesterday, been getting aches too but the last couple of hours have been having semi regular pains every 20 minutes or so. It's like a band across the middle of my stomach that tenses up and then I get pulsating pain (not very painful at the mo though) every few seconds, and this will go on for about 30 seconds-1 minute at a time :wacko:
 
Hiyas Hun!!! I would call the midwife and explain your symptoms. I think Thomas is coming!!!!

:cry: sad days. My moms cousin who is younger than her is dying of cancer. Why does this happen to such young and wonderful people? It's just not fair! There are so many evil people in the world! Let them die from cancer!
 
Morning all

sounds like we might finally have another grad baby making an appearence soon, im sure sequeena. Im not much help to you as i didnt have a natrual labour, so yours will be different, it sounds very promising though!

Ozzie, makes you wonder doesnt it, although sometimes the nasty people get it and we just dont hear about it, i know of one person inparticulalr.

Well, believe it or not, in the 2 hrs before bed i managed to tank bailey up, between dozes on 200ml!. Anyway, he slept right though!:thumbup:,only one thing pissed me off though, at 4.45am the cat started scratching at our door and then pushed it open,Dh had taken the plastic mat from under to door away(because he didnt like it),so it gave the cats free reign to scratch, so i had to get up, find the mat and shooo the cats away, i was pissed off, as we all would have had a lovely sleep. Bailey managed to doze on till 5.50am though.

It was soooo warm last night(and thats in our downstairs bedrooms which are usually cool!). Now its just very dark, and very still and damp out.

Tas,i dont blame you what you say about the cleaning, i remember my mother being obcessed with cleaning etc, she would never come on days out with us, my dad would take us in the end. As you know she was hardly a model mother anyway, but she really didnt make the effort at all, something i will learn from:growlmad:
 
Sorry madly,
just read back over the posts and found your replies to what i had previously written. I usually get 5oz into bailey ever 3-4 hours hun, but the really bad night was when he had the jabs, and ive read that can upset the sleeping patterns. As i say, last night between his late evening snoozing i managed to get 200ml into him lol! and he slept right thru again!.

Thats really good news about your sister hun, will her other half learn to stay away though??
 
Morning all. I was about to bath Indigo but she has just fallen asleep! We've a busy morning. Going to collect 500 photos got going in albums; some food and bits and bobs; present for my nephew. Need to walk the dog and have lunch then call in the post office on the way to get Byron from nursery before we head down to Wales to see my parents.

Sequeena I've put a big post in your journal. Hope it's helpful and not patronising! :lol:

Nomore I agree, you really need to get through your trauma from Leo's birth. For Byron I held it in for nearly two years and really it was ttc that brought it out, I was so afraid of facing another awful birth experience. What helped me was understanding how it happened; what decisions I made affected the outcome and how they could be avoided; what decisions/policies/actions made by the mws affected the outcome and how they could've been avoided; and, crucially, learning about natural birth and when intervention IS necessary, what I can do to avoid it etc. I put so much work into preparing myself this time and it did really pay off. I think women sometimes think that sort of preparation is what home and natural northers do and if they want a hospital birth it's no relevant but in some ways it's more relevant. I think we could all stand to have a better understanding of birth in our country. Indigo's birth didn't fix Byron's, nothing can, but I fairly made my peace emotionally. I'm still angry with the hospital but I don't cry about it anymore whereas before I couldn't even think about it without crying. I so hope you can find a way to deal with it. For me science and facts help but that wouldn't be for everyone. :hugs:
 
pb you talk so much sense and before 8am too lol yeah i am an emotional centric talker, i already know that if they had just listened to me all the way through my pregnancy about him feeling big and having hig sugar levels instead of physically laughin g at the suggestion like one person did then it would never ever of happened. for me its trust on every single level within the "giving birth" medical structure . . . .

argh dh has given us his sore throat and stinking cold :(

so when i went into labour ididnt have any signs whatsoever and believe me i was looking for them i went two weeks over in fact i probably invented a couple to make myself feel better. this time round i have already had very painful what i think were braxtons which went on for a fair amount of time which my gp has described as false labour and says it may all happen soon, and last night after that horrific pee sneeze i felt like i was literally leaking discharge, it defo wasnt leaking waters but the amount had me scratching my head. well this mornign, and get ready to be put off your cornflakes, lots and lots of stringy snot like rubbish and i mean lots. will be mentioning all of this to the head midwife today, might as well and see what she thinks, i am worried i will go into labour before i get signed off for section eek!
 
Morning ladies

Hope your all well!

Caleb is 16weeks old today can't believe how fast it has gone....I think I might be in denial that he is growing up as I really don't wanna wean him I've read a book and bought spoons bowls and rice but I just don't wanna do it...I just want him to be a baby forever and stay drinking from bottles do I sound selfish? I'm proper cut up that it's getting closer to wean him...with Caden I was excited that he was growing up but now i just dont want him to grow up! Feels like life is going too fast and I can't slow it down!

I use to clean up on an evening when Caden was younger I can zone into my cleaning an get out with it lol I proper sounds sad but I do enjoy cleaning and making my house look nice.

Cat glad Bailey slept through last night did you do anything different last night?

Pb your always busy lol how's the house renovations coming?

What's everyone else got planned today? Obviously sequeena is trying to get her labour going lol good luck again!

Xx
 
i am going outside!!!! outside! tee hee hee never been so pleased to see rain lol

i think after my appointment i should really make an effort to buy the things required for my hospital bag and whats left over to buy for baby . . . . should have sorted this out ages ago, i am totally tempting fate
 
Kate the last few weeks I lost loads of that! On the morning of my indication I lost loads like a few hand fulls so I was excited but thought I'm getting induced anyway so I think I was in slow labour coz for a week before I felt horrible then I got a sweep and felt worse for two days then got induced!
Hope it's happening slightly for you if you know what I mean! Hopefully they'll decide you can have a sections then say your in slow labour so Rachel will come soon!!

Xx
 
yeah i know what you mean, i have read loads that people lose it over a few weeks inmost cases, i didnt even see mine at all with leo!

i keep spelling my baby's name wrong . . . dh chose the spelling so threw an extra a in there Rachael . . . oh dear lol that should be an indication of things to come might have to have a word lol
 
Nomore it will never be spelt right my borth certificate is even wrong so I have now switched to being Joanne instead of Joane.

Sofie if your Bipolar its a very mild case and I would deffinatly ask for a referal to a psychiatrist for a deffinate diagnosis because it's a label you don't want if you don't have it and Iam sure you don't want mood stabalisers either yournot going nutty with a credit card or doing anything dangeros. Ooops sorry bee in my bonnet.

PB I was wondering if you quit work as your the bread winner what will you do finacially?

Yay for your sister Madly, or last flat was lovely the area not so. We now live in a dodgy postcode bt nice area if you get my menaing.

Yay for rain. I'm really looking foward to teh toddler stage there is loads round here to do that doesn't mean taking the car.

As for me i finally got abby through the bath last night she would only take 3oz then to bed she woke at 3 took the other 3oz and tiny bit more then back to sleep til 5 when she was just dozey even snggled up with me.Handed her over to matt at 7 shes only had 2oz so far this morning and we are due to be swimming at 11.30 she has now conked out on her play mat.


Eugh Matts friends having his stag doo tomorrow ( organising it himself says it all really). Matts gottomnorrow night off but they are meeting to play footy at moiddady this will only give Matt 4 hours sleep he doesn't sound that intrested and is coming home early, I'm picking them up. How do I encourage him just to go later for the lunch because it's stupid he's going to be tierd and cranky.

Oh i am also defering abbys jabs to next week its still uncomfortable here and i want matt home if shes doean't respond well. Plus I am getting my smear latere don't want 2 grumpy people tonight lol
 
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