I haven't found moving out to be too hard, but definitely not as easy as living at home. Less hands to help, more jobs for me. The main thing I struggle with is keeping the house clean! I have a lot on my plate and something has to give, that's what it is in our house. It'd be much better if OH helped
Finances are manageable, adjustments have been made, but I pretty well can afford what I want, it just sometimes takes some saving and planning, budgeting..
I'm 21, 22 this fall and living with my OH who is 22, 23 in the summer.
Not on any benefits, just getting 'baby bonus' which is I guess like tax credits somewhat.
Tips on moving out.. I guess I'd say save as much as you possibly can, I had about $5,000 saved. We bought a house and OH put down the down payment and handled those costs, but wasn't left with much for furniture, thankfully our fridge, stove, washer, dryer and a freezer were included. When we got the place we did a massive clean sweep, scrubbed walls, counters, floors, cupboards, appliances..
We spent about $3,000 on furniture: a new couch, love seat, chair, bed, 2 dressers, night stand, mattress & box spring. I would have had to spend money on a dining room set but my friend had one she was getting rid of, so it's not in the best condition but I got that. Then my parents paid for my LO's new dresser. We had a TV I had from home for a few months then bought a new one, our dryer died so we also bought a new washer and dryer set after about 4 months living here.
Paint, curtain rods, blinds, curtains can be a big expense.
I got my plates at Ikea, we won a toaster oven, my parents gave us an old toaster and kettle, his parents gave us an old George Foreman grill and a love seat, his friend gave us an entertainment center, I left my coffee table from my bedroom @ my mum's at her place when I left so they bought me 2 end tables, aside from that decorations, furniture, etc have been slowly purchased whatever we can afford month by month. We didn't have a microwave even for like 6 months, we managed without but it's so convenient to have now!
Make a list of what you need, and cross things off as you go.. everything- towels, lamps, plates, utensils, pans, etc. Let relatives/friends know you're looking for things since people are usually looking to get rid of SOMETHING, and it'll be a start until you can afford to replace it with something new.