My First Response Ovulation Test

[jtink28]

had one opk left from last month....of course. should have thrown them away!
did it today, and it's positive. so, looks like i O tomorrow or sunday.

DH and have been BD'ing every other day faithfully, so FX crossed. sigh. i hate this 2ww!!

 

[abagailb14]

Awesome jtink! I got my first positive yesterday at cd19!

 

[sunflower82]

I don't think I will be doin.ovulation test this month
I missed two fertile days already because we were on
Vacation and at a relstives house do i still have time
Or I'm out again

 

[jtink28]

sunflower, girl, you need to stop being sad and worried. that is only causing your body stress and harm!

throw out the ovulation kits, BD every other day (or as close to it as you can) and hope for the best. the less you stress, the better. you can O different days of your cycle, so your "fertile days" can always be different - don't go strictly by the calender.

just get your DH to BD as often as possible. (and DO NOT tell him it's because you're fertile. nothing is more of a turn-off for a man)
sex should be fun. so make it fun, and maybe soon there will be a baby because of that fun!

 

[sunflower82]

Lol yes jtink your right I will try not to
Stress my self out

 

[sunflower82]

I feel so upset I have missed three fertile days as hubby
Didnt want sex last nite

 

[jtink28]

I don't know what to tell you, sunflower.

It sounds like you need to sit down with your DH and make sure the two of you are on the same page. Perhaps he's unsure about having a 2nd child right now. Perhaps he thinks you've become all-consumed by "baby talk" and he's so turned off by it that he no longer wants to have sex.

Stress can also affect men's bodies as well. You need to sit down and have a calm, rational and logical conversation with your DH, and explain to him how you feel, and what you want. However, you can't be too emotional, and you can freak out and cry if it doesn't go the way you want it to. Your DH has a say about having a 2nd child, too!

I think you two need to talk and get on the same page. After that, things will go more smoothly.

Good luck!!

 

[sunflower82]

I have talked to him he does want a baby he was just tired
We did it twice last nite

 

[Forrest]

Hi .. how is everyone? Hope all is well. For me, af only lasted 2days. Finally it's waiting to O and bd
I was reading that I should bd BEFORE ovulation and during. Is that why I didn't get a bean? I only bd after seeing the +opk. I think I will be testing twice a day this cycle. What do you guys think?

 

[sunflower82]

Good luck Forrest

 

[jtink28]

yes, Forrest, it's best to BD BEFORE you get a +opk. why don't you try BD'ing every 2 days before that +opk? then when you get the +opk, BD as much as possible?

pretty sure i O'ed Saturday or Sunday, so the tww just started for me. sigh. i don't have a lot of hope anymore. what can you do?

 

[sunflower82]

Hmm don't stress jtink and good luck.

 

[sunflower82]

I got my pos ovulation test will post the pic in a bit.

 

[sunflower82]

here is my test from today looks pos i hope this month i will get prego

 

[aknqtpie]

I just looked at your positive pics.. glad you posted them. I was curious how dark they got.. but it looks like if they are about the same shade. I think I either have a positive or am near it... either way.. my husband better be ready for a BD marathon lol.

 

[Forrest]

yes, Forrest, it's best to BD BEFORE you get a +opk. why don't you try BD'ing every 2 days before that +opk? then when you get the +opk, BD as much as possible?

pretty sure i O'ed Saturday or Sunday, so the tww just started for me. sigh. i don't have a lot of hope anymore. what can you do?

Good luck to you. Just relax and enjoy your tww. I can't wait to get a bfp. I saw on the local news in Ny where a woman strangled her 2 year old toddler just because he was crying and I'm so angry that such unworthy people are bless with babies so what about us? It's so unfair!!!

 

[sunflower82]

Omg what a evil mother she killed her own baby

 

[jtink28]

yes, Forrest, it's best to BD BEFORE you get a +opk. why don't you try BD'ing every 2 days before that +opk? then when you get the +opk, BD as much as possible?

pretty sure i O'ed Saturday or Sunday, so the tww just started for me. sigh. i don't have a lot of hope anymore. what can you do?

Good luck to you. Just relax and enjoy your tww. I can't wait to get a bfp. I saw on the local news in Ny where a woman strangled her 2 year old toddler just because he was crying and I'm so angry that such unworthy people are bless with babies so what about us? It's so unfair!!!

I feel terribly sorry for that little child, and honestly, his mother as well. What she did was an evil thing, and she should have gotten the mental help she needed. She probably had PPD or PPS. Sad. Just sad.

I'm not as stressed about the tww this time around, because I honestly don't think I will get my BFP on my own. I think I may have to talk to some doctors...but I hope I am wrong.

 

[sunflower82]

Aww I hope you get your bfp this time jtink
Just relax that's what I'm trying to do

 

[sunflower82]

Abagail Forrest jtink where are u ladies whats new