Well, I have been doing some "other nice things" for him , so he doesn't get too frustrated, but I just feel bad... But, the truth is that I just dont feel comfortable... We have a "date night" tomorrow, dinner out, and them some place after, and I feel like it will be this big let-down when we come home, and I dont want to do it... I think I'll talk to him about it tonight. He will say he understands, but I wonder if he actually will...