Liz, I set up my fertility friend acct and added a chart How do I link it and do my siggy??
It's totally normal honey.My SIL just started injections for IVF. She's supposed to have the IVF done the first week in February. Is it bad that I'm scared that she will beat me to the punch and get preggers before me?? I feel like such a bad person for thinking that way, but it was supposed to be me first!! As bad as this sounds, I wanted to have the attention of being the first one preggers and have the first grandchild for my parents.
I'm sorry hun. Having an October baby would be nice too.. This way you could be 8 months pregnant on your anniversary and hubby can pamper youWell she showed her ugly face. I was really wanting a septmber baby cuz our anniversary is september 6th.
It's totally normal honey.My SIL just started injections for IVF. She's supposed to have the IVF done the first week in February. Is it bad that I'm scared that she will beat me to the punch and get preggers before me?? I feel like such a bad person for thinking that way, but it was supposed to be me first!! As bad as this sounds, I wanted to have the attention of being the first one preggers and have the first grandchild for my parents.
I was bummed that my SIL was pregnant first. But I took comfort in the fact that soon I'd be the next one pregnant (this what I was telling myself last year)
Imagine my delight when she got pregnant AGAIN before me. I wanted to be the one to give them all the 2nd grandchild. Well, she's due to pop that one any day now...
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Congratulationssssssssss on your BFP. Just read it on the SMEP thread. So happy for you
Liz
You have to update the thread title to 3 bfps
My SIL just started injections for IVF. She's supposed to have the IVF done the first week in February. Is it bad that I'm scared that she will beat me to the punch and get preggers before me?? I feel like such a bad person for thinking that way, but it was supposed to be me first!! As bad as this sounds, I wanted to have the attention of being the first one preggers and have the first grandchild for my parents.
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Congratulationssssssssss on your BFP. Just read it on the SMEP thread. So happy for you
It's not bad at all, atleast thats what I'm telling myself. My SIL just started her shots too, they are having IVF done in Feb. I hate talking to her about it and I get so frustrated b/c my BIL dosen't even want another kid, he had a VS after he had his first 2 kids. And he is only doing it to make her happy b/c she dosent have kids. What he said to her about having a baby blows my mind, He said "the only thing I'm worried about is you turning into a b*tch when we get divorced" Key word WHEN. Wouldn't that set off some red flags?!?!?!? I just feel so sorry for the kid that is going to have to grow up in that type of enviroment!!!! Sorry this is so long I just had to vent.
It's not bad at all, atleast thats what I'm telling myself. My SIL just started her shots too, they are having IVF done in Feb. I hate talking to her about it and I get so frustrated b/c my BIL dosen't even want another kid, he had a VS after he had his first 2 kids. And he is only doing it to make her happy b/c she dosent have kids. What he said to her about having a baby blows my mind, He said "the only thing I'm worried about is you turning into a b*tch when we get divorced" Key word WHEN. Wouldn't that set off some red flags?!?!?!? I just feel so sorry for the kid that is going to have to grow up in that type of enviroment!!!! Sorry this is so long I just had to vent.
Don't apologize for venting CLW... what your BIL said is just awful! Definitely not the warm and secure environment we all hope to bring our little ones into. There's just no understanding why some people actively work to have babies they don't really care about.