So hubby and I had our first official Fertility Fight! In 2.5 years this is the first time we have actually had it out. It just breaks my heart even worse.
So to make a long story short, he ran into a friend of ours last night that was seeing our same RE. She was telling hubby that she wasn't seeing Dr. B anymore and that she had a really horrible experience with him. She said after 2 years, she still wasn't pregnant and was out of pocket over 15K dollars. She said she wanted to get a second opinion from Dr. W.
She told hubby that after her first visit with Dr. W, he told her that she couldn't have children. He also said that could have been determined at her first visit/lab work with Dr. B. Apparently her AMH level was a flat 0. So, she told hubby that she feels she wasted money/time with Dr. B and that he knew the whole time she couldn't have children and that his office is a money pit.
My hubby, who is very influenced from others, decided that we are not going back to our RE. It just upsets me because I feel we have come so far. IUI with Dr. B is approximately 500 dollars for us and with Dr. W it would be about 75 dollars each. So that alone makes me want to also get a second opinion since we are currently waiting to try, but I just hate change and we have been with Dr. B for so long now.
To make matters worse, we were still waiting for hubby's blood work from our genetic screening. It has been 3 weeks today so I called them this morning, and the nurse called me back and said they have had the results for a few days but the bloodwork was normal. So they didn't even bother to call me and talk to me about it. I feel discouraged with that alone because we have been waiting to hear something.
I just don't know what to do. Change to cheaper doctor or keep on our same path? Frustrated....