I am still around lol, I have just been busy. My great uncle passed away recently and we've had the funeral and what not. Plus I have been feeling down about ttc and I'm trying really hard not to obsess this month just to be let down again. I just found out another one of my friends is pregnant. But enough about me. Do you get to pick out your own ring Carla? Ana sorry to hear you haven't gotten your preseed, have you tried the grapefruit juice at all? Some women report that it really helps