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[Sweetmama26]

Hi girls, I'm just gonna be your cheerleader for awhile, I'm really not in a good spot right now

 

[pickle76]

What's up Sweetmama? xx

 

[moochacha]

Hehe I've been a nurse for some years now and we use to say if you can do your job and eat at the nurses station then you're a real nurse eg I checked someones bowls internally for movements then went and finished my lunch was a real I'm a nurse moment for me hehe. It's amazing how much you get use to, when I was doing work experience at Uni it took me weeks to get use to the smell of a hospital.

 

[moochacha]

Hi girls, I'm just gonna be your cheerleader for awhile, I'm really not in a good spot right now

Hope you're ok! What's happening?

 

[pickle76]

You're my hero Moochacha - I'm such a wimp! We're so lucky to have people like you and Never's DH - where would we be if me and my DH were responsible for these things?!

 

[pickle76]

Yes sweetmama - tell us what's happening....

 

[foxyloxy28]

Hope you are ok sweetmama

 

[moochacha]

You're my hero Moochacha - I'm such a wimp! We're so lucky to have people like you and Never's DH - where would we be if me and my DH were responsible for these things?!

hehehe the only thing that really bothers me are eye injuries, a couple of times when I've felt skirmish are from injuries like a pencil in the eye or any object really makes me weak at the knees. I'm ok with complicated fractures, head injuries and everything else but eye's.

Everyday or evening is different especially as a Nursing Practitioner I see loads of broken bones in the ER, lots of accidents like poles, wire stuck in peoples limbs hehe. It's complex and interesting. Though we get loads of weirdo's in the ER loads of drunks, people tripping on drugs, overdose and suicide.

 

[pickle76]

It must be SOO intense a lot of the time. It's funny - eyes get me too. And toe nails hehe. Oh and of course the vomit. Other stuff I'm not too bad with but of course that comes from someone who's never worked in an emergency dept.....I do work in a pharmacy lol does that count?! And the rest of the time I work on the internet from home so I'm nicely cocooned from the world hehe xx

 

[moochacha]

Heheh I'm studying to become a primary school teacher, I'm sick of the working hours and it's a very physical job. I want to be cocooned from the world!! What kind of at home work do you do? I always admire people who are able to work from home!!! I have zero self control, I'd end up playing wii or something heheh

 

[Sweetmama26]

I think me and DF are splitting up. He's staying with his aunt and he won't come here without them escorting him. He isn't allowed to talk to me according to them and they made him get a lawyer and serve me with eviction notice for the 28th of June, when I pay half the mortgage on my house. I know they are influencing him and dispite my best efforts to keep us together, I feel like my life is falling apart, he's all I have here where I live, and he's the only dad my son has and really he's been the only person involved in my son's life, and my son is sitting in his bed crying for daddy and I can't even call him.

 

[moochacha]

Oh that's sooo heartbreaking Sweetmama My heart really goes out to you, why is he's family doing this?

 

[Sweetmama26]

I dunno. I really don't. But I'm really upset

 

[dandybrush]

yay cornbread!! thats awesome, we all knew it was coming though

 

[dandybrush]

haha, i'm originally from AR so i feel you on the humidity germany isn't too bad though. hoping for a i've spent the last 30 minutes on yahoo trying to explain cervical mucous to DH. he is a medic so nothing grosses him out and he gets intrigued and ask so many questions. it's pretty cute

that is so cute haha my OH just doesnt care about whats happening my end

haha, i'm originally from AR so i feel you on the humidity germany isn't too bad though. hoping for a i've spent the last 30 minutes on yahoo trying to explain cervical mucous to DH. he is a medic so nothing grosses him out and he gets intrigued and ask so many questions. it's pretty cute

Lol my DH nearly retches at the mention of CM or even the thought of sperm and egg meeting and the whole 'internal' process! The only bit he's not sqeamish about is the BDing hahahahahaha! HOW he thinks he's gonna be at the birth is beyond me....

Im fine with puke..long as i dont smell it... i dont think anything fazes my OH

You're my hero Moochacha - I'm such a wimp! We're so lucky to have people like you and Never's DH - where would we be if me and my DH were responsible for these things?!

hehehe the only thing that really bothers me are eye injuries, a couple of times when I've felt skirmish are from injuries like a pencil in the eye or any object really makes me weak at the knees. I'm ok with complicated fractures, head injuries and everything else but eye's.

Everyday or evening is different especially as a Nursing Practitioner I see loads of broken bones in the ER, lots of accidents like poles, wire stuck in peoples limbs hehe. It's complex and interesting. Though we get loads of weirdo's in the ER loads of drunks, people tripping on drugs, overdose and suicide.

my problem is that the thought of pain makes me faint...an eg. we went to see my nephew when he was born and his mother was in bed with the epidural thing still in her back and telling us her story and how she ended up having a c section...the thought of the needle sitting in her back made me nearly pass out, i had to sit down (the story didnt help either )

I cant even look at needles when they are coming near me (or ill faint) ouch..

I dunno. I really don't. But I'm really upset

im terribly sorry for what you must be going through my thoughts are with you and your son

 

[mrskcbrown]

@sweetmama: Im so sorry that you are experiencing this. How horrible. Words are not enough to express how you are feeling right now. Ive been divorced so I know what you are going through. Im praying for you and will keep you in my prayers.

 

[Sweetmama26]

Thank you ladies

 

[Cornbread]

I'm so sorry, sweetmama.

 

[nevertogether]

Heheh I'm studying to become a primary school teacher, I'm sick of the working hours and it's a very physical job. I want to be cocooned from the world!! What kind of at home work do you do? I always admire people who are able to work from home!!! I have zero self control, I'd end up playing wii or something heheh

a girl that owns my heart! haha jk, i'm the same way moo. i don't think i have the attention span or the drive to do something like that on my own

 

[nevertogether]

sweetmama, i'm so sorry to hear everything you are going through hun. like mrskc said, there isn't much we can say to make things better...but regardless, i still hope that you are able to sort things out. you have all of us if you ever need anything